Julia Ann thinks single moms need to lock themselves away and put their lives on hold until their kids are "grown and gone". What kind of example is that setting for kids? That love and family are not a priority?
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julie123
Wed Feb-16-11 11:09 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
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#480943, "NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
So totally not triplet related but I've got my 10 minutes of fame or so tomorrow on Judge Judy. It's episode #3631 and you can check for the air time in your city here http://www.judgejudy.com/local_airtimes.php
The case synopsis is "a woman claims her ex-boyfriend owes for a loan to buy a car."
I didn't think it was all that juicy of a case, but heck, I'm on TV. LOL
Julie
Single mom to
Tristan Declan 4lbs 3oz
Cassandra Madison 4lbs 7oz
Ryland Markus 4lbs 2oz
Born on 9/5/06 at 32 weeks 4 days
www.our3.blogspot.com
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RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, paperpusher, Feb 17th 2011, #1
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, soccermom, Feb 17th 2011, #2
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, julie123, Feb 17th 2011, #3
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, soccermom, Feb 17th 2011, #5
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, julie123, Feb 18th 2011, #7
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, mw, Feb 17th 2011, #4
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, 6BlueEyes, Feb 17th 2011, #6
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, julia ann, Feb 19th 2011, #8
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, fraujill, Feb 19th 2011, #9
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, azwallace, Feb 19th 2011, #10
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, momof7girls, Feb 19th 2011, #11
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, 1plustriplets, Feb 19th 2011, #12
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, Tasha, Feb 19th 2011, #14
RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy, ChelleBelle, Feb 19th 2011, #13
paperpusher
Thu Feb-17-11 02:51 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
929 posts
#480948, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0
4pm in Honolulu. I'm there, baby.
Aloha,
Kelli
BBB 6/4/06 @ 29wks 4 days
GG 4/30/09
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soccermom
Thu Feb-17-11 04:13 PM
Member since Feb 22nd 2008
369 posts
#480961, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0
I have that baby Tivo'd. How did you get selected?
Karen
Mom to Patrick, William, and our Angel Hunter
7-14-08
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julie123
Thu Feb-17-11 07:23 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1677 posts
#480967, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 2
All they told me was that they searched databases in certain states and they selected mine. When I got the phone call I was like, "is this a joke?"
Julie
Single mom to
Tristan Declan 4lbs 3oz
Cassandra Madison 4lbs 7oz
Ryland Markus 4lbs 2oz
Born on 9/5/06 at 32 weeks 4 days
www.our3.blogspot.com
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soccermom
Thu Feb-17-11 08:12 PM
Member since Feb 22nd 2008
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#480970, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 3
I watched it! You looked great.
I just have a couple of questions for you?
I have heard that in agreeing to come to court, the show pays whatever you are awarded? is that true?
Do you meet her or Bird before or after? Do they do any prep work with you?
Sorry to pepper you questions...I'm a total geek about court shows.
Karen
Karen
Mom to Patrick, William, and our Angel Hunter
7-14-08
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julie123
Fri Feb-18-11 02:12 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
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#480995, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 5
Yes to the awarded part, no to meething them although I REALLY wanted to!!!
and yes to the other question, I did win.
Julie
Single mom to
Tristan Declan 4lbs 3oz
Cassandra Madison 4lbs 7oz
Ryland Markus 4lbs 2oz
Born on 9/5/06 at 32 weeks 4 days
www.our3.blogspot.com
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mw
Thu Feb-17-11 07:29 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
4218 posts
#480969, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0
Shoot, I missed it!
Marie
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6BlueEyes
Thu Feb-17-11 09:27 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
774 posts
#480974, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0
Did you win??
Kelly
Ben, Jack & Drew 05/28/02
Charlie 07/06/06
Aunt to: Liam, Aidan & Connor 03/05/08
www.outnumberedmommy.blogspot.com
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julia ann
Sat Feb-19-11 10:59 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
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#481020, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
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Hopefully you learned not to bring "boyfriends" into their lives and not to loan any strange guy money. Put it in their college accounts instead. You can date when they are grown-up and gone.
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fraujill
Sat Feb-19-11 12:21 PM
Member since May 07th 2008
43 posts
#481022, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8
Really???
Jill
DD 11 yrs
B/B/B born 6/08
35.2 weeks
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azwallace
Sat Feb-19-11 12:24 PM
Member since May 22nd 2007
1304 posts
#481023, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8
Yesh, I think that was a little unnecessary.
Stephanie
Mama to Beautiful Quads
30 weeks, 5 days
and ^Angel Baby^ 1/05
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momof7girls
Sat Feb-19-11 01:08 PM
Member since May 03rd 2008
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#481026, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
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oh yeah, cause we are suppose to completly put our lives on hold cause we have kids and we are single, are you kidding me??? That statement was uncalled for.
Jessika mom of
identical GGG born 11.21.01
girl 7yrs
girl 6yrs
girl 5yrs
girl 3yrs
boy 9months
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1plustriplets
Sat Feb-19-11 02:44 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
339 posts
#481032, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8
Wow that was really an unneccessary comment. I too am a single Mom. So because my ex was an ass and isn't in this marriage anymore, I should not date anyone until my children are grown? Wow. I think shame on you might be my response.
Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVF
www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com
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Tasha
Sat Feb-19-11 04:21 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
2351 posts
#481034, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 12
She was just trying to give her opinion and advice. No need to jump on her now. By the way, since we have so many single moms here just wanted to let you all know you can buy chastity belts/piggy banks at my website. Great way to stay chaste and save for college! www.holierthanthou.com
Tasha
Have children afraid of monsters or just looking for a fun kids app? http://www.goawaymonster.com/
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ChelleBelle
Sat Feb-19-11 02:47 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
373 posts
#481033, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8
Wow. Let me just lock myself up and cut myself off from life just because I have kids. That's a great way to teach kids about life and relationships.
Michelle
Sam, Charlotte and Jacob
June 14, 2006
29w6d (no the hospital wouldn't give me the extra day!)
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Rick-Carole
Sat Feb-19-11 06:20 PM
Member since Oct 30th 2008
483 posts
#481037, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8
This response floored me. The sarcasm, the 'better-than-thou' way that you spouted off what you had to say.
I truly believe there some people that have no filter between their brain and their mouth.
Rick
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Megan Welfare
Sat Feb-19-11 08:26 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
6545 posts
#481038, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8
>Hopefully you learned not to bring "boyfriends" into their
>lives and not to loan any strange guy money. Put it in their
>college accounts instead. You can date when they are grown-up
>and gone.
>
I'm not even going to comment on your tone, but as to the substance.
If I were to die tomorrow, my husband knows that I EXPECT him to go find another wife. (Not immediately, of course, but within a reasonable amount of time.) My children need a mom. They need to see a healthy marriage modeled for them. And honestly, I want to know that he has a woman in his life taking care of him and loving him. If it can't be me, well, I don't want him to grow old alone just to preserve a memory! And how would my husband find another wife except by dating???
I am shocked that ANYONE would advocate staying single "for the kids". I think the kids are an important reason for getting out there and dating!
BGG born 4/25/05 at 31w1d
New baby girl born 9/19/06
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3petes
Sun Feb-20-11 08:00 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1449 posts
#481045, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 8
Julia Ann, why do you post here? Do you have triplets or do you just know some in real life? I think your a grandma to some or an aunt or something. Go place your judgment calls on people that appreciate them, like your unforgiving church website. You're a PITA, and your post was uncalled for and unwelcome. Please get a life and post somewhere that is a more appropriate fit. JeezUs.
