And the next banned TC members will be!!!....
LolasLadies Sun Jun-20-10 10:35 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
2273 posts
#468147, "What was the decision about reinstating members?"
Not trying to start anything, but I think a lot of us are wondering what the decision was regarding the banned posters... could the mods post something? I hope this isn't the case, but it seems to be the policy to ignore the questions until people don't care anymore. It would be great to get an explanation.
The broad sweeping bannings caught many off-guard, and it would be nice to know that the mods are at least re-evaluating, whatever the end decision may be.
Thanks!
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
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1plustriplets Sun Jun-20-10 10:40 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
295 posts
#468148, "RE: What was the decision about reinstating members?"
In response to Reply # 0
Thank you Loren for posting this. I'm not going to rehash everything that has gone on here. I just would like an honest answer as well. Just an answer.
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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PA triplets Sun Jun-20-10 01:08 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
3262 posts
#468153, "RE: What was the decision about reinstating members?"
In response to Reply # 0
With all due respect, I realize we are not the owners or the moderators. However, the people who post on here ARE the forum. When you start banning some of the most helpful members, ban other members for sticking up for them, and delete years of helpful posts YOU are killing the forum. I think it is quite clear that even members who do not agree with the perspective of the banned members do not want them gone. Without members who are willing to post on here and a searchable archive there is no Triplet Connection. As someone who has received a lot of wonderful advice and support from here the last 4 years I would hate to see that happen.
Moderators/owners, please don't let your anger at certain members keep you from thinking about the big picture. If you want this to continue being a valuable resource you have to let us talk to each other honestly. Sometimes you are not going to agree with what is said. If you don't like a post, delete it. Don't ban the member that posted it. Also, when questions arise to the monitors, please answer them. I think after all this we deserve to know what is going on. Thank you.
Lori
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TiffaniRay Sun Jun-20-10 01:16 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
4141 posts
#468154, "RE: What was the decision about reinstating members?"
In response to Reply # 2
I apologize. I have not been on TC in a while. My son Nolan got hit by a vehicle in May and well, TC is not my top priority right now. I'm sorry I have not answered your PM's or emails, I have however forwarded them to Jeff.
On a side note, I do not have the "power" to ban people, I believe the webmaster/board owner would have that authority. I am not the only moderator on here. Mods have a little gray icon next to their name. Admin have yellow.
Thanks.
Tiffani & Ray(NJ)
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Thursday, June 17, 2010
Bring them back
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1plustriplets Sat Jun-19-10 01:01 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
293 posts
#467915, "A plea"
Please bring MSTAR back! Seriously.
I miss her advice on here!!!
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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RE: A plea, LvTriplets, Jun 17th 2010, #1
RE: A plea, SuzyHope, Jun 17th 2010, #2
RE: A plea, Crystal, Jun 17th 2010, #3
RE: A plea, LolasLadies, Jun 17th 2010, #4
RE: A plea, Flakey_Flakes, Jun 17th 2010, #5
RE: A plea, PA triplets, Jun 17th 2010, #6
RE: A plea, 1plustriplets, Jun 17th 2010, #7
RE: A plea, Megan Welfare, Jun 17th 2010, #13
RE: A plea, PA triplets, Jun 17th 2010, #14
RE: A plea, LvTriplets, Jun 17th 2010, #19
RE: A plea, Tasha, Jun 17th 2010, #21
RE: A plea, LolasLadies, Jun 17th 2010, #22
RE: A plea, Tasha, Jun 18th 2010, #25
RE: A plea, 1plustriplets, Jun 17th 2010, #8
RE: A plea, casanndra, Jun 17th 2010, #12
RE: A plea, Megan Welfare, Jun 17th 2010, #9
RE: A plea, tripletmom05, Jun 17th 2010, #10
RE: A plea, lovemy4, Jun 17th 2010, #11
RE: A plea, Triplethefun04, Jun 17th 2010, #15
RE: A plea, Megan Welfare, Jun 18th 2010, #35
RE: A plea, Triplethefun04, Jun 18th 2010, #41
RE: A plea, Mom23in2003, Jun 17th 2010, #16
RE: A plea, 6BlueEyes, Jun 17th 2010, #17
RE: A plea, Tanna, Jun 17th 2010, #18
RE: A plea, k3triplets, Jun 17th 2010, #20
RE: A plea, valeria, Jun 18th 2010, #23
RE: A plea, lsmiller, Jun 18th 2010, #24
RE: A plea, lovemy4, Jun 18th 2010, #26
RE: A plea, mw, Jun 18th 2010, #27
RE: A plea, SAReece, Jun 18th 2010, #28
RE: A plea, sandsstone, Jun 18th 2010, #29
RE: A plea, catybarra, Jun 18th 2010, #30
RE: A plea, Tasha, Jun 18th 2010, #31
RE: A plea, lovemy4, Jun 18th 2010, #33
RE: A plea, tripletmom05, Jun 18th 2010, #34
RE: A plea, lovemy4, Jun 18th 2010, #32
RE: A plea, MumfordTriplets, Jun 18th 2010, #36
RE: A plea, Cariad, Jun 18th 2010, #37
RE: A plea, Cariad, Jun 18th 2010, #38
RE: A plea, Tasha, Jun 18th 2010, #39
RE: A plea, SusanI, Jun 18th 2010, #40
RE: A plea, hardentriplets, Jun 18th 2010, #42
RE: A plea, 4kds4me, Jun 18th 2010, #43
RE: A plea, lsmiller, Jun 18th 2010, #47
RE: A plea, k3triplets, Jun 19th 2010, #60
RE: A plea, Kealoha12, Jun 18th 2010, #44
RE: A plea, Rick-Carole, Jun 18th 2010, #45
RE: A plea, Katrina_Jason, Jun 18th 2010, #46
RE: A plea, Boys mom, Jun 18th 2010, #48
RE: A plea, sammie161, Jun 18th 2010, #49
RE: A plea, HOWMANY, Jun 18th 2010, #50
RE: A plea, SAReece, Jun 18th 2010, #51
RE: A plea, Triplethefun04, Jun 19th 2010, #58
RE: A plea, HOWMANY, Jun 19th 2010, #62
RE: A plea, SAReece, Jun 19th 2010, #63
RE: A plea, HOWMANY, Jun 19th 2010, #68
RE: A plea, Tasha, Jun 19th 2010, #64
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RE: A plea, franjipani, Jun 19th 2010, #55
RE: A plea, manninm5033, Jun 19th 2010, #56
RE: A plea, Crystal, Jun 19th 2010, #57
RE: A plea, Skeelabum, Jun 19th 2010, #69
LvTriplets Thu Jun-17-10 08:49 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1637 posts
#467916, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
She single handedly helped shape the mom I am today. My family eats healthier and I am a more involved mom, with not much to fear because of her strength. I am seriously appalled that she was banned. Her advice was generally spot on.
None of us are without faults, and I am sure I can think of a few members that have saddened many of us with their behavior. She has got to b about number 98 on the problem list. It is a shame such a helpful mom has been singled out for someones personal vendetta.
Laura & Don
BBB 5/05
www.ourbighappy.blogspot.com
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SuzyHope Thu Jun-17-10 08:49 PM
Member since Dec 29th 2007
66 posts
#467917, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I agree! We need MSTAR back!
http://lilypie.com>
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Crystal Thu Jun-17-10 09:01 PM
Member since May 27th 2008
1259 posts
#467920, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Word.
There's a good chance she had some not-so-great stuff to say about me in the past, but I don't really care because I appreciate her perspective.
mstar, starburst, whoever you are this week, I would totally join any triplet forum you choose to host. Because you make me chuckle and you're an awesome resource on red dye and free ranging chickens. And your triplet wisdom is much appreciated.
Crystal
http://familycernanec.blogspot.com/
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LolasLadies Thu Jun-17-10 09:10 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
2272 posts
#467921, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Yep.
There is so much I've learned from Michele just from her posts here and her blog. It also says a lot that her kids are smart, happy, well-rounded individuals.
So she called a newbie out... I think she said what more than a few of us were thinking (it's pretty obvious the poster I'm talking about didn't want advice; she wanted to flaunt and brag).
I'm sure the mods have better things to do than chase down her latest screennames anyway...
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
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Flakey_Flakes Thu Jun-17-10 09:21 PM
Member since Dec 11th 2008
81 posts
#467923, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 4
She just added me on FB last week. Had no idea she was mstar until I put 2 and 2 together.
BRING HER BACK!!!
That newbie said some horrible things. Was she banned? She probably went running with her tail between her legs. It's sad that the long time members get banned and that a newbie can ruin it for the rest of us. I would NEVER say things the newbie said. Ever.
Barbara
GGG 2/03/09
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PA triplets Thu Jun-17-10 09:22 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
3261 posts
#467924, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I agree. Her advice has helped me more times than I can remember.
In the 4 years I have been on here people have done worse and not been banned. Besides, the other poster was hardly innocent. She came looking for a fight and insulted a lot of members.
Bring back MSTAR!
Lori
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1plustriplets Thu Jun-17-10 09:35 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
293 posts
#467926, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 6
And while we are at it why not bring back Madmolly too?
These are ladies that I have come to know during my almost 7 years on TC. I am FB friends with them. I know if I need some advice (or a good head smack for being stupid) these ladies will be there. Unfortunately on the internet you can't hear someone's tone. I just know that they very rarely attack anyone for asking legitimate questions. And I have come to expect that MSTAR will reply fully with tongue in cheek candor.
What do you say TC?
Bring 'em back please?
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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Megan Welfare Thu Jun-17-10 10:06 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
6360 posts
#467934, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 7
>And while we are at it why not bring back Madmolly too?
>
>These are ladies that I have come to know during my almost 7
>years on TC. I am FB friends with them. I know if I need
>some advice (or a good head smack for being stupid) these
>ladies will be there. Unfortunately on the internet you can't
>hear someone's tone. I just know that they very rarely attack
>anyone for asking legitimate questions. And I have come to
>expect that MSTAR will reply fully with tongue in cheek
>candor.
>
>What do you say TC?
>
>Bring 'em back please?
>
Ditto. I don't know MadMolly personally, but I do know that she and I had a misunderstanding at one point and she actually called me personally to apologize. She went to a LOT of trouble to reach out, and she was SO NICE on the phone. In this day & age, there aren't a lot of people who would bother, especially when the situation was a little uncomfortable anyway, and since the fault was mutual and not solely hers!
MadMolly is an experienced mom who always has fantastic advice, and is such a valuable member of the forum. Like MSTAR, she can be a little blunt, but honestly it's kind of nice to know that you can count on someone to be perfectly truthful AND to offer advice about how you could do something differently and perhaps improve your parenting.
BGG born 4/25/05 at 31w1d
New baby girl born 9/19/06
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PA triplets Thu Jun-17-10 10:20 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
3261 posts
#467936, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 7
What in the world did Madmolly do to get banned? I can't think of anything she has said or done in a very long time that would cause disciplinary action. Bring Madmolly back too!
While we're at it, how about akcmachine? She was banned lately too for no reason I can think of. I read the post that supposedly got her banned and it didn't seem bad to me.
Lori
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LvTriplets Thu Jun-17-10 10:50 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1637 posts
#467942, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 7
Not to mention that I remember Madmolly was the one who made me start to question "who is they?". She inspired me to do my own research when it came to shots for the boys -not just go with the flow -but find what would work best for MY family.
Both of these women have made an impact on my parenting skills. Isn't that what forums like these are all about?
Why is it that so many are being banned in the past few days? Helpful, caring members who contribute to the forums are few and far between, please stop taking away the members that some of these new mommas may learn the most from.
Laura & Don
BBB 5/05
www.ourbighappy.blogspot.com
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Tasha Thu Jun-17-10 11:52 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#467944, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 7
OK I was going to say Lea wasn't banned that was a long time ago and they reinstated her. But I did a quick search and her posts have all been pulled. What the heck. Did I miss something? I feel like I am in High School with all this banning. Jeff and Janet I assume you have some moderators running the shop and they are not representing you well here. They are making you and TC look childish and petty. I hope you can rein in control.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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LolasLadies Thu Jun-17-10 11:58 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
2272 posts
#467945, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 21
I don't think you missed anything, Tasha... I think people are being banned by association.
Lea and Helene are two people that I was surprised to hear got banned. Michele? I was kind of expecting that, even though I think she was justified (but that's not how things work around here ).
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
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Tasha Fri Jun-18-10 01:28 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#467948, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 22
That is just ridiculous. If nothing has been done to warrant a banning, and I have been here everyday several times a day this past week while in bed ill so I don't think I would miss it, then something needs to be done. I know Jeff had gotten mods to run things and there was talk of more mods coming on board due to illness in the family but nobody ever came out and said they were a new mod. But the new feel of the board makes me feel they did give others mod powers and it is being abused. These banning just seem so vindictive, childish and immature to put it nicely. I can't imagine that this is how Jeff would want the forum run. I speak of Jeff more because he was our mod mostly and he was quite reasonable. I haven't seen Janet around the forum as much but I am sure she wouldn't want TC's forum turn into this either.
You know the banning are childish when you have people who have traditionally been foes on most issues of those who have been banned calling to have them resinstated because even they see banning them from the site is stupid and idiotic and an abuse of power.
What we should be calling for is the removal of he mods.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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1plustriplets Thu Jun-17-10 09:36 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
293 posts
#467927, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 6
And while we are at it why not bring back Madmolly too?
These are ladies that I have come to know during my almost 7 years on TC. I am FB friends with them. I know if I need some advice (or a good head smack for being stupid) these ladies will be there. Unfortunately on the internet you can't hear someone's tone. I just know that they very rarely attack anyone for asking legitimate questions. And I have come to expect that MSTAR will reply fully with tongue in cheek candor.
What do you say TC?
Bring 'em back please?
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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casanndra Thu Jun-17-10 10:04 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
191 posts
#467933, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 8
I agree! Madmolly is a wealth of information, and she has always been there to answer my questions.
I think the board would suffer a lot without her.
