This post was spawned by a post by Feistylioness complaining about people picking on her about her bad parenting skills. She tends to post inflammatory controversial posts then plays victim when people get upset about here saying things like she hadn't ever met her sons Dr in person until that day and he had been his Dr for months and the poor boy has been in the hospital since he was born. You can read some of her pulled posts at the beginning of this blog. Many weren't saved.
Janet's pulled the responses but left her post and locked it. I did miss some of the responses but you get the idea of the community response.
janet
Mon May-11-09 03:27 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
44 posts
#422057, "Enough IS Enough"
Enough IS enough!
Henceforth, all negative comments to ANYONE or about anyone on our forum will be subject to removal as users on our forum. Let's all GROW UP now and quit hounding any poster. It seems that the same individuals work as a team, making our forum an unfriendly place.
If anyone sees unfriendly or inappropriate posts, please let me know immediately. Each one will be reviewed, and that poster will be permanently removed, and their IP address will banned.
This forum is for support, quality information and networking purposes. If any poster feels the need to criticize or belittle in any way another poster, they will be removed.
We have had people leave our forum because of the unfriendliness and bickering that goes on here. Just because one has been a long-time forum member will make no difference. Individuals who send poison messages spoil our forum for everyone!
No more warnings or just deleting of inappropriate posts. If you wish to utilize our forum, please do so with integrity. Otherwise, don't plan to have the opportunity to continue as a forum member.
THANK YOU!
Janet L. Bleyl
Founder and President
The Triplet Connection
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RE: Enough IS Enough, HOWMANY, May 11th 2009, #1
RE: Enough IS Enough, kylamel, May 11th 2009, #2
RE: Enough IS Enough, BYU49er, May 11th 2009, #6
RE: Enough IS Enough, BYU49er, May 11th 2009, #5
RE: Enough IS Enough, jeannies7, May 11th 2009, #3
RE: Enough IS Enough, mellbelljanell, May 11th 2009, #4
RE: Enough IS Enough, kg96nurse, May 11th 2009, #7
RE: Enough IS Enough, LolasLadies, May 11th 2009, #8
RE: Enough IS Enough, feistylioness78, May 11th 2009, #9
HOWMANY
Mon May-11-09 05:02 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1447 posts
#422086, "RE: Enough IS Enough"
In response to Reply # 0
I have been a memeber here since we found out we were expecting triplets.
This is the second time I have been slapped in the face by the owners of this site. Enough is enough for me.
There have been some things said that I feel are inapporiate, but to each their own, who am I to judge. That is for someone much higher then me or anyone else on this board.
But we are human after all and someone can only ask for advice and info and have every excuse in the book why they can't do the suggestions.
So do what ever you need to do Janet. But as for me leaving TC it is all on you, no one else.
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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kylamel
Mon May-11-09 07:59 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2225 posts
#422111, "RE: Enough IS Enough"
In response to Reply # 1
I understand that being a moderator on this board can be difficult.
I also understand that "hounding" someone is not appropriate.
However, in the instant case (that is Feisty), she purposely comes on this board to spark outrage or cause issues only for others to get reprimanded? I think that perhaps if you have a little time, review feistylioness' contributions to this site and you will see the most will be negative or self-absorbed. Perhaps if you removed the root of the problem (ie feisty), things would be more civil around here, but that is just my opinion (as a contributing member).
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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BYU49er
Mon May-11-09 08:45 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
229 posts
#422118, "RE: Enough IS Enough"
In response to Reply # 2
Anyone can ignore or stay out of any forum topic. For far too long there have been individuals on this forum who feel free to be rude and negative. This will not continue. If there is an inappropriate forum topic, please let me know and I will review it.
Janet Bleyl
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BYU49er
Mon May-11-09 08:27 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
229 posts
#422116, "RE: Enough IS Enough"
In response to Reply # 1
No one has been slapped in the face by the owners of this site. I have asked all members to be polite on this site. It is absolutely up to each member whether or not they remain.
Janet Bleyl
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jeannies7
Mon May-11-09 08:08 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
73 posts
#422112, "RE: Enough IS Enough"
In response to Reply # 0
I just want to say thank you. I've joined another group & post there regularly because I have felt very attacked on this site. Thank you for taking the time to see that HOM families can be safe on your site. Maybe now I can spend more time here learning from others that have BTDT.
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mellbelljanell
Mon May-11-09 08:17 PM
Member since Oct 05th 2008
202 posts
#422114, "RE: Enough IS Enough"
In response to Reply # 0
Thank you Janet. This makes me feel safer about posting. If people don't like another user its probably best to just not reply to threads posted by that user. Keeps the peace.
As thumper said...
Melissa
BBG
http://themarriottfam.blogspot.com
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kg96nurse
Mon May-11-09 08:49 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
931 posts
#422119, "RE: Enough IS Enough"
In response to Reply # 0
Thanks Janet. Now I can feel comfortable posting on this site. I have stopped for a while because of all the negative comments.
Karen
mom to ggg trips born 4/5/07
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LolasLadies
Mon May-11-09 09:08 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1803 posts
#422124, "RE: Enough IS Enough"
In response to Reply # 0
Janet,
I understand it can't be easy to run a site this active and with many diverse opinions.
That said, I wonder if you've had a chance to read all of the threads that the OP in question has started in the last two years, since most of them get pulled pretty quickly. This isn't just some innocent member who happens to get a sharp response - yes, that happens from time to time and is often dealt with properly.
I have yet to see this member take any advice seriously, or even respond to genuine offers of help. It is only the members who question her motives who get responses. That isn't being a contributing member of TC. Why not remove that member? I would hope someone would be brave enough to speak up for my child if I couldn't, and I certainly hope they wouldn't be removed for doing the right thing, even if it comes off as harsh.
Thank you for TC, but if standing up for that little boy means a few of us get kicked out, I guess that's the price that has to be paid. I refuse to stand by and let ANY mother come on here and make a mockery of this forum while her child waits for a visit, a hug, a trip HOME.
Sincerely,
Loren Varney
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
Everything but the Kids - http://ebtk.activeboard.com
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feistylioness78
Mon May-11-09 09:45 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
893 posts
#422140, "RE: Enough IS Enough"
In response to Reply # 8
My son is not waiting for a hug or a visit he gets plenty of that from his family. As far as as trip home the vent training needs to be done in order to do so. The preparations for that is almost complete.
I am meeting with another agency tomorrow to see when they can provide nursing for my son. No matter what I post on here I get attacked. Its a little more than standing up for a little boy he our son we love. It seems as if I am not the only that gets attacked on here. How do you know I don't take advice seriously? I never saw the Feisty post because it was pulled by another member. My son doesn't need any of you to speal up for him. He has his parents that know him best.
Our little angel
^Alex Joseph^ (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew
Christian Jacob
Born 11/04/07 at 26.5 weeks
Big brother Justin 8/04
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