Jamye
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julie123
Sun Feb-20-11 02:33 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1678 posts
#481050, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 0
Hmmm, well I missed the "rude" post but thanks for all the support and defense ladies!!! And thanks the the person who quoted it in their post !!!
and to that kind sweet sheltered lady... WHERE THE HELL ANYWHERE did I say that this guy met my kids??? LOL, assuming makes an ars out of you ya know sweetie . I'm MUCH more aware of how impressionable my kids are at this age and I've been dating for 3 years now and my kids have only met 2 people. Just cause I have kids doesn't mean I don't deserve a little time for me, and to find someone for me and for them. Shame on you!
Julie
Single mom to
Tristan Declan 4lbs 3oz
Cassandra Madison 4lbs 7oz
Ryland Markus 4lbs 2oz
Born on 9/5/06 at 32 weeks 4 days
www.our3.blogspot.com
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Tanna
Sun Feb-20-11 02:43 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
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#481051, "RE: NTR- not even remotely close... Judge Judy"
In response to Reply # 19
Tanna
06/22/07 29 weeks 4 days
Lincoln 2 lbs 13 oz
Colton 2 lbs 14.4 oz
Dakota 2 lbs 11oz
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Sunday, February 20, 2011
Monday, February 14, 2011
Memphis in 24 hours
So in 24 hrs the story has gone from the nurse abused him broke his leg, back and caused a brain bleed. Nobody knew the nurses name or the home health that sent her. She knew the company that sent her but the hospital didn't so they were investigating (why couldn't she just tell them?) because another hospital hired her. They didn't know the nurses last name because she never signed the chart only initialed it. Then someone mentioned another child that brittle bone disease. Shortly after when everyone was questioning the absurdity of nobody being able to find this nurse(as you all have read) he was diagnosed with brittle bones. So we go to today when I was gone and I don't have copies. People continued to question this new diagnosis and her story and suddenly the story changes again and now his leg and back aren't broken it is 'shadows on the x-ray'. People continue to question. She gets very defensive and starts attacking those questioning saying that they don't understand anything about children who have gone through a transplant. "Kristina do you know anything about ba or transplant? I guess not cause you would know it causes brittle bones,breaks, and internal and brain bleeds."
To which that lady responded "If this is the case and you know these things then why did you lead the rest of us to believe that he was abused and/or mistreated by a home health nurse? You never told anyone that any of these things could be caused by his transplant. You only had everyone believe that the nurse hurt him without pointing out the facts of the other side of the coin!"
Suddenly all posts are GONE. Everything since he was released from the hospital. Hmmm Think someone has something to hide? And who looses here. Memphis. I think we have a STRONG case of either Munchausen by proxy or Munchausen by Internet on our hands. I am praying for Munchausen by internet personally and she isn't actually physically injuring this child just telling stories online.
and now another person mentions he could be diagnosed with something that would explain brittle bones and low and behold he was diagnosed with it today! after she said he didn't have brittle bones earlier today.
Mark as SpamReport as AbuseLisa Beatty For those who wonder about brittle bones (sorry Nicole, delete if you need to), there's a good bet that Memphis will be/has been disagnosed with a condition called osteopenia that often affects preemies, which would explain having brittle bones.
I have faith for you guys that happily ever after is almost here...you hav...e a resilient strong little guy who I bet is very ready to begin properly enjoying being part of a family of six and get on with the rest of his life.
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Praying for Memphis He was diagonsed with osteopenia today acutally.. That doesn't explain the brain bleed though..
about an hour ago.
To which that lady responded "If this is the case and you know these things then why did you lead the rest of us to believe that he was abused and/or mistreated by a home health nurse? You never told anyone that any of these things could be caused by his transplant. You only had everyone believe that the nurse hurt him without pointing out the facts of the other side of the coin!"
Suddenly all posts are GONE. Everything since he was released from the hospital. Hmmm Think someone has something to hide? And who looses here. Memphis. I think we have a STRONG case of either Munchausen by proxy or Munchausen by Internet on our hands. I am praying for Munchausen by internet personally and she isn't actually physically injuring this child just telling stories online.
and now another person mentions he could be diagnosed with something that would explain brittle bones and low and behold he was diagnosed with it today! after she said he didn't have brittle bones earlier today.
Mark as SpamReport as AbuseLisa Beatty For those who wonder about brittle bones (sorry Nicole, delete if you need to), there's a good bet that Memphis will be/has been disagnosed with a condition called osteopenia that often affects preemies, which would explain having brittle bones.
I have faith for you guys that happily ever after is almost here...you hav...e a resilient strong little guy who I bet is very ready to begin properly enjoying being part of a family of six and get on with the rest of his life.
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Praying for Memphis He was diagonsed with osteopenia today acutally.. That doesn't explain the brain bleed though..
about an hour ago.
Memphis-I missed a thread
Well a girl leaves her computer for a day and people start calling Nicole (mom) out on inaccuracies in the story and Nicole pulls all her posts from the page. Must pull all evidence. This is why I like to copy and paste people. Once again I will ask you to copy stuff you see when you see it just in case I am not around! Just highlight (and on facebook scroll through the thread and click on any "see more" at the end of any longer comments) the entire thread and copy it to word or most of you know me on FB just copy it into a PM there.
So lets cut to Nicole saying she will no longer be posting updates because of all the "mean people"
Praying for Memphis
Posts were deleted because I am tried of always having to defend myself for stuff that is out of my control.. There will be no more updates..
5 hours ago ·
Sara Czolba i am sorry, defending yourself is UNCALLED FOR!!!!!!! WISE GIRL, OR DELETE THOSE YOU DONT WANT ON THERE, IT IS NOT WORTH IT AT ALL!!!! I AM STILL PRAYING AND I AM NOT STOPPING. I AM NOT STOPPING LOVING YOU GUYS. XOOX
5 hours ago.
Wanda Carroll Boyce So sorry I am still Praying for Memphis and all of you.
5 hours ago.
Billie Slavic Sorry to hear that :( Some people are just so rude you should not have to defend yourself to anyone!!! There is only one judge and it is the Lord! Prayers are still with you always!!!
5 hours ago.
Nghtstr Waverly im sorry u shouldnt have to explain urself to anyone its ur life and ur baby u stay strong and dont let the rif raft bother ya
5 hours ago.
Jean Gragg Thats sad..Hes always on my mind. Your an AMAZING MOTHER! dont let the dumb people stop you from posting about Memphis There are tons of us out there that love the posts and keeping up on him.. And as for the ones you have to defend yourself to..They are unimportant if they knew what ur going through (which i dont belive anyone will) They would support you not make you feel the need to defend yourself. GIVE THEM THE BOOT! -Prayers for you and your family-
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Helene Eichenwald Slutsky I figured that was the case, I did not mean to imply any wrong doing, I was just curious because I have been reading about this poor baby for so long.
5 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis I have deleted people.. They made new profiles and came back posting.. People have nothing better to do I guess..
5 hours ago.
Jamie Workman Anderson Why not make a blog and then close off comments? You can blog without ever having to accept comments. Is that a possibility. I hope Memphis is doing better today.
5 hours ago.
