So in 24 hrs the story has gone from the nurse abused him broke his leg, back and caused a brain bleed. Nobody knew the nurses name or the home health that sent her. She knew the company that sent her but the hospital didn't so they were investigating (why couldn't she just tell them?) because another hospital hired her. They didn't know the nurses last name because she never signed the chart only initialed it. Then someone mentioned another child that brittle bone disease. Shortly after when everyone was questioning the absurdity of nobody being able to find this nurse(as you all have read) he was diagnosed with brittle bones. So we go to today when I was gone and I don't have copies. People continued to question this new diagnosis and her story and suddenly the story changes again and now his leg and back aren't broken it is 'shadows on the x-ray'. People continue to question. She gets very defensive and starts attacking those questioning saying that they don't understand anything about children who have gone through a transplant. "Kristina do you know anything about ba or transplant? I guess not cause you would know it causes brittle bones,breaks, and internal and brain bleeds."
To which that lady responded "If this is the case and you know these things then why did you lead the rest of us to believe that he was abused and/or mistreated by a home health nurse? You never told anyone that any of these things could be caused by his transplant. You only had everyone believe that the nurse hurt him without pointing out the facts of the other side of the coin!"
Suddenly all posts are GONE. Everything since he was released from the hospital. Hmmm Think someone has something to hide? And who looses here. Memphis. I think we have a STRONG case of either Munchausen by proxy or Munchausen by Internet on our hands. I am praying for Munchausen by internet personally and she isn't actually physically injuring this child just telling stories online.
and now another person mentions he could be diagnosed with something that would explain brittle bones and low and behold he was diagnosed with it today! after she said he didn't have brittle bones earlier today.
Mark as SpamReport as AbuseLisa Beatty For those who wonder about brittle bones (sorry Nicole, delete if you need to), there's a good bet that Memphis will be/has been disagnosed with a condition called osteopenia that often affects preemies, which would explain having brittle bones.
I have faith for you guys that happily ever after is almost here...you hav...e a resilient strong little guy who I bet is very ready to begin properly enjoying being part of a family of six and get on with the rest of his life.
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Praying for Memphis He was diagonsed with osteopenia today acutally.. That doesn't explain the brain bleed though..
about an hour ago.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Memphis-I missed a thread
Well a girl leaves her computer for a day and people start calling Nicole (mom) out on inaccuracies in the story and Nicole pulls all her posts from the page. Must pull all evidence. This is why I like to copy and paste people. Once again I will ask you to copy stuff you see when you see it just in case I am not around! Just highlight (and on facebook scroll through the thread and click on any "see more" at the end of any longer comments) the entire thread and copy it to word or most of you know me on FB just copy it into a PM there.
So lets cut to Nicole saying she will no longer be posting updates because of all the "mean people"
Praying for Memphis
Posts were deleted because I am tried of always having to defend myself for stuff that is out of my control.. There will be no more updates..
5 hours ago ·
Sara Czolba i am sorry, defending yourself is UNCALLED FOR!!!!!!! WISE GIRL, OR DELETE THOSE YOU DONT WANT ON THERE, IT IS NOT WORTH IT AT ALL!!!! I AM STILL PRAYING AND I AM NOT STOPPING. I AM NOT STOPPING LOVING YOU GUYS. XOOX
5 hours ago.
Wanda Carroll Boyce So sorry I am still Praying for Memphis and all of you.
5 hours ago.
Billie Slavic Sorry to hear that :( Some people are just so rude you should not have to defend yourself to anyone!!! There is only one judge and it is the Lord! Prayers are still with you always!!!
5 hours ago.
Nghtstr Waverly im sorry u shouldnt have to explain urself to anyone its ur life and ur baby u stay strong and dont let the rif raft bother ya
5 hours ago.