Kelli
Morgan (11) & natural (by natural I mean concieved on top of a picnic table at a campground, so maybe it should say nature-al) BBG triplets Eric, Josh, and Hannah born @ 33w1d
http://b5.lilypie
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Megan Welfare Thu Jun-17-10 09:45 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
6360 posts
#467928, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
MSTAR & I are often on opposite sides of any argument, and I do often feel that she is a little harsh and blunt. But she always makes me think. She's one person I know will always give it to me straight, and I appreciate that. I'm a better mom for having her as a member here, challenging the way I do things and offering a completely different perspective.
There is a difference between being obnoxious just for the heck of it, and being a little prickly by stating what a lot of others are thinking but would never have the nerve to say. MSTAR falls into the second category.
She is a valuable contributing member of TC, and I hope that she will be allowed to rejoin.
BGG born 4/25/05 at 31w1d
New baby girl born 9/19/06
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tripletmom05 Thu Jun-17-10 09:45 PM
Member since Apr 12th 2008
274 posts
#467929, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Yes! Please bring her and MadMolly back. There are many others on here that deserve to be banned before them. I am friends with both of them on FB as well, and they are great role models.
If anyone is going to be banned, it should be the newbies that come here intentionally insulting longtime members. (Or the members who constantly start drama and then say they are leaving only to come back the next day) Certainly NOT the members who are doing nothing more than sticking up for themselves.
Different perspectives are what makes this forum so great. They shouldn't be punished for having one that is different than yours...
My active G/G/G born at 32 weeks 5 days.
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lovemy4 Thu Jun-17-10 10:01 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
832 posts
#467932, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Bring MSTAR back! Who else am I going to get chicken-butchering advice from?? Seriously, she has a lot of great advice to offer.
And bring back MadMolly!!
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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Triplethefun04 Thu Jun-17-10 10:26 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1463 posts
#467937, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
To quote the penguins: "You all are a bunch of suck-ups!"
Michelle
33wk,2d
Tyler-19-college bound-Oh My!
Steph-17-senior in high school-Yikes!
Ayden, Ryley & Dylan-5 1/2-Off to Kindergarten-WOW!
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Megan Welfare Fri Jun-18-10 10:40 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
6360 posts
#467978, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 15
>To quote the penguins: "You all are a bunch of suck-ups!"
>
I'm not sure what that is supposed to mean - we are all risking being banned by posting here, not sucking up!
BGG born 4/25/05 at 31w1d
New baby girl born 9/19/06
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Triplethefun04 Fri Jun-18-10 01:54 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1463 posts
#468007, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 35
Lighten up Megan. I wouldn't expect you to get it.
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Mom23in2003 Thu Jun-17-10 10:27 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1612 posts
#467938, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Dittos. Bring 'em back.
Kristen
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6BlueEyes Thu Jun-17-10 10:30 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
710 posts
#467939, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
But, then, we'll lose out on all of the fun trying to figure out what her alias of the week is.
I'm kidding, obviously. I totally agree, she brings a lot to this forum and it is disappointing that she was banned. I must have missed Madmolly getting banned again, but the same goes for her. I often think the 2 of them are 1/2 nuts, but their posts are always honest and direct and even though I often don't agree, they always give me something to think about. This is a better board with them here.
Kelly
Ben, Jack & Drew 05/28/02
Charlie 07/06/06
Aunt to: Liam, Aidan & Connor 03/05/08
www.outnumberedmommy.blogspot.com
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Tanna Thu Jun-17-10 10:39 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1393 posts
#467941, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
PLEASE PLEAE PLEASE!!! Bring both of these Momma's Back!!!
Tanna
06/22/07 29 weeks 4 days
Lincoln 2 lbs 13 oz
Colton 2 lbs 14.4 oz
Dakota 2 lbs 11oz
http://tannastriplets.blogspot.com/
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k3triplets Thu Jun-17-10 10:55 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
807 posts
#467943, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Yep, bring 'em back.
Susanne
gbg @ 31.6
5/2006
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valeria Fri Jun-18-10 01:15 AM
Member since Dec 01st 2007
303 posts
#467946, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
MSTAR says things straight, she keeps both her feet on the ground she is practical and she is not afraid to say something you might not like, with a great sense of humor.
I've never ever found her comments rude or inpolite, maybe harsh sometime, sarcastic, but com'onwe don't live in Wonderland.
I love people who speaks clearly, I need that, as many other people. Let her back, it'a a huge loss for TC.
Valeria
mamma to
Niccolo' 08 Aug2004
Vera, Alessandro, Leonardo 02 Oct2007
www.nikandthetrip.wordpress.com
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lsmiller Fri Jun-18-10 01:23 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1091 posts
#467947, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Ditto!!!
Bring them both back. They are such valuable members. No one is perfect - but these two ladies give other members such great advice and support. I still can't believe they were banned.
http://www.brianandcharlie.com/blog
^Alexandra^, Brian, Charlie 07/28/2003
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lovemy4 Fri Jun-18-10 07:17 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
832 posts
#467953, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I just realized Helene got banned too. PLEASE bring back these invaluable moms!!
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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mw Fri Jun-18-10 07:38 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
4070 posts
#467955, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Fri Jun-18-10 07:43 AM by mw
I agree, please bring back these moms. I can't believe that all of Lea's posts were pulled. She has provided valuable insight and lots and lots of information to moms in need. That should not be pulled from the board.
I understand the need to be sensitive to new members and I have been surprised at how the tone of the forum has changed since I joined almost 9 years ago.
But, this last newbie was incredibly rude and disrepectful to those of us with surviving triplets. I've always appreciated how sensitive the members here are to those of us that do not have our triplets intact. I've always felt like a member here even though I just have two, not three.
I would hope that the moderators would educated someone as rude as Roe was. We have had fakers (too many to list) that have hurt members here. Even though some stir the pot and even though some posts should get pulled because of the direction they take - has it really been enough to ban long time members?
Please reconsider.
Marie
Edited to add: generally speaking the intent of those here is to put our children's needs first. In many cases the discussions become heated because the decision of a parent doesn't always seem to be in the best interest of the children. When people suggested it might not be a good idea to go to 37weeks it was because we know how quickly things can change and how quickly that change can lead to tragedy.
I have no idea why Helene & Lea were banned...
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SAReece Fri Jun-18-10 07:44 AM
Member since May 11th 2009
722 posts
#467956, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I do not know MStar very well, as I am pretty new here myself, but the bit I have talked to her and asked for advice and she has answered, I do appreciate her input. She is one of the ONLY blogs that I actually follow because I can not get enough of her advice and stories! She is very well grounded and seems to be just an all around good person.
This is a forum, which means that people with all inputs and perspectives should be allowed to post. When you put a bunch of people together, particularly women, there are going to be all kinds of opinions and people will NOT agree with everything that everyone said and *gasp* drama. That is what makes this place great. You say something stupid and insult almost every triplet mom on here (like roe did) then by all means, ALL opinions should be able to come out. It is not any different than a post asking for advice and all opinions coming out. Bring her back and let her have a different opinion than you, we all appreciate different views, that is why we are here.
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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sandsstone Fri Jun-18-10 09:26 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
3204 posts
#467961, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Is there any chance the mods would consider giving the banned people a probationary return? I don't know if the mods here use suspensions or not, but a month long suspension might work better than outright banning since is is easy to make up another user name and return to the board.
Susan
Parent to GGG born 31 weeks 4 days 4/26/07
http://www.sandsstone.com
http://www.thedivinemercy.org/message
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catybarra Fri Jun-18-10 09:42 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1011 posts
#467967, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Since when has anything been fair on this board? People get banned for the dumbest reasons. People who should get banned get protected by the powers that be. Just ban everyone, then we can find a new hang out
Cathy
Come visit us at http://www.leighaandthetriplets.blogspot.com/
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Tasha Fri Jun-18-10 10:06 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#467970, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
The more I thought about this all night the more I have become convinced there are new moderators have have been given banning powers. I just can't believe anyone who created an organization to help ALL triplet moms could behave this petty and childish as to ban people from a message board to help other triplet moms. Madmolly (lea) has not done anything and to ERASE all her past posts is appalling to me. She has provided information on children with special needs that could help mothers now and in the future as well as so many other topics. MSTAR (Michelle) was a little rough on the newbie but the situation wasn't of her own making. It was a build up. Many of us have snapped, myself included and I don't think it warrants banning. If it does I should have been banned several years ago. But I became a productive member of the community after I snapped on another person here didn't I? I just couldn't take the insanity anymore. And many of you here don't even know what I am talking about do you?
At this point I think the insanity is on the side of the moderators and I am snapping again. i just can't stand by and see the forum fall apart and become run by some vindictive person who is going to ban all the people who has dared ever disagree with her. And that is how it appears. So after 10 years here I risk banning (and I fully expect it here) to say I will not be renewing my financial membership of the triplet connection and encourage other to do the same until the current moderation is removed and the banned members are returned.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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lovemy4 Fri Jun-18-10 10:16 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
832 posts
#467974, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 31
Here here!
You've just said what's on all of our minds!
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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tripletmom05 Fri Jun-18-10 10:37 AM
Member since Apr 12th 2008
274 posts
#467977, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 31
I do agree.. Completely.
I want real answers. I don't want just the positive side of things. We can't even provide that here anymore. It all has to be sunshine and roses.
It is clear that this forum is going downhill with the new moderators. I used to recommend many new Triplet moms here. I can't say that I will anymore. I would rather them also know the real answers rather than the "positive" ones.
Thankfully, most of us have found each other on FB where we can freely say what we feel without fear of being "Banned". Mabye it is time that we create a group over there. Then if someone decides that others are offensive, they can choose to remove themselves.
My active G/G/G born at 32 weeks 5 days.
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lovemy4 Fri Jun-18-10 10:08 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
832 posts
#467972, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Hopefully "the powers that be" will remember that they have banned financially contributing members, members that have helped keep TC around for many years.
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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MumfordTriplets Fri Jun-18-10 10:52 AM
Member since Apr 27th 2008
650 posts
#467979, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 32
Where are the responses from TC? Obviously, we are all upset that they have done this....where is their side of the story?
I hope this thread ends up on the other site as I am sure it will be erased soon enough.
Both these women and Helene have given invaluable information throughout the years and both of which I consider our " forum experts". Michelle on her knowledge of red dye and eating healthier; Lea on immunizations and autism. I am disgusted that Lea's posts have been erased. What a loss for ALL OF US.
I think we deserve an explanation and for all these women to be put back online. How childish to ban them.
Karen
"http://render5.snapfish.com/render2/is=Yup6G0P%7C%3Dup6RKKt%3Axxr%3DJ-qpDofRtHef7mrPfrj7t%3DzrRfDUX%3AeQaQxg%3Dr%3F87KR6xqpxQQ0axQnQxennxv8uOc5xQooQPPl0PPQQaqpfVtB%3F*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6qgXJQQJn%7CRup6aQQ%7C/of=50,172,260"
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Cariad Fri Jun-18-10 11:29 AM
Member since Jan 17th 2006
166 posts
#467983, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I read this board all the way from Singapore (UK expat) - there are not a lot of triplet here in Singapore, so I have learnt a lot on this board. I get some great ideas and some great perspectives. I really do appreciate this resource.
MSTAR is one of the posters I really admire. I also read her blog. She is hardly a troublemaker. What she does is say what she thinks - I wish I was a little more forthright like her. And the whole mess this time was caused by her saying something really worth saying. My triplets are almost 4 and I have cried so many times through the years reading of babies who are just born to early to make it. Or have difficulties related to prematurity. I think anyone reading would have told Roe to slow down. (I am hours behind here so it has almost always all been said before I even read it - or I would have said slow down - it might be fine but it's not worth the risk). How it deteriated from there - well it just got awful, that throwaway 'I don't care' comment. Personally I don't think Michelle should be the one banned. And I think this board will lose more than she will if she decides to stay away.
Sandie
Sandie,
mum to dd (2002), ds (2003) and bgb triplets (2006)
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Cariad Fri Jun-18-10 11:39 AM
Member since Jan 17th 2006
166 posts
#467987, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Oh my goodness - I did not realise that others had been banned too and that all past posts have been pulled. A lot of posts particulary lea's have such a lot of good information. I always wonder how she finds the time to post so much info. Please put it all back.
sincerely
Sandie,
mum to dd (2002), ds (2003) and bgb triplets (2006)
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Tasha Fri Jun-18-10 12:09 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#467993, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 38
It does add a whole new dimension doesn't it. It goes from a member who was maybe a little harsh being "punished" (which being permanently banned I feel far to extreme) to Triplet Connection as an organization looking petty and vindictive by banning and erasing these other members posts for major infraction. Is it guilt by association because they are friends? Because she laughed at a post someone else posted that was pulled? What warrants banning from Triplet Connection and erasure of all your posts? Those posts had great searchable information that could help other mothers that have a child/ren with autism. And there are others that have been banned. How many? They can't vary well stand up and say I have been banned! Unless they are on face book. I hope they are at least reading and are coming to facebook.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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SusanI Fri Jun-18-10 12:38 PM
Member since Aug 25th 2008
115 posts
#468000, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 39
I usually stay out of all of this kind of stuff, but I agree that the posts being erased is kind of ridiculous. Most of the time, I usually search for a topic I have a question on and comb through the advice/info these moms have been through and are knowledgeable about. I also find their advice refreshing and funny, most of the time, ha! But this banning people and erasing posts is getting a little petty and absurd.
Born 11/7/08 @ 34w1d
Andrew James - 4lb 13oz
Ava Catherine - 3lb 11oz
Mia Kaye - 3lb 13oz
http://iglesiastriplets.blogspot.com
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hardentriplets Fri Jun-18-10 01:56 PM
Member since Feb 27th 2008
1777 posts
#468008, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
You can tell the boards have changed in the sense that I remember when I first joined 2 yrs ago threads flew on here. Always questions and advice being thrown left and right.
Has anyone noticed that we've been on the same page for the past 2 maybe 3 days?
It's a shame those girls are gone. HUGE mistake.
One thing I'll always remember from these boards is Lea's amazing advice toward vacs.
Good thing I don't need this place to stay in touch, I'll keep track of them crazy chicks on FB.
*MAGGIE*
Visit our family~
http://hardentriplets.blogspot.com/
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4kds4me Fri Jun-18-10 02:52 PM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1284 posts
#468017, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I really do wish that Madmolly's posts had not been deleted also. Even though we are on different sides of the fence regarding vaccinations, she has provided valuable info for parents that are undecided and want to be informed to make the best decision for their children.