Wanda Carroll Boyce In so sorry there are way too many idiots on here. Can you fix it to where they have to have permission to see it?
5 hours ago.
Michel Lantz If there is any updates, can you message me cuz I like hearing on how Memphis is doing. People have nothing better to do. Please keep me updated!
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Jean Gragg Thats sad! the must not have anything better to do! Btw how are the other little ones???
5 hours ago.
Shelli Glatchak Kelsey Hoping you get the BEST Valentine's Day gift of all...Your baby back home with you and the family!
5 hours ago.
Melvina Golden You of all people should NOT have todefend yourself to these idiots!!! You are a strong capable mother, that is where you lil bundle gets his strength from, his mommy and god!!! Hang in there sweetie, I will continue to pray for your family, and you are always in my thoughts!
5 hours ago.
Shely Hanson I am sorry all of this is going on. Best of luck to you and Memphis. I do pray for him daily, he has already been through so much.
5 hours ago.
Dana Linger Listen, the only people that are important are those you love. If you have their support then you have everything you need there. Stay true to yourself. But, you have to remember that so many people have put their hearts into other stories ...and the ended up feeling deceived. Everybody needs to put themselves into the other persons shoes and give this family the benefit of your doubt. It will only benefit Memphis to have a mommy who isn't mad from things on here....right? Just prove everybody wrong is what I pray for along with Memphis' health and happiness. People don't know you personally so they may feel different than someone who knows you. In this day and time, it is hard to trust people. Lets just try and trust. I hope I didn't say anything to offend, that is not my purpose. I just want everyone to understand how each other may be feeling. When a baby is involved, it is so hard not to feel protective on either side. Love you lil Memp!See More
4 hours ago.
Val J. Bicanovsky Sorry you have to keep defending yourself against naysayers. I wish there was some way you could keep this page without having some much negativism. Some of us truly care about Memphis and have followed his progress and have prayed faithfully for the little guy. I wish you and your family the best and please try to find a way to keep us updated on his progress.
4 hours ago.
Marie Musgrove Welsh I hope you rethink this. There are many of us that are praying for him and want to know how he (and you) are doing. I hope that he heals quickly from these injuries, I also hope that the nurse is found.
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Courtney Twaites Mean people suck! We support you Nicole...you are his mom, NO ONE ELSE!
4 hours ago.
Jennifer Hamachek Eis Why do there have to be such inconsiderate people in the world? i could say more but i know people would be offended by them
4 hours ago.
Kelly Venable Daigle Dun dun dun .... And the plot thickens...
4 hours ago.
Angela Sparks How is memphis today, I have seen what you have been going through from date one, we all prayer each date and night that he stay strong, and all them prayer that everybody has ask for has been for MEMPHIS. we love and care so much about this little man
4 hours ago.
Susan Gamble WE will pray for Memphis and pray for people to find kindness in their souls
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Dana Linger No matter what you decide, we ALL WILL CONTINUE to pray for the lil man!
4 hours ago.
Dana Linger Jennifer, thank you! Truly!
4 hours ago.
Brittany Quentin I will continue to pray for Memphis, he and your family have been through so much! He is an amazing boy to have gone through all he has and still have that gorgeous smile on his face, making the best of his situation... I am sorry that people are questioning things and causing you to want to be less open, many of us are sincerely following Memphis' story to offer prayer and enjoy hearing of his progress. Not to pass judgement or ridicule... My prayers are with you
4 hours ago.
D.j. Huntley it is sad that you feel the need to stop posting about Memphis to keep those of us who are truly concerned. what goes around comes around...their day will come....as for my daughter and i we will keep praying for Memphis and your family...I know the ignorance and the cruelty of some folks as my daughter had a baby at 26 wks and a lot of people kept saying " well if she did not do drugs" and that was not the case.
4 hours ago.
Brandy Mccrimmon-Morrison i think that making one without letting people comment would be a good idea i will support u in whatever u do ur a great mother and i will continue to pray for your family no matter what
4 hours ago.
Janice Demnyan keep strong in the Lord.........prayers WILL continue!!!
4 hours ago.
Kandice Nelson I'm so sorry, I don't know you personally but I've been following your story and Memphis's and praying for you guys. I can't believe some of the people on Facebook. They really need a life. I hope you keep updating as some of us really do care about you guys!!
4 hours ago.
Karolyn Castro So sad that on top of all you are having to deal with rude people...I will continue to pray as others will...I understand and support your decision whatever is....if you set up a close or private group please let me know...my personal email is karolyn.castro@gmail.com, I am open to prayers all the time, I live overseas but feel free to drop me a line anythime if you need support...kiss little Memphis and tell him many people are praying for him...and for yourself keep it strong Mommy you and daddy are doing a terrific job!
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Amy Salazar What the heck? People are so stupid! Hugs sweetie! Dont listen to them, youre doing awesome and we're praying!
4 hours ago.
Carolyn Morrison I am so sorry to hear that. People are so stupid. I am still praying
3 hours ago.Ashley Lisk Always in my prayers .... Please include me in the email updates if you decide to go that route ... Akwy13@yahoo.com
3 hours ago.
Michelle Stys Sorry that you have to deal with that. Do know that know matter what Memphis and your family will remain in my daily thoughts and prayers. I gave you my email address awhile ago so please update major things please!!
3 hours ago.
Diana Homewood Drayton I do not know you, but I work with your cousin Christina. I have been following little Memphis's and pray for him and your family. He has gone through a lot and seems such a touch guy despite his trials. I know that God has big plans for him. Please blog just to let us know how he is doing even if you need to block rude comments. His photos with his big smile always make me smile! :)
3 hours ago.
Christine Czaja I will continue to pray for you guys. You seem to have an amazing support system. God Bless and always hoping for the best for little Memphis
3 hours ago.
Lisa Beatty I can't say I can fault you at all. In theory this should be a safe place in which for you to find support and when you get the opposite of support from some, how it must discourage you when you need words to lift you up. I am so sorry. :(
2 hours ago.
Trina Merrell-Deniro I'm sorry, and I will miss the updates hope you will continue so that people really concerned will be able to know how he and you guys are doing. Don't feel you have to defend yourself we all parent and respond to things differently, and you are doing the best that you know how to with all that is going on.
2 hours ago.
Kelly Bishop YOU ARE DOING GREAT!! No one can say anything till they walk in your shoes!
2 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis Nicole, I say just ignore the comments that bother you and if you don't respond to them, they will eventually quit... they want that aggravated response... pretend that you don't see them, skip over their posts...even though I know it is ha...rd and it hurts... but it hurts more if you respond and they make more negative comments... and the back and forth thing...then those who really are concerned can still give the encouragement and prayers that are needed... it's just an idea... Memphis and your family are in so many daily prayers and there are so many who really do care and think of your family as part of their family now... he is a true inspiration to so many of us. :) CharSee More
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Jennifer Flynn If your tired of hearing the world's opinion, I totally understand. Sometimes you just need support from people who truly know you. I will continue to pray for Memphis. I will miss the updates, but you deserve peace after the ordeal you have been through more than anyone wanting a update. Do what you need to for your family. No one is owed anything for praying.
about an hour ago.
Kathy Strawbridge Nicole who ever is saying things should keep there comments to them selves, if they do not know what is going on then you would not have to defend yourself..I like the updates so I no what is going on with your sweet little man he is beautiful and is so blessed to have a mom like you..so please keep me updated I didn't do anything just remember you are a good mother and a good person
about an hour ago.