Jean Gragg Thats sad..Hes always on my mind. Your an AMAZING MOTHER! dont let the dumb people stop you from posting about Memphis There are tons of us out there that love the posts and keeping up on him.. And as for the ones you have to defend yourself to..They are unimportant if they knew what ur going through (which i dont belive anyone will) They would support you not make you feel the need to defend yourself. GIVE THEM THE BOOT! -Prayers for you and your family-
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Helene Eichenwald Slutsky I figured that was the case, I did not mean to imply any wrong doing, I was just curious because I have been reading about this poor baby for so long.
5 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis I have deleted people.. They made new profiles and came back posting.. People have nothing better to do I guess..
5 hours ago.
Jamie Workman Anderson Why not make a blog and then close off comments? You can blog without ever having to accept comments. Is that a possibility. I hope Memphis is doing better today.
5 hours ago.
Wanda Carroll Boyce In so sorry there are way too many idiots on here. Can you fix it to where they have to have permission to see it?
5 hours ago.
Michel Lantz If there is any updates, can you message me cuz I like hearing on how Memphis is doing. People have nothing better to do. Please keep me updated!
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Jean Gragg Thats sad! the must not have anything better to do! Btw how are the other little ones???
5 hours ago.
Shelli Glatchak Kelsey Hoping you get the BEST Valentine's Day gift of all...Your baby back home with you and the family!
5 hours ago.
Melvina Golden You of all people should NOT have todefend yourself to these idiots!!! You are a strong capable mother, that is where you lil bundle gets his strength from, his mommy and god!!! Hang in there sweetie, I will continue to pray for your family, and you are always in my thoughts!
5 hours ago.
Shely Hanson I am sorry all of this is going on. Best of luck to you and Memphis. I do pray for him daily, he has already been through so much.
5 hours ago.
Dana Linger Listen, the only people that are important are those you love. If you have their support then you have everything you need there. Stay true to yourself. But, you have to remember that so many people have put their hearts into other stories ...and the ended up feeling deceived. Everybody needs to put themselves into the other persons shoes and give this family the benefit of your doubt. It will only benefit Memphis to have a mommy who isn't mad from things on here....right? Just prove everybody wrong is what I pray for along with Memphis' health and happiness. People don't know you personally so they may feel different than someone who knows you. In this day and time, it is hard to trust people. Lets just try and trust. I hope I didn't say anything to offend, that is not my purpose. I just want everyone to understand how each other may be feeling. When a baby is involved, it is so hard not to feel protective on either side. Love you lil Memp!See More
4 hours ago.
Val J. Bicanovsky Sorry you have to keep defending yourself against naysayers. I wish there was some way you could keep this page without having some much negativism. Some of us truly care about Memphis and have followed his progress and have prayed faithfully for the little guy. I wish you and your family the best and please try to find a way to keep us updated on his progress.
4 hours ago.
Marie Musgrove Welsh I hope you rethink this. There are many of us that are praying for him and want to know how he (and you) are doing. I hope that he heals quickly from these injuries, I also hope that the nurse is found.
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Courtney Twaites Mean people suck! We support you Nicole...you are his mom, NO ONE ELSE!
4 hours ago.
Jennifer Hamachek Eis Why do there have to be such inconsiderate people in the world? i could say more but i know people would be offended by them
4 hours ago.
Kelly Venable Daigle Dun dun dun .... And the plot thickens...
4 hours ago.
Angela Sparks How is memphis today, I have seen what you have been going through from date one, we all prayer each date and night that he stay strong, and all them prayer that everybody has ask for has been for MEMPHIS. we love and care so much about this little man
4 hours ago.
Susan Gamble WE will pray for Memphis and pray for people to find kindness in their souls
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Dana Linger No matter what you decide, we ALL WILL CONTINUE to pray for the lil man!
4 hours ago.
Dana Linger Jennifer, thank you! Truly!
4 hours ago.