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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lsmiller Fri Jun-18-10 04:35 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1091 posts
#468033, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 43
So what are your thoughts on bringing MSTAR back?? You don't sound like you are in favor of that....
http://www.brianandcharlie.com/blog
^Alexandra^, Brian, Charlie 07/28/2003
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k3triplets Sat Jun-19-10 08:43 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
807 posts
#468066, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 47
what.a.shock.
Susanne
gbg @ 31.6
5/2006
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Kealoha12 Fri Jun-18-10 02:54 PM
Member since Jan 11th 2008
1291 posts
#468019, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I think its ironic that this banning just seems to highlight the problems with TC. If Michelle and Lea and even Kristina were not banned, the things they wrote would have been longed buried by now instead of being re-hashed again and again.
Grace
B 06/03/03
BBB 05/24/08
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Rick-Carole Fri Jun-18-10 03:20 PM
Member since Oct 30th 2008
443 posts
#468025, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
MStar may be the most controversial (and yes sometimes annoying.... but who isn't?!?) person to post on TC, but I'm totally opposed to banning someone for that. She also has a LOT of common sense and helps a LOT of people.
Everyone deserves a chance to speak their mind. If a post is inappropriate, then mods can erase it. But eliminating a person altogether from the TC message boards is overkill, and hardly fair.
Rick
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Katrina_Jason Fri Jun-18-10 04:26 PM
Member since Apr 29th 2008
1497 posts
#468032, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
For a forum full of adults, parents no less, we all sure get treated like a bunch of children by the powers that be. I don't agree with everything posted on this board but I am a big girl and can can ignore it, or if I dare, I can put on my flame resistant panties and reply with my .02 either way I am capable of making that call for myself. I do not need the mods to pick and choose what I can and can not read or ban those THEY feel are too offensive to post here. Mother May I......
Our Blog http://tripmomma.blogspot.com/
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Boys mom Fri Jun-18-10 05:00 PM
Member since Feb 27th 2008
172 posts
#468035, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I agree, I have learned a ton from her.
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sammie161 Fri Jun-18-10 09:30 PM
Member since Jul 23rd 2008
585 posts
#468036, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I have honestly not been on TC as much and have relied on FB for news. I also LOVE MStar's blog. Best stories ever!!!
Sam, Mommy to GBB Triplets
Born 8/26/08 29.6 weeks
www.cleysclan.blogspot.com
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HOWMANY Fri Jun-18-10 11:15 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468040, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I say good riddence! Both Michele and Lea get on their high horses and think they are the "right". Far to much preachin' from both of them.
Buh bye!
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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SAReece Fri Jun-18-10 11:46 PM
Member since May 11th 2009
722 posts
#468041, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 50
So that means that this forum for all triplet parents should really only be people who conform to what you believe is right? This is the problem to begin with.
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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Triplethefun04 Sat Jun-19-10 06:57 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1463 posts
#468059, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 51
You got it - have a difference of opinion and Oh My! :p Conform! Conform! Conform! around here!
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HOWMANY Sat Jun-19-10 01:45 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468079, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 51
There is no room for the sarcasm and rudness in way they attack some people around here. Not just the newbies who I admit where out of line, but the attack on long standing members who are also a wealth of information.
They have done this for too long and have a pattern of doing this kind of stuff.
I don't agree with there post being pulled that were helpful and insight full. But there has to be some consequences for the actions of these women.
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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SAReece Sat Jun-19-10 03:00 PM
Member since May 11th 2009
722 posts
#468084, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 62
Amy, arent you "friends" with Michele on facebook or is there another Amy Ferris ? And then you come here trashing her? Maybe I am just out of the loop (which is very possible) and this is just a joke, but seriously... if mstar is such a horrible person that attacks people, why are you "friends" on facebook?
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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HOWMANY Sat Jun-19-10 03:51 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468095, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 63
I have to make sure they she isn't talking about me.
She is plain bat$h*t!
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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Tasha Sat Jun-19-10 03:04 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#468086, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 62
But what about the bigger picture?
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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HOWMANY Sat Jun-19-10 03:48 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468092, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 64
There is a bigger picture? Where? Link please or point me in the right direction.
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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LolasLadies Sat Jun-19-10 03:43 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
2272 posts
#468091, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 62
I vote: SPANKINGS!
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
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HOWMANY Sat Jun-19-10 03:49 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468093, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 65
YES please!!!!!!!!
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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1plustriplets Sat Jun-19-10 06:59 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
293 posts
#468060, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 50
Oh my.
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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k3triplets Sat Jun-19-10 08:45 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
807 posts
#468067, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 50
yes, we should only have preachin' from those we agree with.
Susanne
gbg @ 31.6
5/2006
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PA triplets Fri Jun-18-10 11:47 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
3261 posts
#468042, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Just for the record, deleting every post someone made for the last 5 years is just plain wrong. Whichever moderator did that should be ashamed of themselves. Whether you agree or disagree with Lea's opinions, she has really made people think around here. I have no idea why she was just banned and don't think that was right either. Deleting all that useful information from the archives is completely defeating the purpose of this forum. All the newbies have just been deprived of information for absolutely no reason.
Lori
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kittyln Sat Jun-19-10 01:39 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
135 posts
#468046, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
First of all I want to say that I don't post a lot, but this forum has been awesome for me. I believe that is a place for adults/parents to get together and "discuss". Yeah we might not agree on everything and just because this is the "triplet connection" some of us don't have any other means of communication. This is where we come to get our vents, frustrations, laughs, and connections from. I think MSTAR is great! She is blunt and staight forward, and although we don't all agree with her we can "hash" it out.
Bring MStar and everyone else every banned back, and let us enjoy our conversations
Michele
GGB 26wks 6days
http://lanetriplets.blogspot.com
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franjipani Sat Jun-19-10 02:08 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2355 posts
#468052, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Michele, Lea and Helene (any others?) should be brought back.
They are the ones who get in the trenches and are fighting for the preemie mums when offensive posters come by. So when the time zones shift and I get up and check out the threads, I can shrug and realise there is nothing more to add, because they've said it far better than I ever could.
They are the ones who offered to take time from their own vacations to sit with Feisty's older son, and to give Feisty contacts at hospitals/nursing coordinators.
These women support other TC women. I don't know them from FB, or MOM groups, I only know them from their posts here. From the day they all joined they have been unique individuals, as we all are, as is society. Being triplet parents doesn't mean we are cookie cutter parents.
They wear their opinions and hearts on their sleeves. They are wise, they are caring, and this board has benefited from them being the women they all are.
tess
mummy to 8yr old ds & the triumverate born 2004
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manninm5033 Sat Jun-19-10 04:55 AM
Member since Jan 13th 2010
17 posts
#468054, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 55
I'm new, but you all have me wondering about MSTAR's blog. Could someone post a link to it? Thank you!
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Crystal Sat Jun-19-10 06:25 AM
Member since May 27th 2008
1259 posts
#468057, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 56
Happy reading...
http://fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com/
...watch out for the chickens.
Crystal
http://familycernanec.blogspot.com/
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Skeelabum Sat Jun-19-10 08:08 PM
Member since May 28th 2009
93 posts
#468113, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I haven't been on in about a month and it seems I completely missed what happened.
I know I could still be considered a newbie because I don't post often, I don't recognize too many user names on here, except for MSTAR and a few others...I'm shocked.
I belong to a few forums and believe me this one is fairly tame...so I can't even imagine what went down to have any mod do this.
Ban or give a 'time out'...but to pull all their posts?? NOT COOL Even when I am not an active poster (compared to most)...I rely on this forum as like a database for any questions I have...and to pull all posts of a regular poster like that makes most topics or threads just garble!!
Sucky move!! grrr
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1plustriplets Sat Jun-19-10 01:01 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
293 posts
#467915, "A plea"
Please bring MSTAR back! Seriously.
I miss her advice on here!!!
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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RE: A plea, Triplethefun04, Jun 18th 2010, #41
RE: A plea, Mom23in2003, Jun 17th 2010, #16
RE: A plea, 6BlueEyes, Jun 17th 2010, #17
RE: A plea, Tanna, Jun 17th 2010, #18
RE: A plea, k3triplets, Jun 17th 2010, #20
RE: A plea, valeria, Jun 18th 2010, #23
RE: A plea, lsmiller, Jun 18th 2010, #24
RE: A plea, lovemy4, Jun 18th 2010, #26
RE: A plea, mw, Jun 18th 2010, #27
RE: A plea, SAReece, Jun 18th 2010, #28
RE: A plea, sandsstone, Jun 18th 2010, #29
RE: A plea, catybarra, Jun 18th 2010, #30
RE: A plea, Tasha, Jun 18th 2010, #31
RE: A plea, lovemy4, Jun 18th 2010, #33
RE: A plea, tripletmom05, Jun 18th 2010, #34
RE: A plea, lovemy4, Jun 18th 2010, #32
RE: A plea, MumfordTriplets, Jun 18th 2010, #36
RE: A plea, Cariad, Jun 18th 2010, #37
RE: A plea, Cariad, Jun 18th 2010, #38
RE: A plea, Tasha, Jun 18th 2010, #39
RE: A plea, SusanI, Jun 18th 2010, #40
RE: A plea, hardentriplets, Jun 18th 2010, #42
RE: A plea, 4kds4me, Jun 18th 2010, #43
RE: A plea, lsmiller, Jun 18th 2010, #47
RE: A plea, k3triplets, Jun 19th 2010, #60
RE: A plea, Kealoha12, Jun 18th 2010, #44
RE: A plea, Rick-Carole, Jun 18th 2010, #45
RE: A plea, Katrina_Jason, Jun 18th 2010, #46
RE: A plea, Boys mom, Jun 18th 2010, #48
RE: A plea, sammie161, Jun 18th 2010, #49
RE: A plea, HOWMANY, Jun 18th 2010, #50
RE: A plea, SAReece, Jun 18th 2010, #51
RE: A plea, Triplethefun04, Jun 19th 2010, #58
RE: A plea, HOWMANY, Jun 19th 2010, #62
RE: A plea, SAReece, Jun 19th 2010, #63
RE: A plea, HOWMANY, Jun 19th 2010, #68
RE: A plea, Tasha, Jun 19th 2010, #64
RE: A plea, HOWMANY, Jun 19th 2010, #66
RE: A plea, LolasLadies, Jun 19th 2010, #65
RE: A plea, HOWMANY, Jun 19th 2010, #67
RE: A plea, 1plustriplets, Jun 19th 2010, #59
RE: A plea, k3triplets, Jun 19th 2010, #61
RE: A plea, PA triplets, Jun 18th 2010, #52
RE: A plea, kittyln, Jun 19th 2010, #54
RE: A plea, franjipani, Jun 19th 2010, #55
RE: A plea, manninm5033, Jun 19th 2010, #56
RE: A plea, Crystal, Jun 19th 2010, #57
RE: A plea, Skeelabum, Jun 19th 2010, #69
LvTriplets Thu Jun-17-10 08:49 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1637 posts
#467916, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
She single handedly helped shape the mom I am today. My family eats healthier and I am a more involved mom, with not much to fear because of her strength. I am seriously appalled that she was banned. Her advice was generally spot on.
None of us are without faults, and I am sure I can think of a few members that have saddened many of us with their behavior. She has got to b about number 98 on the problem list. It is a shame such a helpful mom has been singled out for someones personal vendetta.
Laura & Don
BBB 5/05
www.ourbighappy.blogspot.com
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SuzyHope Thu Jun-17-10 08:49 PM
Member since Dec 29th 2007
66 posts
#467917, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I agree! We need MSTAR back!
http://lilypie.com>
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Crystal Thu Jun-17-10 09:01 PM
Member since May 27th 2008
1259 posts
#467920, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Word.
There's a good chance she had some not-so-great stuff to say about me in the past, but I don't really care because I appreciate her perspective.
mstar, starburst, whoever you are this week, I would totally join any triplet forum you choose to host. Because you make me chuckle and you're an awesome resource on red dye and free ranging chickens. And your triplet wisdom is much appreciated.
Crystal
http://familycernanec.blogspot.com/
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LolasLadies Thu Jun-17-10 09:10 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
2272 posts
#467921, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Yep.
There is so much I've learned from Michele just from her posts here and her blog. It also says a lot that her kids are smart, happy, well-rounded individuals.
So she called a newbie out... I think she said what more than a few of us were thinking (it's pretty obvious the poster I'm talking about didn't want advice; she wanted to flaunt and brag).
I'm sure the mods have better things to do than chase down her latest screennames anyway...
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
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Flakey_Flakes Thu Jun-17-10 09:21 PM
Member since Dec 11th 2008
81 posts
#467923, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 4
She just added me on FB last week. Had no idea she was mstar until I put 2 and 2 together.
BRING HER BACK!!!
That newbie said some horrible things. Was she banned? She probably went running with her tail between her legs. It's sad that the long time members get banned and that a newbie can ruin it for the rest of us. I would NEVER say things the newbie said. Ever.
Barbara
GGG 2/03/09
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PA triplets Thu Jun-17-10 09:22 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
3261 posts
#467924, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I agree. Her advice has helped me more times than I can remember.
In the 4 years I have been on here people have done worse and not been banned. Besides, the other poster was hardly innocent. She came looking for a fight and insulted a lot of members.
Bring back MSTAR!
Lori
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1plustriplets Thu Jun-17-10 09:35 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
293 posts
#467926, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 6
And while we are at it why not bring back Madmolly too?
These are ladies that I have come to know during my almost 7 years on TC. I am FB friends with them. I know if I need some advice (or a good head smack for being stupid) these ladies will be there. Unfortunately on the internet you can't hear someone's tone. I just know that they very rarely attack anyone for asking legitimate questions. And I have come to expect that MSTAR will reply fully with tongue in cheek candor.
What do you say TC?
Bring 'em back please?
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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Megan Welfare Thu Jun-17-10 10:06 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
6360 posts
#467934, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 7
>And while we are at it why not bring back Madmolly too?