Sharon Warrick I agree with ignoring those who make such inconsiderate comments, there is in no way, shape or form that you should EVER have to defend yourself. You and Memphis and your entire family have been through enough! I don't know you personally... either but I have followed Memphis' progress and am interested in seeing that he make it through all of these things. Hugggsss to you and that little baby and your entire family!! I can tell just from everything I have ever read that you are a wonderful mother!! You can always bet you will receive support from me! SharonSee More
58 minutes ago.
Rachel Worden I completely understand why you want to stop the updates. I would love to be updated on how your angel is doing but if you discontinue updates I support that decision and I wish you the best of luck! Hope and prayers! ♥
32 minutes ago..
Caroline Heaps I'm gonna miss the updates... but I do understand.. Know that you have inspired so many! Will always be praying for you guys ♥
So lets cut to Nicole saying she will no longer be posting updates because of all the "mean people"
Praying for Memphis
Posts were deleted because I am tried of always having to defend myself for stuff that is out of my control.. There will be no more updates..
5 hours ago ·
Sara Czolba i am sorry, defending yourself is UNCALLED FOR!!!!!!! WISE GIRL, OR DELETE THOSE YOU DONT WANT ON THERE, IT IS NOT WORTH IT AT ALL!!!! I AM STILL PRAYING AND I AM NOT STOPPING. I AM NOT STOPPING LOVING YOU GUYS. XOOX
5 hours ago.
Wanda Carroll Boyce So sorry I am still Praying for Memphis and all of you.
5 hours ago.
Billie Slavic Sorry to hear that :( Some people are just so rude you should not have to defend yourself to anyone!!! There is only one judge and it is the Lord! Prayers are still with you always!!!
5 hours ago.
Nghtstr Waverly im sorry u shouldnt have to explain urself to anyone its ur life and ur baby u stay strong and dont let the rif raft bother ya
5 hours ago.
Jean Gragg Thats sad..Hes always on my mind. Your an AMAZING MOTHER! dont let the dumb people stop you from posting about Memphis There are tons of us out there that love the posts and keeping up on him.. And as for the ones you have to defend yourself to..They are unimportant if they knew what ur going through (which i dont belive anyone will) They would support you not make you feel the need to defend yourself. GIVE THEM THE BOOT! -Prayers for you and your family-
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Helene Eichenwald Slutsky I figured that was the case, I did not mean to imply any wrong doing, I was just curious because I have been reading about this poor baby for so long.
5 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis I have deleted people.. They made new profiles and came back posting.. People have nothing better to do I guess..
5 hours ago.
Jamie Workman Anderson Why not make a blog and then close off comments? You can blog without ever having to accept comments. Is that a possibility. I hope Memphis is doing better today.
5 hours ago.
Wanda Carroll Boyce In so sorry there are way too many idiots on here. Can you fix it to where they have to have permission to see it?
5 hours ago.
Michel Lantz If there is any updates, can you message me cuz I like hearing on how Memphis is doing. People have nothing better to do. Please keep me updated!
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Jean Gragg Thats sad! the must not have anything better to do! Btw how are the other little ones???
5 hours ago.
Shelli Glatchak Kelsey Hoping you get the BEST Valentine's Day gift of all...Your baby back home with you and the family!
5 hours ago.
Melvina Golden You of all people should NOT have todefend yourself to these idiots!!! You are a strong capable mother, that is where you lil bundle gets his strength from, his mommy and god!!! Hang in there sweetie, I will continue to pray for your family, and you are always in my thoughts!
5 hours ago.
Shely Hanson I am sorry all of this is going on. Best of luck to you and Memphis. I do pray for him daily, he has already been through so much.
5 hours ago.
Dana Linger Listen, the only people that are important are those you love. If you have their support then you have everything you need there. Stay true to yourself. But, you have to remember that so many people have put their hearts into other stories ...and the ended up feeling deceived. Everybody needs to put themselves into the other persons shoes and give this family the benefit of your doubt. It will only benefit Memphis to have a mommy who isn't mad from things on here....right? Just prove everybody wrong is what I pray for along with Memphis' health and happiness. People don't know you personally so they may feel different than someone who knows you. In this day and time, it is hard to trust people. Lets just try and trust. I hope I didn't say anything to offend, that is not my purpose. I just want everyone to understand how each other may be feeling. When a baby is involved, it is so hard not to feel protective on either side. Love you lil Memp!See More
4 hours ago.
Val J. Bicanovsky Sorry you have to keep defending yourself against naysayers. I wish there was some way you could keep this page without having some much negativism. Some of us truly care about Memphis and have followed his progress and have prayed faithfully for the little guy. I wish you and your family the best and please try to find a way to keep us updated on his progress.
4 hours ago.
Marie Musgrove Welsh I hope you rethink this. There are many of us that are praying for him and want to know how he (and you) are doing. I hope that he heals quickly from these injuries, I also hope that the nurse is found.
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Courtney Twaites Mean people suck! We support you Nicole...you are his mom, NO ONE ELSE!
4 hours ago.
Jennifer Hamachek Eis Why do there have to be such inconsiderate people in the world? i could say more but i know people would be offended by them
4 hours ago.
Kelly Venable Daigle Dun dun dun .... And the plot thickens...
4 hours ago.
Angela Sparks How is memphis today, I have seen what you have been going through from date one, we all prayer each date and night that he stay strong, and all them prayer that everybody has ask for has been for MEMPHIS. we love and care so much about this little man
4 hours ago.
Susan Gamble WE will pray for Memphis and pray for people to find kindness in their souls
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Dana Linger No matter what you decide, we ALL WILL CONTINUE to pray for the lil man!
4 hours ago.
Dana Linger Jennifer, thank you! Truly!
4 hours ago.
Brittany Quentin I will continue to pray for Memphis, he and your family have been through so much! He is an amazing boy to have gone through all he has and still have that gorgeous smile on his face, making the best of his situation... I am sorry that people are questioning things and causing you to want to be less open, many of us are sincerely following Memphis' story to offer prayer and enjoy hearing of his progress. Not to pass judgement or ridicule... My prayers are with you
4 hours ago.
D.j. Huntley it is sad that you feel the need to stop posting about Memphis to keep those of us who are truly concerned. what goes around comes around...their day will come....as for my daughter and i we will keep praying for Memphis and your family...I know the ignorance and the cruelty of some folks as my daughter had a baby at 26 wks and a lot of people kept saying " well if she did not do drugs" and that was not the case.
4 hours ago.
Brandy Mccrimmon-Morrison i think that making one without letting people comment would be a good idea i will support u in whatever u do ur a great mother and i will continue to pray for your family no matter what
4 hours ago.
Janice Demnyan keep strong in the Lord.........prayers WILL continue!!!
4 hours ago.
Kandice Nelson I'm so sorry, I don't know you personally but I've been following your story and Memphis's and praying for you guys. I can't believe some of the people on Facebook. They really need a life. I hope you keep updating as some of us really do care about you guys!!
4 hours ago.
Karolyn Castro So sad that on top of all you are having to deal with rude people...I will continue to pray as others will...I understand and support your decision whatever is....if you set up a close or private group please let me know...my personal email is karolyn.castro@gmail.com, I am open to prayers all the time, I live overseas but feel free to drop me a line anythime if you need support...kiss little Memphis and tell him many people are praying for him...and for yourself keep it strong Mommy you and daddy are doing a terrific job!
