Sun Jul-05-09 10:04 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1040 posts
#431256, "Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
Things are going well. The boys are 20 months today. C is doing great. Bren is doing great. I got a list of medi-cal indi nurses but all them but 5 are in oceanside.
Bren is now on zyrtec and has no more runny nose so mommy got that right. He will be seeing ortho in August. They are not sure when his next pulm appt is. He may be weaned off the vent if he c02 is ow enough. He needs o2 but that does not mean he needs to be on the vent to get he can be on the trache ring.
C is finally over 19 pounds. Took him to the er the other day for vomitting everything was worked well. He doesn not have medi-cal coverage this month but he has his CCS.
I went to the er yesterday. Turns out I have a pissy gall bladder. I need to see a GI. I have no insurance. This is the second attack that landed me in the er. My whole body is sore from throwing up so violently. My face looks like I got a bad chemical peel.
Other than that things are good. C gets to go to baby school in sept and he gets to go by bus.
Thanks for thinking of me.
FYI: I still I have stalker on here. Its so sad that a mom that needs to vent can't because of pple with nothing better to do. Come out come out where ever you are and we can have some words. You chicken.
Our little angel
^Alex Joseph^ (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew
Christian Jacob
Born 11/04/07 at 26.5 weeks
Big brother Justin 8/04
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RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, MargieInAZ, Jul 06th 2009, #1
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, feistylioness78, Jul 06th 2009, #2
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, MSTAR, Jul 06th 2009, #3
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, franjipani, Jul 06th 2009, #4
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, feistylioness78, Jul 06th 2009, #5
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, MSTAR, Jul 06th 2009, #6
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, Tasha, Jul 06th 2009, #9
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, MSTAR, Jul 06th 2009, #12
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, Tasha, Jul 06th 2009, #13
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, 3petes, Jul 06th 2009, #7
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, kylamel, Jul 06th 2009, #8
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, Heavensentme5, Jul 06th 2009, #11
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, 3petes, Jul 06th 2009, #14
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, LolasLadies, Jul 06th 2009, #17
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, Sabbra, Jul 06th 2009, #10
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, HOWMANY, Jul 06th 2009, #15
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, MSTAR, Jul 06th 2009, #16
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, feistylioness78, Jul 06th 2009, #18
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, MSTAR, Jul 07th 2009, #21
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, Tasha, Jul 07th 2009, #22
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, Tasha, Jul 07th 2009, #19
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, LolasLadies, Jul 07th 2009, #20
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, TiffaniRay, Jul 07th 2009, #23
RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th, Heavensentme5, Jul 07th 2009, #24
MargieInAZ
Mon Jul-06-09 12:20 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
405 posts
#431275, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 0
Glad your boys are doing well, but honestly, I don't understand half of what you wrote. It would really help people understand you better if you proofread your posts and made sure they made sense before you posted them.
If it were me, and the only way I could get my child home was to move to Oceanside (or Iceland, for that matter) so I could get in-home nursing care, I'd move in a heartbeat.
Best of luck to you and your boys.
Margie, 44, single
GGG, Chloe, Brianna & Taylor
Born 3/6/07 at 30w1d
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feistylioness78
Mon Jul-06-09 12:32 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1040 posts
#431276, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 0
I would if he was not already being followed by some if the BEST dr's. I think if it weren't for them he wouldn't be here. There is also all of Christian's dr's too. They want ot try to wean him off the vent. I am going to call the san diego ppl tomorrow.
Our little angel
^Alex Joseph^ (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew
Christian Jacob
Born 11/04/07 at 26.5 weeks
Big brother Justin 8/04
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MSTAR
Mon Jul-06-09 12:33 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2847 posts
#431277, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 0
What is baby school?
If you have a stalker, wouldn't it be wise and prudent to discontinue airing every single detail of your life, albeit incoherent and rambling?
Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d
Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005
www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com
Tired of looking haggard, like you have too many kids?