>
>These are ladies that I have come to know during my almost 7
>years on TC. I am FB friends with them. I know if I need
>some advice (or a good head smack for being stupid) these
>ladies will be there. Unfortunately on the internet you can't
>hear someone's tone. I just know that they very rarely attack
>anyone for asking legitimate questions. And I have come to
>expect that MSTAR will reply fully with tongue in cheek
>candor.
>
>What do you say TC?
>
>Bring 'em back please?
>
Ditto. I don't know MadMolly personally, but I do know that she and I had a misunderstanding at one point and she actually called me personally to apologize. She went to a LOT of trouble to reach out, and she was SO NICE on the phone. In this day & age, there aren't a lot of people who would bother, especially when the situation was a little uncomfortable anyway, and since the fault was mutual and not solely hers!
MadMolly is an experienced mom who always has fantastic advice, and is such a valuable member of the forum. Like MSTAR, she can be a little blunt, but honestly it's kind of nice to know that you can count on someone to be perfectly truthful AND to offer advice about how you could do something differently and perhaps improve your parenting.
BGG born 4/25/05 at 31w1d
New baby girl born 9/19/06
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PA triplets Thu Jun-17-10 10:20 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
3261 posts
#467936, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 7
What in the world did Madmolly do to get banned? I can't think of anything she has said or done in a very long time that would cause disciplinary action. Bring Madmolly back too!
While we're at it, how about akcmachine? She was banned lately too for no reason I can think of. I read the post that supposedly got her banned and it didn't seem bad to me.
Lori
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LvTriplets Thu Jun-17-10 10:50 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1637 posts
#467942, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 7
Not to mention that I remember Madmolly was the one who made me start to question "who is they?". She inspired me to do my own research when it came to shots for the boys -not just go with the flow -but find what would work best for MY family.
Both of these women have made an impact on my parenting skills. Isn't that what forums like these are all about?
Why is it that so many are being banned in the past few days? Helpful, caring members who contribute to the forums are few and far between, please stop taking away the members that some of these new mommas may learn the most from.
Laura & Don
BBB 5/05
www.ourbighappy.blogspot.com
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Tasha Thu Jun-17-10 11:52 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#467944, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 7
OK I was going to say Lea wasn't banned that was a long time ago and they reinstated her. But I did a quick search and her posts have all been pulled. What the heck. Did I miss something? I feel like I am in High School with all this banning. Jeff and Janet I assume you have some moderators running the shop and they are not representing you well here. They are making you and TC look childish and petty. I hope you can rein in control.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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LolasLadies Thu Jun-17-10 11:58 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
2272 posts
#467945, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 21
I don't think you missed anything, Tasha... I think people are being banned by association.
Lea and Helene are two people that I was surprised to hear got banned. Michele? I was kind of expecting that, even though I think she was justified (but that's not how things work around here ).
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
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Tasha Fri Jun-18-10 01:28 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#467948, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 22
That is just ridiculous. If nothing has been done to warrant a banning, and I have been here everyday several times a day this past week while in bed ill so I don't think I would miss it, then something needs to be done. I know Jeff had gotten mods to run things and there was talk of more mods coming on board due to illness in the family but nobody ever came out and said they were a new mod. But the new feel of the board makes me feel they did give others mod powers and it is being abused. These banning just seem so vindictive, childish and immature to put it nicely. I can't imagine that this is how Jeff would want the forum run. I speak of Jeff more because he was our mod mostly and he was quite reasonable. I haven't seen Janet around the forum as much but I am sure she wouldn't want TC's forum turn into this either.
You know the banning are childish when you have people who have traditionally been foes on most issues of those who have been banned calling to have them resinstated because even they see banning them from the site is stupid and idiotic and an abuse of power.
What we should be calling for is the removal of he mods.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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1plustriplets Thu Jun-17-10 09:36 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
293 posts
#467927, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 6
And while we are at it why not bring back Madmolly too?
These are ladies that I have come to know during my almost 7 years on TC. I am FB friends with them. I know if I need some advice (or a good head smack for being stupid) these ladies will be there. Unfortunately on the internet you can't hear someone's tone. I just know that they very rarely attack anyone for asking legitimate questions. And I have come to expect that MSTAR will reply fully with tongue in cheek candor.
What do you say TC?
Bring 'em back please?
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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casanndra Thu Jun-17-10 10:04 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
191 posts
#467933, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 8
I agree! Madmolly is a wealth of information, and she has always been there to answer my questions.
I think the board would suffer a lot without her.
Kelli
Morgan (11) & natural (by natural I mean concieved on top of a picnic table at a campground, so maybe it should say nature-al) BBG triplets Eric, Josh, and Hannah born @ 33w1d
http://b5.lilypie
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Megan Welfare Thu Jun-17-10 09:45 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
6360 posts
#467928, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
MSTAR & I are often on opposite sides of any argument, and I do often feel that she is a little harsh and blunt. But she always makes me think. She's one person I know will always give it to me straight, and I appreciate that. I'm a better mom for having her as a member here, challenging the way I do things and offering a completely different perspective.
There is a difference between being obnoxious just for the heck of it, and being a little prickly by stating what a lot of others are thinking but would never have the nerve to say. MSTAR falls into the second category.
She is a valuable contributing member of TC, and I hope that she will be allowed to rejoin.
BGG born 4/25/05 at 31w1d
New baby girl born 9/19/06
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tripletmom05 Thu Jun-17-10 09:45 PM
Member since Apr 12th 2008
274 posts
#467929, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Yes! Please bring her and MadMolly back. There are many others on here that deserve to be banned before them. I am friends with both of them on FB as well, and they are great role models.
If anyone is going to be banned, it should be the newbies that come here intentionally insulting longtime members. (Or the members who constantly start drama and then say they are leaving only to come back the next day) Certainly NOT the members who are doing nothing more than sticking up for themselves.
Different perspectives are what makes this forum so great. They shouldn't be punished for having one that is different than yours...
My active G/G/G born at 32 weeks 5 days.
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lovemy4 Thu Jun-17-10 10:01 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
832 posts
#467932, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Bring MSTAR back! Who else am I going to get chicken-butchering advice from?? Seriously, she has a lot of great advice to offer.
And bring back MadMolly!!
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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Triplethefun04 Thu Jun-17-10 10:26 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1463 posts
#467937, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
To quote the penguins: "You all are a bunch of suck-ups!"
Michelle
33wk,2d
Tyler-19-college bound-Oh My!
Steph-17-senior in high school-Yikes!
Ayden, Ryley & Dylan-5 1/2-Off to Kindergarten-WOW!
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Megan Welfare Fri Jun-18-10 10:40 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
6360 posts
#467978, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 15
>To quote the penguins: "You all are a bunch of suck-ups!"
>
I'm not sure what that is supposed to mean - we are all risking being banned by posting here, not sucking up!
BGG born 4/25/05 at 31w1d
New baby girl born 9/19/06
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Triplethefun04 Fri Jun-18-10 01:54 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1463 posts
#468007, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 35
Lighten up Megan. I wouldn't expect you to get it.
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Mom23in2003 Thu Jun-17-10 10:27 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1612 posts
#467938, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Dittos. Bring 'em back.
Kristen
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6BlueEyes Thu Jun-17-10 10:30 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
710 posts
#467939, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
But, then, we'll lose out on all of the fun trying to figure out what her alias of the week is.
I'm kidding, obviously. I totally agree, she brings a lot to this forum and it is disappointing that she was banned. I must have missed Madmolly getting banned again, but the same goes for her. I often think the 2 of them are 1/2 nuts, but their posts are always honest and direct and even though I often don't agree, they always give me something to think about. This is a better board with them here.
Kelly
Ben, Jack & Drew 05/28/02
Charlie 07/06/06
Aunt to: Liam, Aidan & Connor 03/05/08
www.outnumberedmommy.blogspot.com
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Tanna Thu Jun-17-10 10:39 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1393 posts
#467941, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
PLEASE PLEAE PLEASE!!! Bring both of these Momma's Back!!!
Tanna
06/22/07 29 weeks 4 days
Lincoln 2 lbs 13 oz
Colton 2 lbs 14.4 oz
Dakota 2 lbs 11oz
http://tannastriplets.blogspot.com/
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k3triplets Thu Jun-17-10 10:55 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
807 posts
#467943, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Yep, bring 'em back.
Susanne
gbg @ 31.6
5/2006
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valeria Fri Jun-18-10 01:15 AM
Member since Dec 01st 2007
303 posts
#467946, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
MSTAR says things straight, she keeps both her feet on the ground she is practical and she is not afraid to say something you might not like, with a great sense of humor.
I've never ever found her comments rude or inpolite, maybe harsh sometime, sarcastic, but com'onwe don't live in Wonderland.
I love people who speaks clearly, I need that, as many other people. Let her back, it'a a huge loss for TC.
Valeria
mamma to
Niccolo' 08 Aug2004
Vera, Alessandro, Leonardo 02 Oct2007
www.nikandthetrip.wordpress.com
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lsmiller Fri Jun-18-10 01:23 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1091 posts
#467947, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Ditto!!!
Bring them both back. They are such valuable members. No one is perfect - but these two ladies give other members such great advice and support. I still can't believe they were banned.
http://www.brianandcharlie.com/blog
^Alexandra^, Brian, Charlie 07/28/2003
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lovemy4 Fri Jun-18-10 07:17 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
832 posts
#467953, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I just realized Helene got banned too. PLEASE bring back these invaluable moms!!
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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mw Fri Jun-18-10 07:38 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
4070 posts
#467955, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Fri Jun-18-10 07:43 AM by mw
I agree, please bring back these moms. I can't believe that all of Lea's posts were pulled. She has provided valuable insight and lots and lots of information to moms in need. That should not be pulled from the board.
I understand the need to be sensitive to new members and I have been surprised at how the tone of the forum has changed since I joined almost 9 years ago.
But, this last newbie was incredibly rude and disrepectful to those of us with surviving triplets. I've always appreciated how sensitive the members here are to those of us that do not have our triplets intact. I've always felt like a member here even though I just have two, not three.
I would hope that the moderators would educated someone as rude as Roe was. We have had fakers (too many to list) that have hurt members here. Even though some stir the pot and even though some posts should get pulled because of the direction they take - has it really been enough to ban long time members?
Please reconsider.
Marie
Edited to add: generally speaking the intent of those here is to put our children's needs first. In many cases the discussions become heated because the decision of a parent doesn't always seem to be in the best interest of the children. When people suggested it might not be a good idea to go to 37weeks it was because we know how quickly things can change and how quickly that change can lead to tragedy.
I have no idea why Helene & Lea were banned...
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SAReece Fri Jun-18-10 07:44 AM
Member since May 11th 2009
722 posts
#467956, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I do not know MStar very well, as I am pretty new here myself, but the bit I have talked to her and asked for advice and she has answered, I do appreciate her input. She is one of the ONLY blogs that I actually follow because I can not get enough of her advice and stories! She is very well grounded and seems to be just an all around good person.
This is a forum, which means that people with all inputs and perspectives should be allowed to post. When you put a bunch of people together, particularly women, there are going to be all kinds of opinions and people will NOT agree with everything that everyone said and *gasp* drama. That is what makes this place great. You say something stupid and insult almost every triplet mom on here (like roe did) then by all means, ALL opinions should be able to come out. It is not any different than a post asking for advice and all opinions coming out. Bring her back and let her have a different opinion than you, we all appreciate different views, that is why we are here.
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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sandsstone Fri Jun-18-10 09:26 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
3204 posts
#467961, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Is there any chance the mods would consider giving the banned people a probationary return? I don't know if the mods here use suspensions or not, but a month long suspension might work better than outright banning since is is easy to make up another user name and return to the board.
Susan
Parent to GGG born 31 weeks 4 days 4/26/07
http://www.sandsstone.com
http://www.thedivinemercy.org/message
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catybarra Fri Jun-18-10 09:42 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1011 posts
#467967, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Since when has anything been fair on this board? People get banned for the dumbest reasons. People who should get banned get protected by the powers that be. Just ban everyone, then we can find a new hang out
Cathy
Come visit us at http://www.leighaandthetriplets.blogspot.com/
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Tasha Fri Jun-18-10 10:06 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#467970, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
The more I thought about this all night the more I have become convinced there are new moderators have have been given banning powers. I just can't believe anyone who created an organization to help ALL triplet moms could behave this petty and childish as to ban people from a message board to help other triplet moms. Madmolly (lea) has not done anything and to ERASE all her past posts is appalling to me. She has provided information on children with special needs that could help mothers now and in the future as well as so many other topics. MSTAR (Michelle) was a little rough on the newbie but the situation wasn't of her own making. It was a build up. Many of us have snapped, myself included and I don't think it warrants banning. If it does I should have been banned several years ago. But I became a productive member of the community after I snapped on another person here didn't I? I just couldn't take the insanity anymore. And many of you here don't even know what I am talking about do you?
At this point I think the insanity is on the side of the moderators and I am snapping again. i just can't stand by and see the forum fall apart and become run by some vindictive person who is going to ban all the people who has dared ever disagree with her. And that is how it appears. So after 10 years here I risk banning (and I fully expect it here) to say I will not be renewing my financial membership of the triplet connection and encourage other to do the same until the current moderation is removed and the banned members are returned.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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lovemy4 Fri Jun-18-10 10:16 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
832 posts
#467974, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 31
Here here!
You've just said what's on all of our minds!
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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tripletmom05 Fri Jun-18-10 10:37 AM
Member since Apr 12th 2008
274 posts
#467977, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 31
I do agree.. Completely.
I want real answers. I don't want just the positive side of things. We can't even provide that here anymore. It all has to be sunshine and roses.
It is clear that this forum is going downhill with the new moderators. I used to recommend many new Triplet moms here. I can't say that I will anymore. I would rather them also know the real answers rather than the "positive" ones.
Thankfully, most of us have found each other on FB where we can freely say what we feel without fear of being "Banned". Mabye it is time that we create a group over there. Then if someone decides that others are offensive, they can choose to remove themselves.
My active G/G/G born at 32 weeks 5 days.
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lovemy4 Fri Jun-18-10 10:08 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
832 posts
#467972, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Hopefully "the powers that be" will remember that they have banned financially contributing members, members that have helped keep TC around for many years.