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Amy Salazar What the heck? People are so stupid! Hugs sweetie! Dont listen to them, youre doing awesome and we're praying!
4 hours ago.
Carolyn Morrison I am so sorry to hear that. People are so stupid. I am still praying
3 hours ago.Ashley Lisk Always in my prayers .... Please include me in the email updates if you decide to go that route ... Akwy13@yahoo.com
3 hours ago.
Michelle Stys Sorry that you have to deal with that. Do know that know matter what Memphis and your family will remain in my daily thoughts and prayers. I gave you my email address awhile ago so please update major things please!!
3 hours ago.
Diana Homewood Drayton I do not know you, but I work with your cousin Christina. I have been following little Memphis's and pray for him and your family. He has gone through a lot and seems such a touch guy despite his trials. I know that God has big plans for him. Please blog just to let us know how he is doing even if you need to block rude comments. His photos with his big smile always make me smile! :)
3 hours ago.
Christine Czaja I will continue to pray for you guys. You seem to have an amazing support system. God Bless and always hoping for the best for little Memphis
3 hours ago.
Lisa Beatty I can't say I can fault you at all. In theory this should be a safe place in which for you to find support and when you get the opposite of support from some, how it must discourage you when you need words to lift you up. I am so sorry. :(
2 hours ago.
Trina Merrell-Deniro I'm sorry, and I will miss the updates hope you will continue so that people really concerned will be able to know how he and you guys are doing. Don't feel you have to defend yourself we all parent and respond to things differently, and you are doing the best that you know how to with all that is going on.
2 hours ago.
Kelly Bishop YOU ARE DOING GREAT!! No one can say anything till they walk in your shoes!
2 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis Nicole, I say just ignore the comments that bother you and if you don't respond to them, they will eventually quit... they want that aggravated response... pretend that you don't see them, skip over their posts...even though I know it is ha...rd and it hurts... but it hurts more if you respond and they make more negative comments... and the back and forth thing...then those who really are concerned can still give the encouragement and prayers that are needed... it's just an idea... Memphis and your family are in so many daily prayers and there are so many who really do care and think of your family as part of their family now... he is a true inspiration to so many of us. :) CharSee More
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Jennifer Flynn If your tired of hearing the world's opinion, I totally understand. Sometimes you just need support from people who truly know you. I will continue to pray for Memphis. I will miss the updates, but you deserve peace after the ordeal you have been through more than anyone wanting a update. Do what you need to for your family. No one is owed anything for praying.
about an hour ago.
Kathy Strawbridge Nicole who ever is saying things should keep there comments to them selves, if they do not know what is going on then you would not have to defend yourself..I like the updates so I no what is going on with your sweet little man he is beautiful and is so blessed to have a mom like you..so please keep me updated I didn't do anything just remember you are a good mother and a good person
about an hour ago.
Sharon Warrick I agree with ignoring those who make such inconsiderate comments, there is in no way, shape or form that you should EVER have to defend yourself. You and Memphis and your entire family have been through enough! I don't know you personally... either but I have followed Memphis' progress and am interested in seeing that he make it through all of these things. Hugggsss to you and that little baby and your entire family!! I can tell just from everything I have ever read that you are a wonderful mother!! You can always bet you will receive support from me! SharonSee More
58 minutes ago.
Rachel Worden I completely understand why you want to stop the updates. I would love to be updated on how your angel is doing but if you discontinue updates I support that decision and I wish you the best of luck! Hope and prayers! ♥
32 minutes ago..
Caroline Heaps I'm gonna miss the updates... but I do understand.. Know that you have inspired so many! Will always be praying for you guys ♥
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Memphis Part 4 People question
Mark Vidonic No one knows who the agency is? How is that even possible?
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Mark Vidonic I mean, the nurse just showed up with no paperwork, no nothing? Doesn't make sense.
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Praying for Memphis Makes lots ps sense they are new and were hired by Pittsburgh. We are in Akron Ohio now. They don't deal with that company.
3 hours ago.
Mary Neddo Dunbar I agree. That is completely insane that the hospital does not know the name of the agency they hired. Furthermore, the agency will absolutely know the first and last name (at the very least) of the nurse that is employed with them. They will also have SS number, DOB, and address. This just does not add up. Praying for youto get some answers soon.
3 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis She had paperwork. In fact I still have her chart. But it doesn't have her last name in it anywhere.
3 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis I never said they didn't know the name. I said Pitt hired them. They are the ones that work with them most often. Akron doesn't use them so the don't know who they are. I gave the police and Cps their info and info I had for her. That is all I can do.
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Mark Vidonic A chart doesn't have her last name? Seriously?
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Praying for Memphis Yep just her initials.
3 hours ago.
Mary Neddo Dunbar How horribly frustrating. =(
3 hours ago.
Jonna Borough Wilson If no one has her last name, how does she get paid? There has to be an employee file somewhere that will have all the information they would need to find her. Even working as a respite worker, I had to have all my clients sign my timecard, which had all my information on it. Without that, I wouldn't have been paid.
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Praying for Memphis I am sure the agency knows her name and address. But they will not give that info to me. That is why the police and Cps are investigating so they can find her and figure out what happened.
2 hours ago.
Mark Vidonic How can a PA hospital hire a company in Ohio? I didn't think that was possible, I thought you'd gave to get a referral from your local hospital.
2 hours ago.
Dana Linger What happened to the other comments.? Is FB messing up again.
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Mark Vidonic I mean, the nurse just showed up with no paperwork, no nothing? Doesn't make sense.
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Praying for Memphis Makes lots ps sense they are new and were hired by Pittsburgh. We are in Akron Ohio now. They don't deal with that company.
3 hours ago.
Mary Neddo Dunbar I agree. That is completely insane that the hospital does not know the name of the agency they hired. Furthermore, the agency will absolutely know the first and last name (at the very least) of the nurse that is employed with them. They will also have SS number, DOB, and address. This just does not add up. Praying for youto get some answers soon.
3 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis She had paperwork. In fact I still have her chart. But it doesn't have her last name in it anywhere.
3 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis I never said they didn't know the name. I said Pitt hired them. They are the ones that work with them most often. Akron doesn't use them so the don't know who they are. I gave the police and Cps their info and info I had for her. That is all I can do.
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Mark Vidonic A chart doesn't have her last name? Seriously?
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Praying for Memphis Yep just her initials.
3 hours ago.
Mary Neddo Dunbar How horribly frustrating. =(
3 hours ago.
Jonna Borough Wilson If no one has her last name, how does she get paid? There has to be an employee file somewhere that will have all the information they would need to find her. Even working as a respite worker, I had to have all my clients sign my timecard, which had all my information on it. Without that, I wouldn't have been paid.
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Praying for Memphis I am sure the agency knows her name and address. But they will not give that info to me. That is why the police and Cps are investigating so they can find her and figure out what happened.
2 hours ago.
Mark Vidonic How can a PA hospital hire a company in Ohio? I didn't think that was possible, I thought you'd gave to get a referral from your local hospital.
2 hours ago.
Dana Linger What happened to the other comments.? Is FB messing up again.