Brittany Quentin I will continue to pray for Memphis, he and your family have been through so much! He is an amazing boy to have gone through all he has and still have that gorgeous smile on his face, making the best of his situation... I am sorry that people are questioning things and causing you to want to be less open, many of us are sincerely following Memphis' story to offer prayer and enjoy hearing of his progress. Not to pass judgement or ridicule... My prayers are with you
4 hours ago.
D.j. Huntley it is sad that you feel the need to stop posting about Memphis to keep those of us who are truly concerned. what goes around comes around...their day will come....as for my daughter and i we will keep praying for Memphis and your family...I know the ignorance and the cruelty of some folks as my daughter had a baby at 26 wks and a lot of people kept saying " well if she did not do drugs" and that was not the case.
4 hours ago.
Brandy Mccrimmon-Morrison i think that making one without letting people comment would be a good idea i will support u in whatever u do ur a great mother and i will continue to pray for your family no matter what
4 hours ago.
Janice Demnyan keep strong in the Lord.........prayers WILL continue!!!
4 hours ago.
Kandice Nelson I'm so sorry, I don't know you personally but I've been following your story and Memphis's and praying for you guys. I can't believe some of the people on Facebook. They really need a life. I hope you keep updating as some of us really do care about you guys!!
4 hours ago.
Karolyn Castro So sad that on top of all you are having to deal with rude people...I will continue to pray as others will...I understand and support your decision whatever is....if you set up a close or private group please let me know...my personal email is karolyn.castro@gmail.com, I am open to prayers all the time, I live overseas but feel free to drop me a line anythime if you need support...kiss little Memphis and tell him many people are praying for him...and for yourself keep it strong Mommy you and daddy are doing a terrific job!
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Amy Salazar What the heck? People are so stupid! Hugs sweetie! Dont listen to them, youre doing awesome and we're praying!
4 hours ago.
Carolyn Morrison I am so sorry to hear that. People are so stupid. I am still praying
3 hours ago.Ashley Lisk Always in my prayers .... Please include me in the email updates if you decide to go that route ... Akwy13@yahoo.com
3 hours ago.
Michelle Stys Sorry that you have to deal with that. Do know that know matter what Memphis and your family will remain in my daily thoughts and prayers. I gave you my email address awhile ago so please update major things please!!
3 hours ago.
Diana Homewood Drayton I do not know you, but I work with your cousin Christina. I have been following little Memphis's and pray for him and your family. He has gone through a lot and seems such a touch guy despite his trials. I know that God has big plans for him. Please blog just to let us know how he is doing even if you need to block rude comments. His photos with his big smile always make me smile! :)
3 hours ago.
Christine Czaja I will continue to pray for you guys. You seem to have an amazing support system. God Bless and always hoping for the best for little Memphis
3 hours ago.
Lisa Beatty I can't say I can fault you at all. In theory this should be a safe place in which for you to find support and when you get the opposite of support from some, how it must discourage you when you need words to lift you up. I am so sorry. :(
2 hours ago.
Trina Merrell-Deniro I'm sorry, and I will miss the updates hope you will continue so that people really concerned will be able to know how he and you guys are doing. Don't feel you have to defend yourself we all parent and respond to things differently, and you are doing the best that you know how to with all that is going on.
2 hours ago.
Kelly Bishop YOU ARE DOING GREAT!! No one can say anything till they walk in your shoes!
2 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis Nicole, I say just ignore the comments that bother you and if you don't respond to them, they will eventually quit... they want that aggravated response... pretend that you don't see them, skip over their posts...even though I know it is ha...rd and it hurts... but it hurts more if you respond and they make more negative comments... and the back and forth thing...then those who really are concerned can still give the encouragement and prayers that are needed... it's just an idea... Memphis and your family are in so many daily prayers and there are so many who really do care and think of your family as part of their family now... he is a true inspiration to so many of us. :) CharSee More
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Jennifer Flynn If your tired of hearing the world's opinion, I totally understand. Sometimes you just need support from people who truly know you. I will continue to pray for Memphis. I will miss the updates, but you deserve peace after the ordeal you have been through more than anyone wanting a update. Do what you need to for your family. No one is owed anything for praying.
about an hour ago.