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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MumfordTriplets Fri Jun-18-10 10:52 AM
Member since Apr 27th 2008
650 posts
#467979, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 32
Where are the responses from TC? Obviously, we are all upset that they have done this....where is their side of the story?
I hope this thread ends up on the other site as I am sure it will be erased soon enough.
Both these women and Helene have given invaluable information throughout the years and both of which I consider our " forum experts". Michelle on her knowledge of red dye and eating healthier; Lea on immunizations and autism. I am disgusted that Lea's posts have been erased. What a loss for ALL OF US.
I think we deserve an explanation and for all these women to be put back online. How childish to ban them.
Karen
"http://render5.snapfish.com/render2/is=Yup6G0P%7C%3Dup6RKKt%3Axxr%3DJ-qpDofRtHef7mrPfrj7t%3DzrRfDUX%3AeQaQxg%3Dr%3F87KR6xqpxQQ0axQnQxennxv8uOc5xQooQPPl0PPQQaqpfVtB%3F*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6qgXJQQJn%7CRup6aQQ%7C/of=50,172,260"
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Cariad Fri Jun-18-10 11:29 AM
Member since Jan 17th 2006
166 posts
#467983, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I read this board all the way from Singapore (UK expat) - there are not a lot of triplet here in Singapore, so I have learnt a lot on this board. I get some great ideas and some great perspectives. I really do appreciate this resource.
MSTAR is one of the posters I really admire. I also read her blog. She is hardly a troublemaker. What she does is say what she thinks - I wish I was a little more forthright like her. And the whole mess this time was caused by her saying something really worth saying. My triplets are almost 4 and I have cried so many times through the years reading of babies who are just born to early to make it. Or have difficulties related to prematurity. I think anyone reading would have told Roe to slow down. (I am hours behind here so it has almost always all been said before I even read it - or I would have said slow down - it might be fine but it's not worth the risk). How it deteriated from there - well it just got awful, that throwaway 'I don't care' comment. Personally I don't think Michelle should be the one banned. And I think this board will lose more than she will if she decides to stay away.
Sandie
Sandie,
mum to dd (2002), ds (2003) and bgb triplets (2006)
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Cariad Fri Jun-18-10 11:39 AM
Member since Jan 17th 2006
166 posts
#467987, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Oh my goodness - I did not realise that others had been banned too and that all past posts have been pulled. A lot of posts particulary lea's have such a lot of good information. I always wonder how she finds the time to post so much info. Please put it all back.
sincerely
Sandie,
mum to dd (2002), ds (2003) and bgb triplets (2006)
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Tasha Fri Jun-18-10 12:09 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#467993, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 38
It does add a whole new dimension doesn't it. It goes from a member who was maybe a little harsh being "punished" (which being permanently banned I feel far to extreme) to Triplet Connection as an organization looking petty and vindictive by banning and erasing these other members posts for major infraction. Is it guilt by association because they are friends? Because she laughed at a post someone else posted that was pulled? What warrants banning from Triplet Connection and erasure of all your posts? Those posts had great searchable information that could help other mothers that have a child/ren with autism. And there are others that have been banned. How many? They can't vary well stand up and say I have been banned! Unless they are on face book. I hope they are at least reading and are coming to facebook.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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SusanI Fri Jun-18-10 12:38 PM
Member since Aug 25th 2008
115 posts
#468000, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 39
I usually stay out of all of this kind of stuff, but I agree that the posts being erased is kind of ridiculous. Most of the time, I usually search for a topic I have a question on and comb through the advice/info these moms have been through and are knowledgeable about. I also find their advice refreshing and funny, most of the time, ha! But this banning people and erasing posts is getting a little petty and absurd.
Born 11/7/08 @ 34w1d
Andrew James - 4lb 13oz
Ava Catherine - 3lb 11oz
Mia Kaye - 3lb 13oz
http://iglesiastriplets.blogspot.com
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hardentriplets Fri Jun-18-10 01:56 PM
Member since Feb 27th 2008
1777 posts
#468008, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
You can tell the boards have changed in the sense that I remember when I first joined 2 yrs ago threads flew on here. Always questions and advice being thrown left and right.
Has anyone noticed that we've been on the same page for the past 2 maybe 3 days?
It's a shame those girls are gone. HUGE mistake.
One thing I'll always remember from these boards is Lea's amazing advice toward vacs.
Good thing I don't need this place to stay in touch, I'll keep track of them crazy chicks on FB.
*MAGGIE*
Visit our family~
http://hardentriplets.blogspot.com/
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4kds4me Fri Jun-18-10 02:52 PM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1284 posts
#468017, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I really do wish that Madmolly's posts had not been deleted also. Even though we are on different sides of the fence regarding vaccinations, she has provided valuable info for parents that are undecided and want to be informed to make the best decision for their children.
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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lsmiller Fri Jun-18-10 04:35 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1091 posts
#468033, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 43
So what are your thoughts on bringing MSTAR back?? You don't sound like you are in favor of that....
http://www.brianandcharlie.com/blog
^Alexandra^, Brian, Charlie 07/28/2003
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k3triplets Sat Jun-19-10 08:43 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
807 posts
#468066, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 47
what.a.shock.
Susanne
gbg @ 31.6
5/2006
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Kealoha12 Fri Jun-18-10 02:54 PM
Member since Jan 11th 2008
1291 posts
#468019, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I think its ironic that this banning just seems to highlight the problems with TC. If Michelle and Lea and even Kristina were not banned, the things they wrote would have been longed buried by now instead of being re-hashed again and again.
Grace
B 06/03/03
BBB 05/24/08
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Rick-Carole Fri Jun-18-10 03:20 PM
Member since Oct 30th 2008
443 posts
#468025, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
MStar may be the most controversial (and yes sometimes annoying.... but who isn't?!?) person to post on TC, but I'm totally opposed to banning someone for that. She also has a LOT of common sense and helps a LOT of people.
Everyone deserves a chance to speak their mind. If a post is inappropriate, then mods can erase it. But eliminating a person altogether from the TC message boards is overkill, and hardly fair.
Rick
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Katrina_Jason Fri Jun-18-10 04:26 PM
Member since Apr 29th 2008
1497 posts
#468032, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
For a forum full of adults, parents no less, we all sure get treated like a bunch of children by the powers that be. I don't agree with everything posted on this board but I am a big girl and can can ignore it, or if I dare, I can put on my flame resistant panties and reply with my .02 either way I am capable of making that call for myself. I do not need the mods to pick and choose what I can and can not read or ban those THEY feel are too offensive to post here. Mother May I......
Our Blog http://tripmomma.blogspot.com/
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Boys mom Fri Jun-18-10 05:00 PM
Member since Feb 27th 2008
172 posts
#468035, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I agree, I have learned a ton from her.
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sammie161 Fri Jun-18-10 09:30 PM
Member since Jul 23rd 2008
585 posts
#468036, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I have honestly not been on TC as much and have relied on FB for news. I also LOVE MStar's blog. Best stories ever!!!
Sam, Mommy to GBB Triplets
Born 8/26/08 29.6 weeks
www.cleysclan.blogspot.com
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HOWMANY Fri Jun-18-10 11:15 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468040, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I say good riddence! Both Michele and Lea get on their high horses and think they are the "right". Far to much preachin' from both of them.
Buh bye!
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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SAReece Fri Jun-18-10 11:46 PM
Member since May 11th 2009
722 posts
#468041, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 50
So that means that this forum for all triplet parents should really only be people who conform to what you believe is right? This is the problem to begin with.
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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Triplethefun04 Sat Jun-19-10 06:57 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1463 posts
#468059, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 51
You got it - have a difference of opinion and Oh My! :p Conform! Conform! Conform! around here!
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HOWMANY Sat Jun-19-10 01:45 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468079, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 51
There is no room for the sarcasm and rudness in way they attack some people around here. Not just the newbies who I admit where out of line, but the attack on long standing members who are also a wealth of information.
They have done this for too long and have a pattern of doing this kind of stuff.
I don't agree with there post being pulled that were helpful and insight full. But there has to be some consequences for the actions of these women.
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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SAReece Sat Jun-19-10 03:00 PM
Member since May 11th 2009
722 posts
#468084, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 62
Amy, arent you "friends" with Michele on facebook or is there another Amy Ferris ? And then you come here trashing her? Maybe I am just out of the loop (which is very possible) and this is just a joke, but seriously... if mstar is such a horrible person that attacks people, why are you "friends" on facebook?
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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HOWMANY Sat Jun-19-10 03:51 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468095, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 63
I have to make sure they she isn't talking about me.
She is plain bat$h*t!
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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Tasha Sat Jun-19-10 03:04 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2304 posts
#468086, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 62
But what about the bigger picture?
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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HOWMANY Sat Jun-19-10 03:48 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468092, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 64
There is a bigger picture? Where? Link please or point me in the right direction.
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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LolasLadies Sat Jun-19-10 03:43 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
2272 posts
#468091, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 62
I vote: SPANKINGS!
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
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HOWMANY Sat Jun-19-10 03:49 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1506 posts
#468093, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 65
YES please!!!!!!!!
Amy
Wife to Jason(pixelpusher)
Mom to Gwynne, Connor, Chloe 11/03/03
25wks 1day
www.ferristrio.blogspot.com
http://lilypie.com>
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1plustriplets Sat Jun-19-10 06:59 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
293 posts
#468060, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 50
Oh my.
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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k3triplets Sat Jun-19-10 08:45 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
807 posts
#468067, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 50
yes, we should only have preachin' from those we agree with.
Susanne
gbg @ 31.6
5/2006
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PA triplets Fri Jun-18-10 11:47 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
3261 posts
#468042, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Just for the record, deleting every post someone made for the last 5 years is just plain wrong. Whichever moderator did that should be ashamed of themselves. Whether you agree or disagree with Lea's opinions, she has really made people think around here. I have no idea why she was just banned and don't think that was right either. Deleting all that useful information from the archives is completely defeating the purpose of this forum. All the newbies have just been deprived of information for absolutely no reason.
Lori
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kittyln Sat Jun-19-10 01:39 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
135 posts
#468046, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
First of all I want to say that I don't post a lot, but this forum has been awesome for me. I believe that is a place for adults/parents to get together and "discuss". Yeah we might not agree on everything and just because this is the "triplet connection" some of us don't have any other means of communication. This is where we come to get our vents, frustrations, laughs, and connections from. I think MSTAR is great! She is blunt and staight forward, and although we don't all agree with her we can "hash" it out.
Bring MStar and everyone else every banned back, and let us enjoy our conversations
Michele
GGB 26wks 6days
http://lanetriplets.blogspot.com
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franjipani Sat Jun-19-10 02:08 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2355 posts
#468052, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
Michele, Lea and Helene (any others?) should be brought back.
They are the ones who get in the trenches and are fighting for the preemie mums when offensive posters come by. So when the time zones shift and I get up and check out the threads, I can shrug and realise there is nothing more to add, because they've said it far better than I ever could.
They are the ones who offered to take time from their own vacations to sit with Feisty's older son, and to give Feisty contacts at hospitals/nursing coordinators.
These women support other TC women. I don't know them from FB, or MOM groups, I only know them from their posts here. From the day they all joined they have been unique individuals, as we all are, as is society. Being triplet parents doesn't mean we are cookie cutter parents.
They wear their opinions and hearts on their sleeves. They are wise, they are caring, and this board has benefited from them being the women they all are.
tess
mummy to 8yr old ds & the triumverate born 2004
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manninm5033 Sat Jun-19-10 04:55 AM
Member since Jan 13th 2010
17 posts
#468054, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 55
I'm new, but you all have me wondering about MSTAR's blog. Could someone post a link to it? Thank you!
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Crystal Sat Jun-19-10 06:25 AM
Member since May 27th 2008
1259 posts
#468057, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 56
Happy reading...
http://fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com/
...watch out for the chickens.
Crystal
http://familycernanec.blogspot.com/
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Skeelabum Sat Jun-19-10 08:08 PM
Member since May 28th 2009
93 posts
#468113, "RE: A plea"
In response to Reply # 0
I haven't been on in about a month and it seems I completely missed what happened.
I know I could still be considered a newbie because I don't post often, I don't recognize too many user names on here, except for MSTAR and a few others...I'm shocked.
I belong to a few forums and believe me this one is fairly tame...so I can't even imagine what went down to have any mod do this.
Ban or give a 'time out'...but to pull all their posts?? NOT COOL Even when I am not an active poster (compared to most)...I rely on this forum as like a database for any questions I have...and to pull all posts of a regular poster like that makes most topics or threads just garble!!
Sucky move!! grrr
http://lilypie.com/">
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
response to Gina
Can i just say Lillypies suck and those of you with lillypies in your siggies suck. I hate having to manually remove each and every one to copy these posts because they show up as broken HTML. Just so you know I hate you and make fun of your stupid ass siggies. OK returning to the pulled post.
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4kids4me2 Wed Jun-16-10 10:02 PM
Charter member
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#467852, "Does anyone else do this?"
Sometimes in my village, I can't remember all my wives names. I go through all the goats and chickens names before I remember which wife I'm talking to. Is this old age or just stupidity?
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 10:05 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
414 posts
#467854, "RE: Does anyone else do this?"
In response to Reply # 0
I do that all the time, but it is probably due to old age!
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madmolly Wed Jun-16-10 10:08 PM
Member since Oct 07th 2005
2843 posts
#467855, "RE: Does anyone else do this?"
In response to Reply # 0
Maybe you just have too many wives? As long as you don't get the wives and goats mixed up when the lights go out, I think you are okay.
(Is this for real??? LMBO!!!)
Lea
BGG 28.3 weekers
http://mccarthymayhem.blogspot.com/
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DolceVita Wed Jun-16-10 10:14 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
818 posts
#467856, "RE: Does anyone else do this?"
In response to Reply # 2
ROFLMFAO!
GBB 01/13/07
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4kids4me2 Wed Jun-16-10 10:02 PM
Charter member
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#467852, "Does anyone else do this?"
Sometimes in my village, I can't remember all my wives names. I go through all the goats and chickens names before I remember which wife I'm talking to. Is this old age or just stupidity?
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 10:05 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
414 posts
#467854, "RE: Does anyone else do this?"
In response to Reply # 0
I do that all the time, but it is probably due to old age!