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franjipani
Mon Jul-06-09 03:56 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2242 posts
#431284, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 0
I don't follow - how do you know you have a stalker from the tc board?
tess
mummy to 7yr old ds & the triumverate born 2004
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feistylioness78
Mon Jul-06-09 10:05 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1040 posts
#431301, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 4
Mon Jul-06-09 10:08 AM by feistylioness78
When I vent about things that bother me it gets into the hands of DH via a fake myspace page under "Thank God I am not Feisty." That's how I know and think there is more than one person. I can understand hating me but unless you have been in the situtation I am in or having the issues I am having you should just back off. Everyone should be able to vent.
Baby school is early start for little ones when they are 2. He goes to school twice a day and even rides the bus.
Our little angel
^Alex Joseph^ (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew
Christian Jacob
Born 11/04/07 at 26.5 weeks
Big brother Justin 8/04
http://www.myspace.com/346442072
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MSTAR
Mon Jul-06-09 10:55 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2847 posts
#431309, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 5
Newsflash: This is a PUBLIC forum! So when you come on here and "vent" with posts like, "Dad is a LOSER and should step up to the plate" and such, DAD can read that by simply coming on this site. If you want to vent about him, perhaps you should do it in a private setting. Start your own private support group. I HATE DAD or something.
Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d
Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005
www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com
Tired of looking haggard, like you have too many kids?
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Tasha
Mon Jul-06-09 04:35 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2062 posts
#431372, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 5
I have to agree with Mstar. How do you know someone is emailing him? Do you log into his account and see these emails from this person first hand? Or are you assuming that since he knows what you have written here at TC someone must be emailing him that info. If he has been made aware of this site in the past and given a link he could simply be logging on and reading it first hand himself.
I'm not saying there aren't people that wouldn't email your posts to the baby father if they had his email. But it is possible for him to come and read it here himself also. We have had many people in the past complain about family members coming and reading their posts. Baby daddy's mother could log in and read your posts too. It is a public forum. Post as such.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
http://pulledontc.blogspot.com/
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MSTAR
Mon Jul-06-09 06:48 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2847 posts
#431389, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 9
It's not just this site either, Tasha. I spent 15 minutes researching her about a year and a half ago when I thought she was a faker, and she is an internet train wreck. She has posted all over the internet with the same user screen name. If ANYONE wanted to follow her, like DAD, or DAD's friends, or her MIL, or her own crazy family, all they would have to do is Google her screen name and read the same old stuff all over the place.
If you put it out there, it's there. Who knows what sort of creepies she's picked up. I really don't think you can blame the TC for blatant internet carelessness.
Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d
Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005
www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com
Tired of looking haggard, like you have too many kids?
www.michelesmineralmakeup.com
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Tasha
Mon Jul-06-09 07:13 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2062 posts
#431392, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 12
It is amazing what you can find in a search if you get the urge. We may have to compare notes since it seems we have had some similar thoughts. I am still not completely convinced, just had a MOT paradigm shift. I mean even She who shall not be named finally stopped talking to the press after they kept putting her down over and over again. Some people just seem to want attention and don't care if it is good or bad.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
http://pulledontc.blogspot.com/
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3petes
Mon Jul-06-09 01:12 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1298 posts
#431327, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 0
I just want to say that you focus all your time on negativity. Don't believe me, think about the people from this site that have talked to you, helped you, showed up to help with you and your children, made offers to help that were turned down by you. Why don't you ever mention them? Why do you post something intentionally to start a bicker fest, like "I still have a stalker on here....." BLAH BLAH BLAH.
Seriously Feisty, must you come here to engage people like me into an argument? I mean do you want me to hate you? Can you ever just come here to say thanks for the help from all of you kind people, instead of sixty excuses to either not take the help, how the help is not going to work, or just to not respond at all if that's not what you want to do? Grow up, kid. It's time.
Jamye
Love my GGG ~
2 years old.....How did that happen?