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Memphis part 3 Nurse unknown
Praying for Memphis Sorry guys I talked to CPA and Hubbard township police yesterday. They are trying to track down the nurse. Seems no one knows who the nursing agency is and we only her first name. Police are talking about child endangerment charges. He is doing good today and we should go home on monday. Also they found out he has brittle bones but doing tests to find out why.
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Tracy Pruitt Poor memphis and family! Enough is enough...Love and hugs and prayers from The Pruitts in Montevideo Minnesota ♥ ♥
4 hours ago.
Sara Czolba prayers for memphis, and family.
4 hours ago.
Dana Linger Hope all goes well. God bless you all! I wish they knew about the brittle bones earlier. I hope you returns to BIG smiles very soon! He deserves them more than anybody I know!
4 hours ago.
Rose M Maxam-Johnson ok, don't take this the wrong way... but what will they do with the nurse if he has brittle bones? I wish the best, no matter what comes of this. God Bless, I am so sorry all that has to be dealt with, stay strong :)
4 hours ago.
Stephanie Kessler Don't you know the name of the agency that sent a nurse to your home? I mean, I know there's a lot going on and you have a lot on your plate but before I let anyone into my home to care for a medically fragile child I would have a little more info on her than her first name. If he has brittle bones then it wouldn't be negligence on anyone's part. Kids with that disease break just from sitting for long periods of time. What about the brain bleed? That wouldn't be caused by brittle bones. I'm trying to understand what's going on but I'm confused. Poor Memphis! He's dealt with too much in his short life already!4 hours ago · 5 peopleLoading...
Praying for Memphis I know the name of the agency. I was just meaning the hospital, police, or Cps know much of them. I guess they are fairly new. They were told by me to do a background check and drug test before she came in which I just found out was not done. I didn't hire them the hospital did. I called the agency earlier in the week and asked to have her replaced because I felt she was to young and inexperienced. They told me they would work on finding someone else.
3 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis Yea well until we know what is going on and have answers you won't either. All I know is what I have said. The hospital is still trying to figure out what is wrong with him and what happened. Don't know if I will have any real answers for awhile.
3 hours ago.
Jean Gragg This is crazy... Everything youve been through with that hospital! Why the HELL would they send some new company out??? One they obviously know NOTHING about! And when it comes to such a fragile and special little man you would think they would want someone whos been in the business for awhile! God is smiling on Mempis. Hes always on my my mind and in my prayers..
3 hours ago.
Stephanie Kessler It shouldn't matter how new the agency is, there are protocols and laws regarding these situations. You should have been given copies of the background check and drug test BEFORE she was allowed to start. This happened yesterday, all parties involved, parents, siblings, agency, nurses, anyone that's had any contact with Memphis should have been questioned by now. You don't get a brain bleed from brittle bones! Someone hurt this innocent child and that someone needs to pay, dearly!
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Sarah Rhian Simon i hope he recovers quickly. he is such a sweetie. and i hope you get the answers you need. thoughts are with you all.
3 hours ago.Praying for Memphis Well I didn't have a choice of the company or weather they came or not. Transplant said we had to have a home nurse and set it up. If you have a problem or think you can get better answers feel free to contact them yourself. Until then this is all I know.
3 hours ago.
Stephanie Kessler The only problem I have is that Memphis is dealing with yet another setback! I'm just trying to help you think through and maybe trigger something. Sometimes it takes someone from the outside, looking in to talk it out and trigger that one... piece of paper that you remember sticking in that out of the way place or that one conversation where something was said. The people here all have a very vested interest in Memphis and want what's best for him just as much as you do. He has been through way too much to deal with all of this, he needs to be able to rest and be happy.
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Praying for Memphis I agree but the first place they should be looking is this nurse.
2 hours ago.
Stephanie Kessler It's there job to do a thorough investigation and that may mean looking at everyone that's had contact with him, even to rule them out. I'm the daughter of a police officer so I can understand them having to question all parties involved. There could be a simple explanation, another child accidentally falling on him...anything but that won't be known until they investigate. What's going on with the brain bleed? Any info on that yet?
2 hours ago.
Shannon Whitaker the aganecy knows exactly who was there. they keep schedules and stuff also payroll would have records. did home care for 8 yrs. they need to fess up and give u the info and also cooperate with the poilce. this is sooo sad. even if he has brittle bones, that wouldn cause brain bleed unless he was shaken or dropped. someone needs to pay for this...
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Dana Linger I just hope that lil Memphis gets JUSTICE for what happened to him! I pray for him and the people involved in trying to figure out what happened. Good bless you Memphis!
2 hours ago.
Mary Neddo Dunbar Happy to hear he will be coming home so soon! I assume the brain bleed is under control??
about an hour ago.
Karolyn Castro Happy to hear things are under control with our little guy and he will be back home soon...that's great news...keep it strong (easier said than done I know) hang in there I hope they can find this person and made her and the agency pay for what happened....Hugs
49 minutes ago.
Samantha Long I hope that things calm down for you and your family soon. I pray for your family all the time. The constant injustice that you guys have been through is heart breaking. One of my twins has a chronic illness and we spend too much time dealing with medical professionals. I can not even imagine what a toll all this has taken on you mom!!! I'm sorry that this had to happen to anyone, but especially to you who have been through too much!
32 minutes ago.
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Tracy Pruitt Poor memphis and family! Enough is enough...Love and hugs and prayers from The Pruitts in Montevideo Minnesota ♥ ♥
4 hours ago.
Sara Czolba prayers for memphis, and family.
4 hours ago.
Dana Linger Hope all goes well. God bless you all! I wish they knew about the brittle bones earlier. I hope you returns to BIG smiles very soon! He deserves them more than anybody I know!
4 hours ago.
Rose M Maxam-Johnson ok, don't take this the wrong way... but what will they do with the nurse if he has brittle bones? I wish the best, no matter what comes of this. God Bless, I am so sorry all that has to be dealt with, stay strong :)
4 hours ago.
Stephanie Kessler Don't you know the name of the agency that sent a nurse to your home? I mean, I know there's a lot going on and you have a lot on your plate but before I let anyone into my home to care for a medically fragile child I would have a little more info on her than her first name. If he has brittle bones then it wouldn't be negligence on anyone's part. Kids with that disease break just from sitting for long periods of time. What about the brain bleed? That wouldn't be caused by brittle bones. I'm trying to understand what's going on but I'm confused. Poor Memphis! He's dealt with too much in his short life already!4 hours ago · 5 peopleLoading...
Praying for Memphis I know the name of the agency. I was just meaning the hospital, police, or Cps know much of them. I guess they are fairly new. They were told by me to do a background check and drug test before she came in which I just found out was not done. I didn't hire them the hospital did. I called the agency earlier in the week and asked to have her replaced because I felt she was to young and inexperienced. They told me they would work on finding someone else.
3 hours ago.
Praying for Memphis Yea well until we know what is going on and have answers you won't either. All I know is what I have said. The hospital is still trying to figure out what is wrong with him and what happened. Don't know if I will have any real answers for awhile.
3 hours ago.
Jean Gragg This is crazy... Everything youve been through with that hospital! Why the HELL would they send some new company out??? One they obviously know NOTHING about! And when it comes to such a fragile and special little man you would think they would want someone whos been in the business for awhile! God is smiling on Mempis. Hes always on my my mind and in my prayers..
3 hours ago.