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madmolly Wed Jun-16-10 10:08 PM
Member since Oct 07th 2005
2843 posts
#467855, "RE: Does anyone else do this?"
In response to Reply # 0
Maybe you just have too many wives? As long as you don't get the wives and goats mixed up when the lights go out, I think you are okay.
(Is this for real??? LMBO!!!)
Lea
BGG 28.3 weekers
http://mccarthymayhem.blogspot.com/
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DolceVita Wed Jun-16-10 10:14 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
818 posts
#467856, "RE: Does anyone else do this?"
In response to Reply # 2
ROFLMFAO!
GBB 01/13/07
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 03:42 PM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1277 posts
#467768, "Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
Wed Jun-16-10 11:51 AM by 4kds4me
I have 4 kids and one dog. When asking a question of one of them or something, I run through the list of names, even the dogs name until I get to the right one! LOL!
Is it old age or just having a pack of kids? LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 3lilprincess, Jun 16th 2010, #1
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #11
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 3lilprincess, Jun 16th 2010, #14
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #17
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 3lilprincess, Jun 16th 2010, #19
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #20
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 3lilprincess, Jun 16th 2010, #21
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #22
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 3lilprincess, Jun 16th 2010, #24
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #25
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 3lilprincess, Jun 16th 2010, #26
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, SAReece, Jun 16th 2010, #2
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, Jessicaplus3, Jun 16th 2010, #3
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, babysmommy_2004, Jun 16th 2010, #4
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #10
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, DerangedFamily, Jun 16th 2010, #15
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #18
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, quadmom121203, Jun 16th 2010, #6
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, Celesta, Jun 16th 2010, #7
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #13
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RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, cdemp, Jun 16th 2010, #27
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, LvTriplets, Jun 16th 2010, #8
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, pbinak, Jun 16th 2010, #9
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #12
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, kylamel, Jun 16th 2010, #16
RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!, 4kds4me, Jun 16th 2010, #23
3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 11:53 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
413 posts
#467769, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Must be your old age, I dont have that problem.
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 01:25 PM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1277 posts
#467798, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 1
Wed Jun-16-10 01:52 PM by 4kds4me
Yup. I'm probably old enough to be your mother.
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 02:55 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
413 posts
#467808, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 11
Probably pretty close.. But That would Suck!
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 03:33 PM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1277 posts
#467813, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 14
Wed Jun-16-10 03:36 PM by 4kds4me
Yup. More for me though! LOL! I'll say a special prayer of "Thanks" at dinner tonight.
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 03:59 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
413 posts
#467819, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 17
ROFLMBO!! You better say a few prayers at dinner tonight..
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 04:49 PM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1277 posts
#467821, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 19
Wed Jun-16-10 04:53 PM by 4kds4me
Always do.
After all, I'm sooooo old that I could keel over at any time! LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 04:54 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
413 posts
#467822, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 20
Oh Please Gina! I thought you were leaving for good?? I really enjoyed the time you were "Gone". Then low and behold you came crawling back.. Go figure.
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 05:04 PM
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#467823, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 21
Yup. I'm back. I didn't crawl back though....too hard on these old knees. I used my cane.
Seriously, though LIGHTEN UP! This thread was meant to be light-hearted. Geesh.
And since you are not suffering from the "ailment" that this thread is all about, try to refrain from replying and get off my back.
Please, have respect for your elders. LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 05:07 PM
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#467825, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 22
Hey All I said was it must be your old age(which you asked in your original post), you are the one who took it a step further..
But seriously thanks for the fun I have to make dinner then off to the park!!
![Lilypie 6th to 18th Ticker]()
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 05:23 PM
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#467826, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 24
Me: "Yup. I'm probably old enough to be your mother"
You: "Probably pretty close.. But That would Suck!"
I guess the word "suck" in your reply kinda threw me off.
My reply to you WAS light hearted. I was poking fun at myself.
Sorry for offending you.....LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 06:41 PM
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#467831, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 25
Oh you didn't offend me at all. I have always thought you wern't quite all "there".
BTW how many time have you edited your responses now...??
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SAReece Wed Jun-16-10 12:16 PM
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#467772, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Yes, I do the same thing and we have not even had a dog for 6 months! I also call them my husbands name and sometimes I call my husband their names... and I am only 26 so I dont think its old age.
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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Jessicaplus3 Wed Jun-16-10 12:28 PM
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#467775, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 2
I am right there with you...I usually end with, HEY WHATEVER YOUR NAME IS!
Proud Mommy of Cale, Cooper and Colter three wild boys!
Visit our Family at:
http://didyousaytriplets.blogspot.com
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babysmommy_2004 Wed Jun-16-10 12:30 PM
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#467778, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
I also do that and being I have kids of both genders you would think I wouldn't call the girls the boy's names etc, but yep that happens. Never have used the cat or dog names though..........
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 01:25 PM
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#467797, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 5
Wed Jun-16-10 01:31 PM by 4kds4me
Good idea. Now why didn't I think of that?
Guess I'll have to talk dh into getting 3 more dogs!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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DerangedFamily Wed Jun-16-10 03:30 PM
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#467811, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 10
I have 11 dogs for each of my kiddos. I highly recommend it.
http://lilypie.com>
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 03:34 PM
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#467814, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 15
Wed Jun-16-10 03:37 PM by 4kds4me
Cool beans! You must live out in the country huh M?
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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quadmom121203 Wed Jun-16-10 01:00 PM
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#467789, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
When I start to get their names wrong, I just look at them and say "who are you?" then they laugh and say "silly mommy, I'm ...." They think it's a game, and I get to pretend I am not losing my mind!
Dawn
Mom to Samantha, Jeremy, Paige and Christian
Born 12/12/03 @ 31w 2d
http://lovinglifewithquads.blogspot.com
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Celesta Wed Jun-16-10 01:10 PM
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#467792, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
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Oh, my goodness. This is so funny. My great grandmama, bless her heart, used to do this. That's how we knew to increase her dementia medicine.
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 01:35 PM
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#467801, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 7
That's what I'M afraid of! My great grandma had dementia issues. Thankfully, my Grandmothers are/were both as are sharp as tacks. My grandma that passed away last year was fully coherent up until the week before she died. She was 95yo!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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auntieanne Wed Jun-16-10 01:14 PM
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#467793, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
I'm the youngest of 5 and we teased my mom MERCILESSLY for doing this...now I do it too!! Not sure what's scarier: that I can't remember my kids' names in the heat of the moment or that I'm turning into my mother! AAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!
Anne
mommy to 5yr old Erin and
GGG triplets born 4/4/08 @36 weeks
Nora 5lbs
Evelyn 6 lbs 4oz
Maeve 6lbs 2oz
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cdemp Wed Jun-16-10 07:03 PM
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#467834, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Anne,
My mom did the same thing with me and my 3 sisters, and we used to make fun of her too! Now I find myself saying all my 5 dds' names! I don't say our pets' names though, but maybe because they don't have "people" names. -- Gloria
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LvTriplets Wed Jun-16-10 01:14 PM
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#467794, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Funny enough, it doesn't happen to me often with the kiddos names. On the other hand -my sister has 2 dogs (guinness and boo) and gets them confused all the time. They look totally different, but she can't keep them straight.
Laura & Don
BBB 5/05
www.ourbighappy.blogspot.com
"
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pbinak Wed Jun-16-10 01:16 PM
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#467795, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
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My mom had to get through the list of names (DH, both kids, sometimes some relative thrown into the mix) pretty much every time our old dog got into trouble - and she only has two kids! Not very flattering to hear your name applied to a dog who is a nuisance
Now with 7 grandkids, she hardly ever gets the name straight in her first attempt, but we are so used to it...
Petra
DS 08/02
DD 05/04
BBG 05/09 32.1 weeks
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 01:27 PM
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#467799, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Wed Jun-16-10 01:36 PM by 4kds4me
Good to hear that I am not alone!
My dmil had 7 children, a dog and a parakeet and ran through the list from oldest to youngest. She did the same thing with her daughter-in-laws too! We always teased her that us girls were going to get name tags!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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kylamel Wed Jun-16-10 03:32 PM
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#467812, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Nope.. never even heard of such a thing..
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 05:07 PM
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#467824, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 16
Well now you have! LOL!
You learn something new every day!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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#467768, "Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
Wed Jun-16-10 11:51 AM by 4kds4me
I have 4 kids and one dog. When asking a question of one of them or something, I run through the list of names, even the dogs name until I get to the right one! LOL!
Is it old age or just having a pack of kids? LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 11:53 AM
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#467769, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Must be your old age, I dont have that problem.
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 01:25 PM
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#467798, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 1
Wed Jun-16-10 01:52 PM by 4kds4me
Yup. I'm probably old enough to be your mother.
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 02:55 PM
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#467808, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 11
Probably pretty close.. But That would Suck!
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 03:33 PM
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#467813, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 14
Wed Jun-16-10 03:36 PM by 4kds4me
Yup. More for me though! LOL! I'll say a special prayer of "Thanks" at dinner tonight.
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 03:59 PM
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#467819, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 17
ROFLMBO!! You better say a few prayers at dinner tonight..
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 04:49 PM
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#467821, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 19
Wed Jun-16-10 04:53 PM by 4kds4me
Always do.
After all, I'm sooooo old that I could keel over at any time! LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 04:54 PM
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#467822, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 20
Oh Please Gina! I thought you were leaving for good?? I really enjoyed the time you were "Gone". Then low and behold you came crawling back.. Go figure.
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 05:04 PM
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#467823, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 21
Yup. I'm back. I didn't crawl back though....too hard on these old knees. I used my cane.
Seriously, though LIGHTEN UP! This thread was meant to be light-hearted. Geesh.
And since you are not suffering from the "ailment" that this thread is all about, try to refrain from replying and get off my back.
Please, have respect for your elders. LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 05:07 PM
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#467825, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 22
Hey All I said was it must be your old age(which you asked in your original post), you are the one who took it a step further..
But seriously thanks for the fun I have to make dinner then off to the park!!
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 05:23 PM
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#467826, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 24
Me: "Yup. I'm probably old enough to be your mother"
You: "Probably pretty close.. But That would Suck!"
I guess the word "suck" in your reply kinda threw me off.
My reply to you WAS light hearted. I was poking fun at myself.
Sorry for offending you.....LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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3lilprincess Wed Jun-16-10 06:41 PM
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#467831, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 25
Oh you didn't offend me at all. I have always thought you wern't quite all "there".
BTW how many time have you edited your responses now...??
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SAReece Wed Jun-16-10 12:16 PM
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#467772, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Yes, I do the same thing and we have not even had a dog for 6 months! I also call them my husbands name and sometimes I call my husband their names... and I am only 26 so I dont think its old age.
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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Jessicaplus3 Wed Jun-16-10 12:28 PM
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#467775, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 2
I am right there with you...I usually end with, HEY WHATEVER YOUR NAME IS!
Proud Mommy of Cale, Cooper and Colter three wild boys!
Visit our Family at:
http://didyousaytriplets.blogspot.com
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babysmommy_2004 Wed Jun-16-10 12:30 PM
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#467778, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
I also do that and being I have kids of both genders you would think I wouldn't call the girls the boy's names etc, but yep that happens. Never have used the cat or dog names though..........
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 01:25 PM
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#467797, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 5
Wed Jun-16-10 01:31 PM by 4kds4me
Good idea. Now why didn't I think of that?
Guess I'll have to talk dh into getting 3 more dogs!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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DerangedFamily Wed Jun-16-10 03:30 PM
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#467811, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 10
I have 11 dogs for each of my kiddos. I highly recommend it.
http://lilypie.com>
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 03:34 PM
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#467814, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 15
Wed Jun-16-10 03:37 PM by 4kds4me
Cool beans! You must live out in the country huh M?
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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quadmom121203 Wed Jun-16-10 01:00 PM
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#467789, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
When I start to get their names wrong, I just look at them and say "who are you?" then they laugh and say "silly mommy, I'm ...." They think it's a game, and I get to pretend I am not losing my mind!
Dawn
Mom to Samantha, Jeremy, Paige and Christian
Born 12/12/03 @ 31w 2d
http://lovinglifewithquads.blogspot.com
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Celesta Wed Jun-16-10 01:10 PM
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#467792, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Oh, my goodness. This is so funny. My great grandmama, bless her heart, used to do this. That's how we knew to increase her dementia medicine.
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 01:35 PM
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#467801, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 7
That's what I'M afraid of! My great grandma had dementia issues. Thankfully, my Grandmothers are/were both as are sharp as tacks. My grandma that passed away last year was fully coherent up until the week before she died. She was 95yo!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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auntieanne Wed Jun-16-10 01:14 PM
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#467793, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
I'm the youngest of 5 and we teased my mom MERCILESSLY for doing this...now I do it too!! Not sure what's scarier: that I can't remember my kids' names in the heat of the moment or that I'm turning into my mother! AAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!
Anne
mommy to 5yr old Erin and
GGG triplets born 4/4/08 @36 weeks
Nora 5lbs
Evelyn 6 lbs 4oz
Maeve 6lbs 2oz
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cdemp Wed Jun-16-10 07:03 PM
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#467834, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Anne,
My mom did the same thing with me and my 3 sisters, and we used to make fun of her too! Now I find myself saying all my 5 dds' names! I don't say our pets' names though, but maybe because they don't have "people" names. -- Gloria
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LvTriplets Wed Jun-16-10 01:14 PM
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#467794, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Funny enough, it doesn't happen to me often with the kiddos names. On the other hand -my sister has 2 dogs (guinness and boo) and gets them confused all the time. They look totally different, but she can't keep them straight.
Laura & Don
BBB 5/05
www.ourbighappy.blogspot.com
"
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pbinak Wed Jun-16-10 01:16 PM
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#467795, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
My mom had to get through the list of names (DH, both kids, sometimes some relative thrown into the mix) pretty much every time our old dog got into trouble - and she only has two kids! Not very flattering to hear your name applied to a dog who is a nuisance
Now with 7 grandkids, she hardly ever gets the name straight in her first attempt, but we are so used to it...
Petra
DS 08/02
DD 05/04
BBG 05/09 32.1 weeks
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 01:27 PM
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#467799, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Wed Jun-16-10 01:36 PM by 4kds4me
Good to hear that I am not alone!