Born on 08/07/06
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kylamel
Mon Jul-06-09 02:00 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2296 posts
#431337, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 7
Yeah.. what Jamye said!!!!
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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Heavensentme5
Mon Jul-06-09 06:23 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1407 posts
#431380, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 7
well, the easiest way for there to be no drama is to NOT RESPOND to her posts if they bother you so much! There can't be any drama not matter WHAT Fiesty says unless someone ELSE chimes in. Seems like more than one person here needs to "grow up."
Korrie~
^i^B/G/G 24 w 3d,1/17/00
B 10/31/01
B 1/27/03
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3petes
Mon Jul-06-09 07:53 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1298 posts
#431404, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 11
So you don't think she was instigating and inviting a post such as mine with her FYI. Interesting.
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LolasLadies
Mon Jul-06-09 11:38 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1875 posts
#431442, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 11
I would normally agree with you, but the POSTS NEVER STOP. They just keep coming like word vomit.
And it's not that I think anyone should stop posting here, but c'mon... three posts on a gallbladder all on the front page?
Feisty... (Valerie, right?) do you have anyone IRL you can talk to about some of this stuff? It just seems like the internet has been your answer to everything. Maybe you could try to make amends with the local HOM mom's group?
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
Everything but the Kids - http://ebtk.activeboard.com
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Sabbra
Mon Jul-06-09 06:18 PM
Member since Jun 17th 2008
75 posts
#431379, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 0
Thanks Feisty!!!!!!! I was dying for some drama!!
Mom to
Mario 2 lb 1 oz NICU 75 days
Luigi 2 lb 3 oz NICU 75 days
& Peach 1 lb 9 oz NICU 107 days
Born at 27 weeks
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HOWMANY
Mon Jul-06-09 11:24 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1461 posts
#431438, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 0
I can not believe you women. Have any of you taken the time to even chat one on one with Valerie?
How many of you have had mirco preemies with tons of medical issues and long stays in the hospital with another in and out of the hospital every time you turn around?
Who ever is taking everything back to the babies daddy that Fiesty says is really messed up. Do you really think your helping the situation? Your causing this family more stress then they already have and need.
I'm not going to call anyone out. But is seems funny how I spoke with another person from here in regards to a conversation and texts message between Valerie and I and now they are being miss constriued and sent to Rick.
No one on this board can tell me they have never hit the wall and been so overwhelmed with everything you didn't know where to turn.
Everyone is different and handles things differently. Has Valerie handled everything as I would or would like? No! But she is not me. Does it bug me? Yes! But it bugs me about any situation I don't have complete control over. Just one of my design flaws.
How many people here have no one? It is just you, one person doing everything. No family, no nanny, no mom's helper? I know I can't say that.
There will always be people that come and go on this board that are going to be labeled by others. It's just a natural fact of life. But really if you haven't walked in their shoes.
Everyone gets different life skills growing up, some are better to have then others and some are completely missed due to crappy parenting and guidence.
I can attest to that. I have struggled a lot in my adult life because of a drug addicted parent, emotionally/physically abusive parents. Is it an excuse, no I don't believe so. But that is me.
If we were all made of the same stuff if would be a really boring world.
I feel Valerie is doing the best she is equipped to do with her given circumstances. And everyone here yelling and calling names, sending info to the babies daddy isn't working. I know when someone yells and calls me names I shut down and I don't hear anything. Nothing that may be positive gets through.
Val, sometimes it is hard to understand what your typing. Take a breath and re-read before you post. I know I have had to ask you this during our chats. Fingers get going faster then the brain or something.
So right now Valerie is need to some rest. I'm unable to get down to her and help over the next week. Not sure how much respite she is getting or not getting right now. Need to chat again with her in regards to the no medi-cal thing for Christian.
Anyone willing to lend a helping hand (and maybe a sleeping pill) for a very tired mom to get a few hours of shut eye and help with Christian? He trully is a doll and sweety.