Stephanie Kessler It shouldn't matter how new the agency is, there are protocols and laws regarding these situations. You should have been given copies of the background check and drug test BEFORE she was allowed to start. This happened yesterday, all parties involved, parents, siblings, agency, nurses, anyone that's had any contact with Memphis should have been questioned by now. You don't get a brain bleed from brittle bones! Someone hurt this innocent child and that someone needs to pay, dearly!
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Sarah Rhian Simon i hope he recovers quickly. he is such a sweetie. and i hope you get the answers you need. thoughts are with you all.
3 hours ago.Praying for Memphis Well I didn't have a choice of the company or weather they came or not. Transplant said we had to have a home nurse and set it up. If you have a problem or think you can get better answers feel free to contact them yourself. Until then this is all I know.
3 hours ago.
Stephanie Kessler The only problem I have is that Memphis is dealing with yet another setback! I'm just trying to help you think through and maybe trigger something. Sometimes it takes someone from the outside, looking in to talk it out and trigger that one... piece of paper that you remember sticking in that out of the way place or that one conversation where something was said. The people here all have a very vested interest in Memphis and want what's best for him just as much as you do. He has been through way too much to deal with all of this, he needs to be able to rest and be happy.
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Praying for Memphis I agree but the first place they should be looking is this nurse.
2 hours ago.
Stephanie Kessler It's there job to do a thorough investigation and that may mean looking at everyone that's had contact with him, even to rule them out. I'm the daughter of a police officer so I can understand them having to question all parties involved. There could be a simple explanation, another child accidentally falling on him...anything but that won't be known until they investigate. What's going on with the brain bleed? Any info on that yet?
2 hours ago.
Shannon Whitaker the aganecy knows exactly who was there. they keep schedules and stuff also payroll would have records. did home care for 8 yrs. they need to fess up and give u the info and also cooperate with the poilce. this is sooo sad. even if he has brittle bones, that wouldn cause brain bleed unless he was shaken or dropped. someone needs to pay for this...
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Dana Linger I just hope that lil Memphis gets JUSTICE for what happened to him! I pray for him and the people involved in trying to figure out what happened. Good bless you Memphis!
2 hours ago.
Mary Neddo Dunbar Happy to hear he will be coming home so soon! I assume the brain bleed is under control??
about an hour ago.
Karolyn Castro Happy to hear things are under control with our little guy and he will be back home soon...that's great news...keep it strong (easier said than done I know) hang in there I hope they can find this person and made her and the agency pay for what happened....Hugs
49 minutes ago.
Samantha Long I hope that things calm down for you and your family soon. I pray for your family all the time. The constant injustice that you guys have been through is heart breaking. One of my twins has a chronic illness and we spend too much time dealing with medical professionals. I can not even imagine what a toll all this has taken on you mom!!! I'm sorry that this had to happen to anyone, but especially to you who have been through too much!
32 minutes ago.
Memphis Part 2 brain bleed
Praying for Memphis
Cat scan came back that Memphis has a brain bleed on the left side of his head. Bone scan is not back yet. They are also waiting for a neurosurgeon to see if they need to do surgery on his head. May have to move him to Cleveland.
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Vanessa Munsch EaTef Bcc oh Gosh!!!! So he was probably dropped then...this is so terrible. Poor baby.
Yesterday at 12:04pm.
Rose M Maxam-Johnson oh my, speechless, I am so sorry!
Yesterday at 12:06pm.
Angela Stephens Marshall Oh no. Dear Lord, please laying your healing hands on Memphis if its in your will and heal this little sweet baby. He has been through enough suffering. Amen. Do they know what is causing this and the broken bone? Will ask others to pray as well
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Sara Czolba PRAYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Yesterday at 12:07pm.
Trina Merrell-Deniro Oh my hope they don't need to do surgery and it heals on it's own.
Yesterday at 12:08pm.
Louise Sammour No, that is horrible! Are they thinking this is non accidental too or a stroke of some kind? Poor poor Memphis. I hope this nurse is in custody :/
Yesterday at 12:08pm.
Angela Stephens Marshall Thats what I thought too Vanessa but I didnt wanna assume so thats why I asked
Yesterday at 12:10pm.
Raquel Gatmaitan Darca Lucenio oh lord!!please heal memphis with your powerful holy spirit...our prayers is with you...xoxo
Yesterday at 12:10pm.
Praying for Memphis Dr said looks like he was shaken or dropped. They are gonna call in an expert dr on child abuse to try to tell exactly what it is. Nurseing company saying they think the nurse would have said if she dropped him. I talked to her and she said she doesn't know how it happened. I don't care how it happened I just don't want my baby to go through this.
Yesterday at 12:12pm.
Angela Stephens Marshall Oh I am so sorry you are going through this now. I asked for my prayers as my status. After all he has been through. Love and God bless you
Yesterday at 12:15pm.
Raquel Gatmaitan Darca Lucenio miracle miracle please lord!!!!!please please please....our prayers is with you memphis....
Yesterday at 12:16pm.
Tara Rashelle Ferreri makes me sick to my stomach ...Memphis and ur family have been through so much.
Yesterday at 12:16pm.
Michelle Stys That poor baby... Sending lots of extra prayers
Yesterday at 12:20pm.
Holly Martinosky continuing prayers for all
Yesterday at 12:20pm.
Jessica Cabello Lopez How can the nurse "not know" what happened to little Memphis? Brain bleeds and broken legs don't just appear magically! I'm so sad for you, your family and especially Memphis... I'm keeping all of you in my prayers. May you get answers and may he be healed quickly. (AND, that nurse deserves to go to jail if she did something to cause this!)
Yesterday at 12:22pm.
Brandy Mccrimmon-Morrison wow I am praying for u and ur family this is horrible the nurse was suppose to be there to help you not cause all of this extra trouble Praying for Precious Memphis ♥
Yesterday at 12:26pm.
Jaclyn Boyce Sheridan Praying for this sweet baby. He has been through so much. He is a fighter and will also overcome this. Hopefully you find answers on how this happend for the protection of other children.
Yesterday at 12:32pm.
Brittany Berghammer you have got to be effing kidding me...shaken or dropped...liek for fn real.... like I am just in utter disbelief this happened...I am so sorry...I hope its not how it sounds...i just want to so believe the best of people. Poor little man..
Yesterday at 12:38pm.
Dana Linger Please forgive me for asking but I know many are wondering, where you not home when the nurse was with him? I would think he would have screamed in agony for a long time. I am praying for Memphis and am so so sorry this happened to this lil guy who has been through so much in his short life already. I imagine there is going to be a background check on this nurse to find out if any other people in her care has ever been harmed in any way.
Yesterday at 12:47pm.
Ashley Lisk Omg poor Memphis. In my prayers as always! I hope they get to the bottom of what happened. So sorry he has to endure this.
Yesterday at 12:47pm.
Shannon Whitaker OMG poor guy! praying for his safety and recovery! i wanna hurt whoever did this to him..i cant stand ppl who pick on kids animals or old ppl. after all he has been thru! god bless you and memphis!
Yesterday at 12:48pm · 1 personLoading....
Tina Anderson-Taylor praying for your family
Yesterday at 12:53pm.
Brittany Berghammer @Dana... she has other child who she cares for as well not just Memphis. the nurse is maybe there for some support and help? I dont know but dont make it seem like Nicole is leaving her baby with some total stranger and leaving
Yesterday at 12:58pm · 2 peopleLoading....