Kathy Strawbridge Nicole who ever is saying things should keep there comments to them selves, if they do not know what is going on then you would not have to defend yourself..I like the updates so I no what is going on with your sweet little man he is beautiful and is so blessed to have a mom like you..so please keep me updated I didn't do anything just remember you are a good mother and a good person
about an hour ago.
Sharon Warrick I agree with ignoring those who make such inconsiderate comments, there is in no way, shape or form that you should EVER have to defend yourself. You and Memphis and your entire family have been through enough! I don't know you personally... either but I have followed Memphis' progress and am interested in seeing that he make it through all of these things. Hugggsss to you and that little baby and your entire family!! I can tell just from everything I have ever read that you are a wonderful mother!! You can always bet you will receive support from me! SharonSee More
58 minutes ago.
Rachel Worden I completely understand why you want to stop the updates. I would love to be updated on how your angel is doing but if you discontinue updates I support that decision and I wish you the best of luck! Hope and prayers! ♥
32 minutes ago..
Caroline Heaps I'm gonna miss the updates... but I do understand.. Know that you have inspired so many! Will always be praying for you guys ♥
So lets cut to Nicole saying she will no longer be posting updates because of all the "mean people"
Praying for Memphis
Posts were deleted because I am tried of always having to defend myself for stuff that is out of my control.. There will be no more updates..
5 hours ago ·
Sara Czolba i am sorry, defending yourself is UNCALLED FOR!!!!!!! WISE GIRL, OR DELETE THOSE YOU DONT WANT ON THERE, IT IS NOT WORTH IT AT ALL!!!! I AM STILL PRAYING AND I AM NOT STOPPING. I AM NOT STOPPING LOVING YOU GUYS. XOOX
5 hours ago.
Wanda Carroll Boyce So sorry I am still Praying for Memphis and all of you.
5 hours ago.
Billie Slavic Sorry to hear that :( Some people are just so rude you should not have to defend yourself to anyone!!! There is only one judge and it is the Lord! Prayers are still with you always!!!
5 hours ago.
Nghtstr Waverly im sorry u shouldnt have to explain urself to anyone its ur life and ur baby u stay strong and dont let the rif raft bother ya
5 hours ago.
Jean Gragg Thats sad..Hes always on my mind. Your an AMAZING MOTHER! dont let the dumb people stop you from posting about Memphis There are tons of us out there that love the posts and keeping up on him.. And as for the ones you have to defend yourself to..They are unimportant if they knew what ur going through (which i dont belive anyone will) They would support you not make you feel the need to defend yourself. GIVE THEM THE BOOT! -Prayers for you and your family-
5 hours ago · 3 peopleLoading....
Helene Eichenwald Slutsky I figured that was the case, I did not mean to imply any wrong doing, I was just curious because I have been reading about this poor baby for so long.
5 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis I have deleted people.. They made new profiles and came back posting.. People have nothing better to do I guess..
5 hours ago.
Jamie Workman Anderson Why not make a blog and then close off comments? You can blog without ever having to accept comments. Is that a possibility. I hope Memphis is doing better today.
5 hours ago.
Wanda Carroll Boyce In so sorry there are way too many idiots on here. Can you fix it to where they have to have permission to see it?
5 hours ago.
Michel Lantz If there is any updates, can you message me cuz I like hearing on how Memphis is doing. People have nothing better to do. Please keep me updated!
5 hours ago · 2 peopleLoading....
Jean Gragg Thats sad! the must not have anything better to do! Btw how are the other little ones???
5 hours ago.
Shelli Glatchak Kelsey Hoping you get the BEST Valentine's Day gift of all...Your baby back home with you and the family!
5 hours ago.
Melvina Golden You of all people should NOT have todefend yourself to these idiots!!! You are a strong capable mother, that is where you lil bundle gets his strength from, his mommy and god!!! Hang in there sweetie, I will continue to pray for your family, and you are always in my thoughts!
