Sunday, February 20, 2011

Single moms shouldn't date. lock yourselves away ladies for the sake of your children.

Julia Ann thinks single moms need to lock themselves away and put their lives on hold until their kids are "grown and gone". What kind of example is that setting for kids? That love and family are not a priority?
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julie123
Wed Feb-16-11 11:09 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1677 posts

#480943, "NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"

So totally not triplet related but I've got my 10 minutes of fame or so tomorrow on Judge Judy. It's episode #3631 and you can check for the air time in your city here http://www.judgejudy.com/local_airtimes.php

The case synopsis is "a woman claims her ex-boyfriend owes for a loan to buy a car."

I didn't think it was all that juicy of a case, but heck, I'm on TV. LOL
Julie
Single mom to

Tristan Declan 4lbs 3oz
Cassandra Madison 4lbs 7oz
Ryland Markus 4lbs 2oz
Born on 9/5/06 at 32 weeks 4 days

www.our3.blogspot.com

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RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, paperpusher, Feb 17th 2011, #1
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, soccermom, Feb 17th 2011, #2
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, julie123, Feb 17th 2011, #3
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, soccermom, Feb 17th 2011, #5
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, julie123, Feb 18th 2011, #7
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, mw, Feb 17th 2011, #4
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, 6BlueEyes, Feb 17th 2011, #6
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, julia ann, Feb 19th 2011, #8
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, fraujill, Feb 19th 2011, #9
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, azwallace, Feb 19th 2011, #10
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, momof7girls, Feb 19th 2011, #11
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, 1plustriplets, Feb 19th 2011, #12
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, Tasha, Feb 19th 2011, #14
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, ChelleBelle, Feb 19th 2011, #13



paperpusher
Thu Feb-17-11 02:51 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
929 posts

#480948, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0

4pm in Honolulu. I'm there, baby.
Aloha,
Kelli
BBB 6/4/06 @ 29wks 4 days
GG 4/30/09



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soccermom
Thu Feb-17-11 04:13 PM
Member since Feb 22nd 2008
369 posts

#480961, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0

I have that baby Tivo'd. How did you get selected?
Karen
Mom to Patrick, William, and our Angel Hunter
7-14-08

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julie123
Thu Feb-17-11 07:23 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1677 posts

#480967, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 2

All they told me was that they searched databases in certain states and they selected mine. When I got the phone call I was like, "is this a joke?"
Julie
Single mom to

Tristan Declan 4lbs 3oz
Cassandra Madison 4lbs 7oz
Ryland Markus 4lbs 2oz
Born on 9/5/06 at 32 weeks 4 days

www.our3.blogspot.com

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soccermom
Thu Feb-17-11 08:12 PM
Member since Feb 22nd 2008
369 posts

#480970, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 3

I watched it! You looked great.

I just have a couple of questions for you?

I have heard that in agreeing to come to court, the show pays whatever you are awarded? is that true?

Do you meet her or Bird before or after? Do they do any prep work with you?

Sorry to pepper you questions...I'm a total geek about court shows.

Karen
Karen
Mom to Patrick, William, and our Angel Hunter
7-14-08

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julie123
Fri Feb-18-11 02:12 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1677 posts

#480995, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 5

Yes to the awarded part, no to meething them although I REALLY wanted to!!!

and yes to the other question, I did win.
Julie
Single mom to

Tristan Declan 4lbs 3oz
Cassandra Madison 4lbs 7oz
Ryland Markus 4lbs 2oz
Born on 9/5/06 at 32 weeks 4 days

www.our3.blogspot.com

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mw
Thu Feb-17-11 07:29 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
4218 posts

#480969, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0

Shoot, I missed it!

Marie

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6BlueEyes
Thu Feb-17-11 09:27 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
774 posts

#480974, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0

Did you win??
Kelly
Ben, Jack & Drew 05/28/02
Charlie 07/06/06
Aunt to: Liam, Aidan & Connor 03/05/08
www.outnumberedmommy.blogspot.com

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julia ann
Sat Feb-19-11 10:59 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
128 posts

#481020, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0

Hopefully you learned not to bring "boyfriends" into their lives and not to loan any strange guy money. Put it in their college accounts instead. You can date when they are grown-up and gone.