My dmil had 7 children, a dog and a parakeet and ran through the list from oldest to youngest. She did the same thing with her daughter-in-laws too! We always teased her that us girls were going to get name tags!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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kylamel Wed Jun-16-10 03:32 PM
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#467812, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 0
Nope.. never even heard of such a thing..
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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4kds4me Wed Jun-16-10 05:07 PM
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#467824, "RE: Does anyone else do this? ROFLMBO!"
In response to Reply # 16
Well now you have! LOL!
You learn something new every day!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Follow up to dad post
Rick-Carole Wed Jun-09-10 05:47 AM
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434 posts
#467057, "Hilarious post?"
Was I dreaming last night about the hilarious post from a dad, about watching the kids on Saturday and going crazy?
Today the post is not here. Or if so, where is it?!?!?
Rick
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RE: Hilarious post?, Rick-Carole, Jun 09th 2010, #18
RE: Hilarious post?, gracy3, Jun 09th 2010, #14
RE: Hilarious post?, 4kds4me, Jun 09th 2010, #20
RE: Hilarious post?, cdemp, Jun 09th 2010, #23
RE: Hilarious post?, Mamakitten3, Jun 09th 2010, #16
RE: Hilarious post?, BYU49er, Jun 09th 2010, #24
RE: Hilarious post?, 1plustriplets, Jun 09th 2010, #25
RE: Hilarious post?, lovemy4, Jun 09th 2010, #26
RE: Hilarious post?, 1plustriplets, Jun 09th 2010, #27
RE: Hilarious post?, lovemy4, Jun 10th 2010, #29
RE: Hilarious post?, franjipani, Jun 10th 2010, #28
RE: Hilarious post?, MelissaChicago, Jun 10th 2010, #30
susanwm Wed Jun-09-10 06:33 AM
Member since Sep 25th 2009
80 posts
#467061, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
It's over on the "other website". Thanks for bringing it to our attention. I didn't get to see it last night, so it definitely provided a great laugh to start the day.
Susan
GGB @ 36w 2d
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loved3makes5 Wed Jun-09-10 10:04 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
562 posts
#467084, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 1
Pray tell--what is the "other website".
Honestly I didn't find it that funny and I really wanted to post and say "If you can't be a good father in the first 5 years then try being a good husband instead" but I didn't.
I'm sure he thought he was being amusing--I guess as a mother that does this 24/7 whether I want to or not it just isn't amusing.
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TARAinFL Wed Jun-09-10 03:07 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1040 posts
#467118, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 1
What other website?? Please tell me.
Mom to BBG born at 33wks on 4/3/03
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susanwm Wed Jun-09-10 03:49 PM
Member since Sep 25th 2009
80 posts
#467124, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 15
I'm not sure if I'm supposed to write it on here, but here goes:
http://pulledontc.blogspot.com
Susan
GGB @ 36w 2d
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Rick-Carole Wed Jun-09-10 04:59 PM
Member since Oct 30th 2008
434 posts
#467134, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 17
Thanks Susan.
And I was recently told from some TC regulars to lighten up on the forum and go back to having more of a sense of humor.... then this guy's post got pulled for doing just that.
Rick
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gracy3 Wed Jun-09-10 05:34 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2284 posts
#467137, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 19
But Rick....humor is only funny when it does not hit home
Gracy
BGG (9/18/04 @ 31 weeks) and G (3/6/06 at 38 weeks)...
Save the babies!
www.marchforbabies.org/4littlesplinters
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TARAinFL Wed Jun-09-10 05:53 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1040 posts
#467138, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 17
Bookmarked. Thanks!
Tara
Mom to BBG born at 33wks on 4/3/03
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quadmom121203 Wed Jun-09-10 07:12 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1390 posts
#467063, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
Why would it get pulled? I thought it was funny
Dawn
Mom to Samantha, Jeremy, Paige and Christian
Born 12/12/03 @ 31w 2d
http://lovinglifewithquads.blogspot.com
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4kds4me Wed Jun-09-10 07:15 AM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1258 posts
#467064, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I didn't get to read all of the responses, but I did read the post. It was hilarious! I LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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StarburstX Wed Jun-09-10 08:29 AM
Member since Jun 03rd 2010
16 posts
#467075, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
You weren't dreaming. You were having a nightmare. Dropping the F bomb on a baby because you have to change a diaper isn't really that funny. Hardee har har.
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LolasLadies Wed Jun-09-10 09:12 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
2260 posts
#467079, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I just read the post and didn't find it all THAT amusing, probably because I do EVERYTHING around my house and have for the last 5+ years. It's not a matter of having a penis or not like the OP thinks or "jokes." Either you have the character to suck it up and fulfill your responsibilities or you don't.
On a side note, I have a uterus and just built myself a picket fence completely from scratch and plan on mowing the lawn this afternoon - all manly duties... then again, maybe I'd be safer sticking to womanly duties like wiping butts.
Maybe this stuff would be better suited for a blog. (I hear that blogs have been approved for people with either set of genitals.)
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
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SAReece Wed Jun-09-10 09:40 AM
Member since May 11th 2009
697 posts
#467082, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
A lot of people did not find it amusing and of course they told him why they did not find it amusing. There is a lot of pity for his wife here today...
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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4b4me Wed Jun-09-10 10:01 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
153 posts
#467083, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
OK, you're not going to like this, but this is probably why we don't see more men posting on this board. You all have valid points, and I feel some of your frustration. I would like to point out that there is another post on the board today by a mom who appears just as frustrated, and she has received overwhelming support, as she should. We all have things we can and cannot handle. I hate puke. Especially dog puke - slimy, can't pick it up with paper towels, smearing all over instead, dog puke. I gag the whole time I clean it up. I have to stop and walk away, before I add to the mess. My point is, I can understand the aversion to poop. I have a gf, who when pregnant, would throw up at the scent of cooking food. She had a horrible time. Let's try to give this guy a break. He came here for a little support, and maybe to give us a laugh. Many of us have experienced the poop party - I got to experience it with a broken washer. Had to take all that stinky laundry to the public laundromat. NICE! I wanted to die, but I made it through. We all do. But, we'll do it better if we support each other.
Tiff (Masters student, part-time Environmental Educator, and mom to:)
M (12 - sports rox)
D (9 - water spirit)
D (9 - animal lover)
D (9 - video gamer)
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StarburstX Wed Jun-09-10 10:32 AM
Member since Jun 03rd 2010
16 posts
#467086, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 7
I didn't read anywhere that he was asking for support. The post was to let us know that if our husbands weren't doing their part, they would when the kids turn five.
Uhm, okay? Sure. We'll hand them over when they get FUN.
The other mother was looking for solutions to change an unwanted response and behavior. Therefore, she got support.
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MumfordTriplets Wed Jun-09-10 10:32 AM
Member since Apr 27th 2008
638 posts
#467087, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I thought it was hilarious and not meant to be taken all that seriously. A nice break - although the language was a bit strong!
Karen
"http://render5.snapfish.com/render2/is=Yup6G0P%7C%3Dup6RKKt%3Axxr%3DJ-qpDofRtHef7mrPfrj7t%3DzrRfDUX%3AeQaQxg%3Dr%3F87KR6xqpxQQ0axQnQxennxv8uOc5xQooQPPl0PPQQaqpfVtB%3F*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6qgXJQQJn%7CRup6aQQ%7C/of=50,172,260"
www.dresslikeatriplet.blogsp
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Meri Wed Jun-09-10 12:25 PM
Member since Jul 08th 2009
234 posts
#467098, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I didn't find it that offensive. He was just blowing off steam with a quirky sense of humor. He wasn't saying that he wasn't going to help his wife or demand that she does everything until they are 5, he just poked fun at what he didn't like and said he may not be very good at the duties or enjoy them until they are 5. I cringed a bit at the language myself and also thanked my husband last night.
There are many posts where we just vent and that's how I took it. I'd like to get more of the dad perspective on this board.
I would certainly be much more upset if he came on saying he didn't think it was his duty to do these things or if he said he wasn't going to. There are lots of dads out there who don't. He just poked fun at it and joked that he tries to make himself scarce during poop time.
I got a combination cringe and chuckle out of the post and ended up being appreciative of my situation.
Meri
GBG 9/23/09
Gwen 3.8 lbs
Grant 4.11 lbs
Brianne 4.8 lbs
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Suzan33 Wed Jun-09-10 12:40 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1475 posts
#467101, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
Nope, you were not dreaming but I had no clue it was pulled.
I honestly thought it was funny. He does his best and he knew what his shortcoming were and dealt with it.
Suzan
g/g/b August 21, 2005
my miracle 24 weekers!!!!
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Vaughn Wed Jun-09-10 02:02 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1264 posts
#467109, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
When I was a moderator of a forum for parents of multiples on the old ParentsPlace forum, I got a nasty email from a mom that said basically that something must be wrong with me if I was hanging out on a forum populated by mostly women. Did not seem to make any difference that I worked halftime and was a SAHD.
Does not seem to make any difference to my wife either, who is divorcing me -- appearently because after spending the last 13 years being there 100% for the boys from day one and putting my career on hold, the money I earn (enough for the mortgage, utilities and covers all the very good heath plan we have) is not enough for her.
I guess she should not have married a bloody lazy artist/wilderness ranger if she expected to be rolling in dough...LOL!
So, be kind to us guys -- we do our best!
And the first 5 years are not fun?! They were a blast! Lots of work, yes. Lots of diapers, yes. But it does not get anymore "fun" or any "easier" after five years -- just different! I would not give up those first five years for anything! Nor these last 8 years!
Dang, now I am crying. Love your kids, love your spouse. It all passes all too fast.
Vaughn and the ABC Boys
Alex, Bryce, & Calder
3-31-97 @ 28.5 weeks
http://s515.photobucket.com/albums/t356/vaughn3abc/
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Rick-Carole Wed Jun-09-10 04:55 PM
Member since Oct 30th 2008
434 posts
#467133, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 13
Well said, Vaughn. I've thought about you often over the past couple months and hope that things are better (as best as possible under such circumstances).
Like you, I wouldn't trade these moments with our little ones at this age for anything, regardless of how much work it is.
I'm certain that your boys will always remember and appreciate a life devoted to them from their dad, and that's worth more than all the 'dough' in the world.
Rick
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gracy3 Wed Jun-09-10 02:47 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2284 posts
#467113, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I too found it quite funny. I often joke with my husband that he has those "man hands" which frankly are not very handy on the delicate baby stuff like diaper changes - but he did do it - and complained about it...just like this dad does.
I never heard him say that his wife could not go shopping with Sally, but rather than he stressed over it for days- just like any of us would if we had to perform a job we did not do every day.
I would bet money that you will not see his wife post that her husband does not help or that she never has time for herself, etc why??? because he does help the best he can - and can also laugh at himself about it. I bet his kids can't wait to go fishing with dad - once all the horsie rides, funny faces and snacks that mommy will not allow are over. hmmmm....this guy sounds like a pretty good dad to me....
Gracy
BGG (9/18/04 @ 31 weeks) and G (3/6/06 at 38 weeks)...
Save the babies!
www.marchforbabies.org/4littlesplinters
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4kds4me Wed Jun-09-10 05:05 PM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1258 posts
#467136, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 14
"man hands" roflmbo! I remember dh getting frustrated with trying to fastened all those little Barbie clothing snaps! They were a PITA!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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cdemp Wed Jun-09-10 06:55 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1796 posts
#467139, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 14
I agree. The original poster was joking around and laughing at what he believes are his shortcomings as a father. IMO at least he's aware of his own faults instead of being completely oblivious to them. --Gloria
Mom to five girls: ages 12, 10, and 9/9/9
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Mamakitten3 Wed Jun-09-10 03:08 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1588 posts
#467119, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I just love dads that think they babysit their own kids, seriously!
BBG 6/21/06
www.tutuloo.net
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BYU49er Wed Jun-09-10 07:05 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
237 posts
#467141, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
The post was pulled because of the number of threads that quickly morphed into vulgarity and profane comments. These have no place on the Triplet Connection form.
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1plustriplets Wed Jun-09-10 07:59 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
273 posts
#467149, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 24
I believe I used the words "uterus" "vagina" and "balls". I used the word damn too. May have over done it with damn. But the other three? When are those words vulgar? He posted his opinion. I posted mine. I posted my opinion based on the last 7 years of my life. Because I didn't find humor in anything I experienced then my post gets pulled? Really?
I'm thinking my TC does may soon be over.
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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lovemy4 Wed Jun-09-10 08:30 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
825 posts
#467154, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
Maybe his kids don't respond to him because he swears at his babies. If I had ever caught my ex-husband swearing at our babies, it would have been the last time he ever changed their diaper. And maybe that's his whole aim. Pretend you're completely incompetent so your wife has to do everything for you. Shameful.
And let me tell you: men who CAN'T take care of their babies often end up being men who WON'T take care of their older children.
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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1plustriplets Wed Jun-09-10 08:32 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
273 posts
#467155, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 26
Right there with you Jennie.
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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lovemy4 Thu Jun-10-10 07:15 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
825 posts
#467175, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 27
You can tell who has been divorced on this thread!
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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franjipani Thu Jun-10-10 03:12 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2354 posts
#467170, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
There is a lot more to taking care of five year olds than taking them fishing.
tess
mummy to 8yr old ds & the triumverate born 2004
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MelissaChicago Thu Jun-10-10 08:48 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
233 posts
#467180, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
The OP should be a aware that at age 5, the butts still need to be wiped....nothing better than trying to make dinner and hearing, "Mooommmmmyyyy, I'm dooooonnnneeeee" coming from the bathroom.
Melissa
Leo (5)
Lauren, Kate, and Caroline (4)
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Member since Oct 30th 2008
434 posts
#467057, "Hilarious post?"
Was I dreaming last night about the hilarious post from a dad, about watching the kids on Saturday and going crazy?
Today the post is not here. Or if so, where is it?!?!?