5 hours ago.
Shely Hanson I am sorry all of this is going on. Best of luck to you and Memphis. I do pray for him daily, he has already been through so much.
5 hours ago.
Dana Linger Listen, the only people that are important are those you love. If you have their support then you have everything you need there. Stay true to yourself. But, you have to remember that so many people have put their hearts into other stories ...and the ended up feeling deceived. Everybody needs to put themselves into the other persons shoes and give this family the benefit of your doubt. It will only benefit Memphis to have a mommy who isn't mad from things on here....right? Just prove everybody wrong is what I pray for along with Memphis' health and happiness. People don't know you personally so they may feel different than someone who knows you. In this day and time, it is hard to trust people. Lets just try and trust. I hope I didn't say anything to offend, that is not my purpose. I just want everyone to understand how each other may be feeling. When a baby is involved, it is so hard not to feel protective on either side. Love you lil Memp!See More
4 hours ago.
Val J. Bicanovsky Sorry you have to keep defending yourself against naysayers. I wish there was some way you could keep this page without having some much negativism. Some of us truly care about Memphis and have followed his progress and have prayed faithfully for the little guy. I wish you and your family the best and please try to find a way to keep us updated on his progress.
4 hours ago.
Marie Musgrove Welsh I hope you rethink this. There are many of us that are praying for him and want to know how he (and you) are doing. I hope that he heals quickly from these injuries, I also hope that the nurse is found.
4 hours ago · 3 peopleLoading....
Courtney Twaites Mean people suck! We support you Nicole...you are his mom, NO ONE ELSE!
4 hours ago.
Jennifer Hamachek Eis Why do there have to be such inconsiderate people in the world? i could say more but i know people would be offended by them
4 hours ago.
Kelly Venable Daigle Dun dun dun .... And the plot thickens...
4 hours ago.
Angela Sparks How is memphis today, I have seen what you have been going through from date one, we all prayer each date and night that he stay strong, and all them prayer that everybody has ask for has been for MEMPHIS. we love and care so much about this little man
4 hours ago.
Susan Gamble WE will pray for Memphis and pray for people to find kindness in their souls
4 hours ago · 1 personLoading....
Dana Linger No matter what you decide, we ALL WILL CONTINUE to pray for the lil man!
4 hours ago.
Dana Linger Jennifer, thank you! Truly!
4 hours ago.
Brittany Quentin I will continue to pray for Memphis, he and your family have been through so much! He is an amazing boy to have gone through all he has and still have that gorgeous smile on his face, making the best of his situation... I am sorry that people are questioning things and causing you to want to be less open, many of us are sincerely following Memphis' story to offer prayer and enjoy hearing of his progress. Not to pass judgement or ridicule... My prayers are with you
4 hours ago.
D.j. Huntley it is sad that you feel the need to stop posting about Memphis to keep those of us who are truly concerned. what goes around comes around...their day will come....as for my daughter and i we will keep praying for Memphis and your family...I know the ignorance and the cruelty of some folks as my daughter had a baby at 26 wks and a lot of people kept saying " well if she did not do drugs" and that was not the case.
4 hours ago.
Brandy Mccrimmon-Morrison i think that making one without letting people comment would be a good idea i will support u in whatever u do ur a great mother and i will continue to pray for your family no matter what
4 hours ago.
Janice Demnyan keep strong in the Lord.........prayers WILL continue!!!
4 hours ago.
Kandice Nelson I'm so sorry, I don't know you personally but I've been following your story and Memphis's and praying for you guys. I can't believe some of the people on Facebook. They really need a life. I hope you keep updating as some of us really do care about you guys!!
4 hours ago.