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fraujill
Sat Feb-19-11 12:21 PM
Member since May 07th 2008
43 posts

#481022, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8

Really???
Jill
DD 11 yrs
B/B/B born 6/08
35.2 weeks

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azwallace
Sat Feb-19-11 12:24 PM
Member since May 22nd 2007
1304 posts

#481023, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8

Yesh, I think that was a little unnecessary.
Stephanie

Mama to Beautiful Quads
30 weeks, 5 days

and ^Angel Baby^ 1/05



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momof7girls
Sat Feb-19-11 01:08 PM
Member since May 03rd 2008
442 posts

#481026, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8

oh yeah, cause we are suppose to completly put our lives on hold cause we have kids and we are single, are you kidding me??? That statement was uncalled for.
Jessika mom of
identical GGG born 11.21.01
girl 7yrs
girl 6yrs
girl 5yrs
girl 3yrs
boy 9months


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1plustriplets
Sat Feb-19-11 02:44 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
339 posts

#481032, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8

Wow that was really an unneccessary comment. I too am a single Mom. So because my ex was an ass and isn't in this marriage anymore, I should not date anyone until my children are grown? Wow. I think shame on you might be my response.
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVF

www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com

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Tasha
Sat Feb-19-11 04:21 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2351 posts

#481034, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 12

She was just trying to give her opinion and advice. No need to jump on her now. By the way, since we have so many single moms here just wanted to let you all know you can buy chastity belts/piggy banks at my website. Great way to stay chaste and save for college! www.holierthanthou.com
Tasha
Have children afraid of monsters or just looking for a fun kids app? http://www.goawaymonster.com/

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ChelleBelle
Sat Feb-19-11 02:47 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
373 posts

#481033, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8

Wow. Let me just lock myself up and cut myself off from life just because I have kids. That's a great way to teach kids about life and relationships.
Michelle
Sam, Charlotte and Jacob
June 14, 2006
29w6d (no the hospital wouldn't give me the extra day!)

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Rick-Carole
Sat Feb-19-11 06:20 PM
Member since Oct 30th 2008
483 posts

#481037, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8

This response floored me. The sarcasm, the 'better-than-thou' way that you spouted off what you had to say.

I truly believe there some people that have no filter between their brain and their mouth.

Rick




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Megan Welfare
Sat Feb-19-11 08:26 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
6545 posts

#481038, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8

>Hopefully you learned not to bring "boyfriends" into their
>lives and not to loan any strange guy money. Put it in their
>college accounts instead. You can date when they are grown-up
>and gone.
>


I'm not even going to comment on your tone, but as to the substance.

If I were to die tomorrow, my husband knows that I EXPECT him to go find another wife. (Not immediately, of course, but within a reasonable amount of time.) My children need a mom. They need to see a healthy marriage modeled for them. And honestly, I want to know that he has a woman in his life taking care of him and loving him. If it can't be me, well, I don't want him to grow old alone just to preserve a memory! And how would my husband find another wife except by dating???

I am shocked that ANYONE would advocate staying single "for the kids". I think the kids are an important reason for getting out there and dating!
BGG born 4/25/05 at 31w1d




New baby girl born 9/19/06


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3petes
Sun Feb-20-11 08:00 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1449 posts

#481045, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8

Julia Ann, why do you post here? Do you have triplets or do you just know some in real life? I think your a grandma to some or an aunt or something. Go place your judgment calls on people that appreciate them, like your unforgiving church website. You're a PITA, and your post was uncalled for and unwelcome. Please get a life and post somewhere that is a more appropriate fit. JeezUs.




Jamye

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julie123
Sun Feb-20-11 02:33 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1678 posts

#481050, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0

Hmmm, well I missed the "rude" post but thanks for all the support and defense ladies!!! And thanks the the person who quoted it in their post !!!

and to that kind sweet sheltered lady... WHERE THE HELL ANYWHERE did I say that this guy met my kids??? LOL, assuming makes an ars out of you ya know sweetie . I'm MUCH more aware of how impressionable my kids are at this age and I've been dating for 3 years now and my kids have only met 2 people. Just cause I have kids doesn't mean I don't deserve a little time for me, and to find someone for me and for them. Shame on you!
Julie
Single mom to

Tristan Declan 4lbs 3oz
Cassandra Madison 4lbs 7oz
Ryland Markus 4lbs 2oz
Born on 9/5/06 at 32 weeks 4 days

www.our3.blogspot.com

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Tanna
Sun Feb-20-11 02:43 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1440 posts

#481051, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 19


Tanna

06/22/07 29 weeks 4 days
Lincoln 2 lbs 13 oz
Colton 2 lbs 14.4 oz
Dakota 2 lbs 11oz
http://tannastriplets.blogspot.com/


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