Rick
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RE: Hilarious post?, susanwm, Jun 09th 2010, #1
RE: Hilarious post?, loved3makes5, Jun 09th 2010, #8
RE: Hilarious post?, TARAinFL, Jun 09th 2010, #15
RE: Hilarious post?, susanwm, Jun 09th 2010, #17
RE: Hilarious post?, Rick-Carole, Jun 09th 2010, #19
RE: Hilarious post?, gracy3, Jun 09th 2010, #21
RE: Hilarious post?, TARAinFL, Jun 09th 2010, #22
RE: Hilarious post?, quadmom121203, Jun 09th 2010, #2
RE: Hilarious post?, 4kds4me, Jun 09th 2010, #3
RE: Hilarious post?, StarburstX, Jun 09th 2010, #4
RE: Hilarious post?, LolasLadies, Jun 09th 2010, #5
RE: Hilarious post?, SAReece, Jun 09th 2010, #6
RE: Hilarious post?, 4b4me, Jun 09th 2010, #7
RE: Hilarious post?, StarburstX, Jun 09th 2010, #9
RE: Hilarious post?, MumfordTriplets, Jun 09th 2010, #10
RE: Hilarious post?, Meri, Jun 09th 2010, #11
RE: Hilarious post?, Suzan33, Jun 09th 2010, #12
RE: Hilarious post?, Vaughn, Jun 09th 2010, #13
RE: Hilarious post?, Rick-Carole, Jun 09th 2010, #18
RE: Hilarious post?, gracy3, Jun 09th 2010, #14
RE: Hilarious post?, 4kds4me, Jun 09th 2010, #20
RE: Hilarious post?, cdemp, Jun 09th 2010, #23
RE: Hilarious post?, Mamakitten3, Jun 09th 2010, #16
RE: Hilarious post?, BYU49er, Jun 09th 2010, #24
RE: Hilarious post?, 1plustriplets, Jun 09th 2010, #25
RE: Hilarious post?, lovemy4, Jun 09th 2010, #26
RE: Hilarious post?, 1plustriplets, Jun 09th 2010, #27
RE: Hilarious post?, lovemy4, Jun 10th 2010, #29
RE: Hilarious post?, franjipani, Jun 10th 2010, #28
RE: Hilarious post?, MelissaChicago, Jun 10th 2010, #30
susanwm Wed Jun-09-10 06:33 AM
Member since Sep 25th 2009
80 posts
#467061, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
It's over on the "other website". Thanks for bringing it to our attention. I didn't get to see it last night, so it definitely provided a great laugh to start the day.
Susan
GGB @ 36w 2d
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loved3makes5 Wed Jun-09-10 10:04 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
562 posts
#467084, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 1
Pray tell--what is the "other website".
Honestly I didn't find it that funny and I really wanted to post and say "If you can't be a good father in the first 5 years then try being a good husband instead" but I didn't.
I'm sure he thought he was being amusing--I guess as a mother that does this 24/7 whether I want to or not it just isn't amusing.
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TARAinFL Wed Jun-09-10 03:07 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1040 posts
#467118, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 1
What other website?? Please tell me.
Mom to BBG born at 33wks on 4/3/03
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susanwm Wed Jun-09-10 03:49 PM
Member since Sep 25th 2009
80 posts
#467124, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 15
I'm not sure if I'm supposed to write it on here, but here goes:
http://pulledontc.blogspot.com
Susan
GGB @ 36w 2d
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Rick-Carole Wed Jun-09-10 04:59 PM
Member since Oct 30th 2008
434 posts
#467134, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 17
Thanks Susan.
And I was recently told from some TC regulars to lighten up on the forum and go back to having more of a sense of humor.... then this guy's post got pulled for doing just that.
Rick
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gracy3 Wed Jun-09-10 05:34 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2284 posts
#467137, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 19
But Rick....humor is only funny when it does not hit home
Gracy
BGG (9/18/04 @ 31 weeks) and G (3/6/06 at 38 weeks)...
Save the babies!
www.marchforbabies.org/4littlesplinters
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TARAinFL Wed Jun-09-10 05:53 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1040 posts
#467138, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 17
Bookmarked. Thanks!
Tara
Mom to BBG born at 33wks on 4/3/03
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quadmom121203 Wed Jun-09-10 07:12 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1390 posts
#467063, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
Why would it get pulled? I thought it was funny
Dawn
Mom to Samantha, Jeremy, Paige and Christian
Born 12/12/03 @ 31w 2d
http://lovinglifewithquads.blogspot.com
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4kds4me Wed Jun-09-10 07:15 AM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1258 posts
#467064, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I didn't get to read all of the responses, but I did read the post. It was hilarious! I LOL!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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StarburstX Wed Jun-09-10 08:29 AM
Member since Jun 03rd 2010
16 posts
#467075, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
You weren't dreaming. You were having a nightmare. Dropping the F bomb on a baby because you have to change a diaper isn't really that funny. Hardee har har.
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LolasLadies Wed Jun-09-10 09:12 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
2260 posts
#467079, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I just read the post and didn't find it all THAT amusing, probably because I do EVERYTHING around my house and have for the last 5+ years. It's not a matter of having a penis or not like the OP thinks or "jokes." Either you have the character to suck it up and fulfill your responsibilities or you don't.
On a side note, I have a uterus and just built myself a picket fence completely from scratch and plan on mowing the lawn this afternoon - all manly duties... then again, maybe I'd be safer sticking to womanly duties like wiping butts.
Maybe this stuff would be better suited for a blog. (I hear that blogs have been approved for people with either set of genitals.)
Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks
Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com
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SAReece Wed Jun-09-10 09:40 AM
Member since May 11th 2009
697 posts
#467082, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
A lot of people did not find it amusing and of course they told him why they did not find it amusing. There is a lot of pity for his wife here today...
Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace
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4b4me Wed Jun-09-10 10:01 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
153 posts
#467083, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
OK, you're not going to like this, but this is probably why we don't see more men posting on this board. You all have valid points, and I feel some of your frustration. I would like to point out that there is another post on the board today by a mom who appears just as frustrated, and she has received overwhelming support, as she should. We all have things we can and cannot handle. I hate puke. Especially dog puke - slimy, can't pick it up with paper towels, smearing all over instead, dog puke. I gag the whole time I clean it up. I have to stop and walk away, before I add to the mess. My point is, I can understand the aversion to poop. I have a gf, who when pregnant, would throw up at the scent of cooking food. She had a horrible time. Let's try to give this guy a break. He came here for a little support, and maybe to give us a laugh. Many of us have experienced the poop party - I got to experience it with a broken washer. Had to take all that stinky laundry to the public laundromat. NICE! I wanted to die, but I made it through. We all do. But, we'll do it better if we support each other.
Tiff (Masters student, part-time Environmental Educator, and mom to:)
M (12 - sports rox)
D (9 - water spirit)
D (9 - animal lover)
D (9 - video gamer)
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StarburstX Wed Jun-09-10 10:32 AM
Member since Jun 03rd 2010
16 posts
#467086, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 7
I didn't read anywhere that he was asking for support. The post was to let us know that if our husbands weren't doing their part, they would when the kids turn five.
Uhm, okay? Sure. We'll hand them over when they get FUN.
The other mother was looking for solutions to change an unwanted response and behavior. Therefore, she got support.
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MumfordTriplets Wed Jun-09-10 10:32 AM
Member since Apr 27th 2008
638 posts
#467087, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I thought it was hilarious and not meant to be taken all that seriously. A nice break - although the language was a bit strong!
Karen
"http://render5.snapfish.com/render2/is=Yup6G0P%7C%3Dup6RKKt%3Axxr%3DJ-qpDofRtHef7mrPfrj7t%3DzrRfDUX%3AeQaQxg%3Dr%3F87KR6xqpxQQ0axQnQxennxv8uOc5xQooQPPl0PPQQaqpfVtB%3F*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6qgXJQQJn%7CRup6aQQ%7C/of=50,172,260"
www.dresslikeatriplet.blogsp
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Meri Wed Jun-09-10 12:25 PM
Member since Jul 08th 2009
234 posts
#467098, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I didn't find it that offensive. He was just blowing off steam with a quirky sense of humor. He wasn't saying that he wasn't going to help his wife or demand that she does everything until they are 5, he just poked fun at what he didn't like and said he may not be very good at the duties or enjoy them until they are 5. I cringed a bit at the language myself and also thanked my husband last night.
There are many posts where we just vent and that's how I took it. I'd like to get more of the dad perspective on this board.
I would certainly be much more upset if he came on saying he didn't think it was his duty to do these things or if he said he wasn't going to. There are lots of dads out there who don't. He just poked fun at it and joked that he tries to make himself scarce during poop time.
I got a combination cringe and chuckle out of the post and ended up being appreciative of my situation.
Meri
GBG 9/23/09
Gwen 3.8 lbs
Grant 4.11 lbs
Brianne 4.8 lbs
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Suzan33 Wed Jun-09-10 12:40 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1475 posts
#467101, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
Nope, you were not dreaming but I had no clue it was pulled.
I honestly thought it was funny. He does his best and he knew what his shortcoming were and dealt with it.
Suzan
g/g/b August 21, 2005
my miracle 24 weekers!!!!
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Vaughn Wed Jun-09-10 02:02 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1264 posts
#467109, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
When I was a moderator of a forum for parents of multiples on the old ParentsPlace forum, I got a nasty email from a mom that said basically that something must be wrong with me if I was hanging out on a forum populated by mostly women. Did not seem to make any difference that I worked halftime and was a SAHD.
Does not seem to make any difference to my wife either, who is divorcing me -- appearently because after spending the last 13 years being there 100% for the boys from day one and putting my career on hold, the money I earn (enough for the mortgage, utilities and covers all the very good heath plan we have) is not enough for her.
I guess she should not have married a bloody lazy artist/wilderness ranger if she expected to be rolling in dough...LOL!
So, be kind to us guys -- we do our best!
And the first 5 years are not fun?! They were a blast! Lots of work, yes. Lots of diapers, yes. But it does not get anymore "fun" or any "easier" after five years -- just different! I would not give up those first five years for anything! Nor these last 8 years!
Dang, now I am crying. Love your kids, love your spouse. It all passes all too fast.
Vaughn and the ABC Boys
Alex, Bryce, & Calder
3-31-97 @ 28.5 weeks
http://s515.photobucket.com/albums/t356/vaughn3abc/
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Rick-Carole Wed Jun-09-10 04:55 PM
Member since Oct 30th 2008
434 posts
#467133, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 13
Well said, Vaughn. I've thought about you often over the past couple months and hope that things are better (as best as possible under such circumstances).
Like you, I wouldn't trade these moments with our little ones at this age for anything, regardless of how much work it is.
I'm certain that your boys will always remember and appreciate a life devoted to them from their dad, and that's worth more than all the 'dough' in the world.
Rick
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gracy3 Wed Jun-09-10 02:47 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2284 posts
#467113, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I too found it quite funny. I often joke with my husband that he has those "man hands" which frankly are not very handy on the delicate baby stuff like diaper changes - but he did do it - and complained about it...just like this dad does.
I never heard him say that his wife could not go shopping with Sally, but rather than he stressed over it for days- just like any of us would if we had to perform a job we did not do every day.
I would bet money that you will not see his wife post that her husband does not help or that she never has time for herself, etc why??? because he does help the best he can - and can also laugh at himself about it. I bet his kids can't wait to go fishing with dad - once all the horsie rides, funny faces and snacks that mommy will not allow are over. hmmmm....this guy sounds like a pretty good dad to me....
Gracy
BGG (9/18/04 @ 31 weeks) and G (3/6/06 at 38 weeks)...
Save the babies!
www.marchforbabies.org/4littlesplinters
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4kds4me Wed Jun-09-10 05:05 PM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
1258 posts
#467136, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 14
"man hands" roflmbo! I remember dh getting frustrated with trying to fastened all those little Barbie clothing snaps! They were a PITA!
"Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears."-- Gillian Anderson
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cdemp Wed Jun-09-10 06:55 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1796 posts
#467139, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 14
I agree. The original poster was joking around and laughing at what he believes are his shortcomings as a father. IMO at least he's aware of his own faults instead of being completely oblivious to them. --Gloria
Mom to five girls: ages 12, 10, and 9/9/9
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Mamakitten3 Wed Jun-09-10 03:08 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1588 posts
#467119, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
I just love dads that think they babysit their own kids, seriously!
BBG 6/21/06
www.tutuloo.net
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BYU49er Wed Jun-09-10 07:05 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
237 posts
#467141, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
The post was pulled because of the number of threads that quickly morphed into vulgarity and profane comments. These have no place on the Triplet Connection form.
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1plustriplets Wed Jun-09-10 07:59 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
273 posts
#467149, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 24
I believe I used the words "uterus" "vagina" and "balls". I used the word damn too. May have over done it with damn. But the other three? When are those words vulgar? He posted his opinion. I posted mine. I posted my opinion based on the last 7 years of my life. Because I didn't find humor in anything I experienced then my post gets pulled? Really?
I'm thinking my TC does may soon be over.
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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lovemy4 Wed Jun-09-10 08:30 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
825 posts
#467154, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
Maybe his kids don't respond to him because he swears at his babies. If I had ever caught my ex-husband swearing at our babies, it would have been the last time he ever changed their diaper. And maybe that's his whole aim. Pretend you're completely incompetent so your wife has to do everything for you. Shameful.
And let me tell you: men who CAN'T take care of their babies often end up being men who WON'T take care of their older children.
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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1plustriplets Wed Jun-09-10 08:32 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
273 posts
#467155, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 26
Right there with you Jennie.
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVFers 34w3d
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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lovemy4 Thu Jun-10-10 07:15 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
825 posts
#467175, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 27
You can tell who has been divorced on this thread!
Jennie
Proud mom to BBB born 09-02-03 @ 32.2 wks
and 13 yr old big brother
and 3 yr old little brother
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franjipani Thu Jun-10-10 03:12 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2354 posts
#467170, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
There is a lot more to taking care of five year olds than taking them fishing.
tess
mummy to 8yr old ds & the triumverate born 2004
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MelissaChicago Thu Jun-10-10 08:48 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
233 posts
#467180, "RE: Hilarious post?"
In response to Reply # 0
The OP should be a aware that at age 5, the butts still need to be wiped....nothing better than trying to make dinner and hearing, "Mooommmmmyyyy, I'm dooooonnnneeeee" coming from the bathroom.
Melissa
Leo (5)
Lauren, Kate, and Caroline (4)
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