Karolyn Castro So sad that on top of all you are having to deal with rude people...I will continue to pray as others will...I understand and support your decision whatever is....if you set up a close or private group please let me know...my personal email is karolyn.castro@gmail.com, I am open to prayers all the time, I live overseas but feel free to drop me a line anythime if you need support...kiss little Memphis and tell him many people are praying for him...and for yourself keep it strong Mommy you and daddy are doing a terrific job!
4 hours ago · 1 personLoading....
Amy Salazar What the heck? People are so stupid! Hugs sweetie! Dont listen to them, youre doing awesome and we're praying!
4 hours ago.
Carolyn Morrison I am so sorry to hear that. People are so stupid. I am still praying
3 hours ago.Ashley Lisk Always in my prayers .... Please include me in the email updates if you decide to go that route ... Akwy13@yahoo.com
3 hours ago.
Michelle Stys Sorry that you have to deal with that. Do know that know matter what Memphis and your family will remain in my daily thoughts and prayers. I gave you my email address awhile ago so please update major things please!!
3 hours ago.
Diana Homewood Drayton I do not know you, but I work with your cousin Christina. I have been following little Memphis's and pray for him and your family. He has gone through a lot and seems such a touch guy despite his trials. I know that God has big plans for him. Please blog just to let us know how he is doing even if you need to block rude comments. His photos with his big smile always make me smile! :)
3 hours ago.
Christine Czaja I will continue to pray for you guys. You seem to have an amazing support system. God Bless and always hoping for the best for little Memphis
3 hours ago.
Lisa Beatty I can't say I can fault you at all. In theory this should be a safe place in which for you to find support and when you get the opposite of support from some, how it must discourage you when you need words to lift you up. I am so sorry. :(
2 hours ago.
Trina Merrell-Deniro I'm sorry, and I will miss the updates hope you will continue so that people really concerned will be able to know how he and you guys are doing. Don't feel you have to defend yourself we all parent and respond to things differently, and you are doing the best that you know how to with all that is going on.
2 hours ago.
Kelly Bishop YOU ARE DOING GREAT!! No one can say anything till they walk in your shoes!
2 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis Nicole, I say just ignore the comments that bother you and if you don't respond to them, they will eventually quit... they want that aggravated response... pretend that you don't see them, skip over their posts...even though I know it is ha...rd and it hurts... but it hurts more if you respond and they make more negative comments... and the back and forth thing...then those who really are concerned can still give the encouragement and prayers that are needed... it's just an idea... Memphis and your family are in so many daily prayers and there are so many who really do care and think of your family as part of their family now... he is a true inspiration to so many of us. :) CharSee More
2 hours ago · 5 peopleLoading....
Jennifer Flynn If your tired of hearing the world's opinion, I totally understand. Sometimes you just need support from people who truly know you. I will continue to pray for Memphis. I will miss the updates, but you deserve peace after the ordeal you have been through more than anyone wanting a update. Do what you need to for your family. No one is owed anything for praying.
about an hour ago.
Kathy Strawbridge Nicole who ever is saying things should keep there comments to them selves, if they do not know what is going on then you would not have to defend yourself..I like the updates so I no what is going on with your sweet little man he is beautiful and is so blessed to have a mom like you..so please keep me updated I didn't do anything just remember you are a good mother and a good person
about an hour ago.
Sharon Warrick I agree with ignoring those who make such inconsiderate comments, there is in no way, shape or form that you should EVER have to defend yourself. You and Memphis and your entire family have been through enough! I don't know you personally... either but I have followed Memphis' progress and am interested in seeing that he make it through all of these things. Hugggsss to you and that little baby and your entire family!! I can tell just from everything I have ever read that you are a wonderful mother!! You can always bet you will receive support from me! SharonSee More
58 minutes ago.
Rachel Worden I completely understand why you want to stop the updates. I would love to be updated on how your angel is doing but if you discontinue updates I support that decision and I wish you the best of luck! Hope and prayers! ♥
32 minutes ago..
Caroline Heaps I'm gonna miss the updates... but I do understand.. Know that you have inspired so many! Will always be praying for you guys ♥
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