And Valerie...if someone says yes. But your foot down and make daddy find babysitting for his son so you can have this time. Check into a hotel room for a day if you have to.
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
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MSTAR
Mon Jul-06-09 11:35 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2847 posts
#431441, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 15
Whoa. You want someone to donate a sleeping pill? I was going to give her my gall bladder, but I could probably mail her some Tylenol PM instead.
Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d
Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005
www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com
Tired of looking haggard, like you have too many kids?
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feistylioness78
Mon Jul-06-09 11:48 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1040 posts
#431443, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 16
Mon Jul-06-09 11:49 PM by feistylioness78
Thanks Amy. Actually, I have two bottles of Tylenol PM, advil PM, and some other sleeping pill. LOL
I need to make an appt to see a denist to get my wisdom tooth cut out because it is making it hard for me to eat and swallow and yell.
Then make a appt with the GI. C's doc gave some info today on both. He is 19#'s so he is being referred back to the FTT clinic. He may be having GI issues as well. Took him to see Bren today and he is just a doll. When leaving I saw two of Bren's dr's. One is doping rounds tomorrow.
Boys are good mom is tired.
Doc is also J's doc and she is going to see what she can do to get him some help so that he succeed in life. He had a good day today.
Oh yeah so the crazy doc today as well and he gave me some samples of cymbalta and told me he would see me in 8 weeks. Gotta go. It is time for my soup. I am on a soup diet easy on the guns easy on the gall bladder.
C's doc also told me that if I needed to go in for 72hr break to do it. I don't need to yet but there are times when I feel like I am going to lose it. I have been so afraid that they will take the boys away if I did so. She told me they may do an eval, see that mom is stressed and dad is stressed but she thinks that the best place for C is in the home with us and she will back me up if I need it.
Our little angel
^Alex Joseph^ (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew
Christian Jacob
Born 11/04/07 at 26.5 weeks
Big brother Justin 8/04
http://www.myspace.com/346442072
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MSTAR
Tue Jul-07-09 12:10 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2847 posts
#431446, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 18
I think C's nurse has given you the best advice ever. Get evaluated.
My advice is to Google "Cymbalta side effects" before you take it. It causes severe withdrawals and if you don't have insurance, you are going to be in an even bigger world of #### if you try going off of that stuff cold turkey when the free samples run out.
Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d
Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005
www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com
Tired of looking haggard, like you have too many kids?
www.michelesmineralmakeup.com
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Tasha
Tue Jul-07-09 12:31 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2062 posts
#431448, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 18
Go in? As in admit yourself? If you are admitted do you qualify for state insurance? Could you do that and get your gall bladder surgery if you had an attack while you were there?
Forgive me here. I am having flash backs of all these medical shows and how they do runarounds to get uninsured people procedures they need.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
http://pulledontc.blogspot.com/
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Tasha
Tue Jul-07-09 12:01 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2062 posts
#431444, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 16
Wait. What about the new computer you now owe me?
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
http://pulledontc.blogspot.com/
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LolasLadies
Tue Jul-07-09 12:08 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1875 posts
#431445, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 19
And she probably owes me a new liver. I drink when I see what I'll be dealing with a year from now.
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
Everything but the Kids - http://ebtk.activeboard.com
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TiffaniRay
Tue Jul-07-09 05:57 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
4108 posts
#431463, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 20
"Oh yeah so the crazy doc today as well"
THE POT CALLING THE KETTLE BLACK.
Tiffani & Ray(NJ)
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Heavensentme5
Tue Jul-07-09 01:00 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1407 posts
#431506, "RE: Update on boys:posted on the 4th"
In response to Reply # 23
EXCUSE ME?! You are the moderator and you're jumping in on this flame fest? What is wrong with you people around here? GROW UP and go take care of your children instead of bashing others online! GET A LIFE!!!
Korrie~
^i^B/G/G 24 w 3d,1/17/00
B 10/31/01
B 1/27/03
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