Jocelyn Eckman Omg how horrible!!! Memphis and family are in my prayers!!!
Yesterday at 1:16pm.
Dana Linger No, I didn't mean that. I was wondering if she went grocery shopping, was taking kids to school or whatever. I was just wondering if the nurse was home alone with Memphis. A nurse is there to take care of him so I don't normally consider th...em a stranger. I wouldn't blame Nicole at all if she had to do errands. Again, I don't think I implied she was leaving her child with a total stranger. If she is a home nurse, she had to be checked out and many people rely on them to be at home while the parent, and in some cases ( in elderly care) the children go do what needs to be done. Where did you get your implication from?Yesterday at 1:17pm.
Jessica Williams-Bajek This could be why his leg was hurting because when you shake a baby not only is their brain effected but also the long ones (arms and legs) can become fractured.
Yesterday at 1:33pm.
Val J. Bicanovsky Will be praying for the little man. He has been through so much.
Yesterday at 1:38pm.
Courtney Twaites You have got to be kidding me.... Your poor family Nicole! And poor little Memphis! I would be hurting that nurse!
Yesterday at 1:49pm.
Roberta Richard MY PRAYERS AEE WITH U LIL MAN YOU ARE SUCH A LIL TROOPER! God will keep you in his hands and guide you through huggs feel better soon.
Yesterday at 1:49pm.
Petra Bornheim Nickerson How horrible! Praying for sweet Memphis !!!!
Yesterday at 2:14pm.
Rachell Ritsko Poor Memphis can't catch a break. Praying for him Nikki. I hope you find out what happened to him. He is too precious to have something like this happen to him. He is a fighter and already beat the odds.
22 hours ago.
Karolyn Castro OMG Poor Memphis...praying hard for him.
22 hours ago.
Lena Hagg Prayers are coming right now to Memphis and to the family to keep u all strong. I love u all.
21 hours ago.
Shely Hanson OMG! I am just sick over this... good lord!
21 hours ago.
Regina Moffett I am steaming mad right now after reading all of this! Poor Memphis, I will be praying for him and for mom and dad too. I hope you all get to the bottom of this soon. Ugh, my heart aches for Memphis.
13 hours ago
Cat scan came back that Memphis has a brain bleed on the left side of his head. Bone scan is not back yet. They are also waiting for a neurosurgeon to see if they need to do surgery on his head. May have to move him to Cleveland.
Yesterday at 12:01pm via iPhone · .
Kelly Hecker likes this..
Vanessa Munsch EaTef Bcc oh Gosh!!!! So he was probably dropped then...this is so terrible. Poor baby.
Yesterday at 12:04pm.
Rose M Maxam-Johnson oh my, speechless, I am so sorry!
Yesterday at 12:06pm.
Angela Stephens Marshall Oh no. Dear Lord, please laying your healing hands on Memphis if its in your will and heal this little sweet baby. He has been through enough suffering. Amen. Do they know what is causing this and the broken bone? Will ask others to pray as well
Yesterday at 12:07pm · 1 personMary Beth Frampton Bajornas likes this..
Sara Czolba PRAYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Yesterday at 12:07pm.
Trina Merrell-Deniro Oh my hope they don't need to do surgery and it heals on it's own.
Yesterday at 12:08pm.
Louise Sammour No, that is horrible! Are they thinking this is non accidental too or a stroke of some kind? Poor poor Memphis. I hope this nurse is in custody :/
Yesterday at 12:08pm.
Angela Stephens Marshall Thats what I thought too Vanessa but I didnt wanna assume so thats why I asked
Yesterday at 12:10pm.
Raquel Gatmaitan Darca Lucenio oh lord!!please heal memphis with your powerful holy spirit...our prayers is with you...xoxo
Yesterday at 12:10pm.
Praying for Memphis Dr said looks like he was shaken or dropped. They are gonna call in an expert dr on child abuse to try to tell exactly what it is. Nurseing company saying they think the nurse would have said if she dropped him. I talked to her and she said she doesn't know how it happened. I don't care how it happened I just don't want my baby to go through this.
Yesterday at 12:12pm.
Angela Stephens Marshall Oh I am so sorry you are going through this now. I asked for my prayers as my status. After all he has been through. Love and God bless you
Yesterday at 12:15pm.
Raquel Gatmaitan Darca Lucenio miracle miracle please lord!!!!!please please please....our prayers is with you memphis....
Yesterday at 12:16pm.
Tara Rashelle Ferreri makes me sick to my stomach ...Memphis and ur family have been through so much.
Yesterday at 12:16pm.
Michelle Stys That poor baby... Sending lots of extra prayers
Yesterday at 12:20pm.
Holly Martinosky continuing prayers for all
Yesterday at 12:20pm.
Jessica Cabello Lopez How can the nurse "not know" what happened to little Memphis? Brain bleeds and broken legs don't just appear magically! I'm so sad for you, your family and especially Memphis... I'm keeping all of you in my prayers. May you get answers and may he be healed quickly. (AND, that nurse deserves to go to jail if she did something to cause this!)
Yesterday at 12:22pm.
Brandy Mccrimmon-Morrison wow I am praying for u and ur family this is horrible the nurse was suppose to be there to help you not cause all of this extra trouble Praying for Precious Memphis ♥
Yesterday at 12:26pm.
Jaclyn Boyce Sheridan Praying for this sweet baby. He has been through so much. He is a fighter and will also overcome this. Hopefully you find answers on how this happend for the protection of other children.
Yesterday at 12:32pm.
Brittany Berghammer you have got to be effing kidding me...shaken or dropped...liek for fn real.... like I am just in utter disbelief this happened...I am so sorry...I hope its not how it sounds...i just want to so believe the best of people. Poor little man..
Yesterday at 12:38pm.
Dana Linger Please forgive me for asking but I know many are wondering, where you not home when the nurse was with him? I would think he would have screamed in agony for a long time. I am praying for Memphis and am so so sorry this happened to this lil guy who has been through so much in his short life already. I imagine there is going to be a background check on this nurse to find out if any other people in her care has ever been harmed in any way.
Yesterday at 12:47pm.
Ashley Lisk Omg poor Memphis. In my prayers as always! I hope they get to the bottom of what happened. So sorry he has to endure this.
Yesterday at 12:47pm.
Shannon Whitaker OMG poor guy! praying for his safety and recovery! i wanna hurt whoever did this to him..i cant stand ppl who pick on kids animals or old ppl. after all he has been thru! god bless you and memphis!
Yesterday at 12:48pm · 1 personLoading....
Tina Anderson-Taylor praying for your family
Yesterday at 12:53pm.
Brittany Berghammer @Dana... she has other child who she cares for as well not just Memphis. the nurse is maybe there for some support and help? I dont know but dont make it seem like Nicole is leaving her baby with some total stranger and leaving
Yesterday at 12:58pm · 2 peopleLoading....
Jocelyn Eckman Omg how horrible!!! Memphis and family are in my prayers!!!
Yesterday at 1:16pm.
Dana Linger No, I didn't mean that. I was wondering if she went grocery shopping, was taking kids to school or whatever. I was just wondering if the nurse was home alone with Memphis. A nurse is there to take care of him so I don't normally consider th...em a stranger. I wouldn't blame Nicole at all if she had to do errands. Again, I don't think I implied she was leaving her child with a total stranger. If she is a home nurse, she had to be checked out and many people rely on them to be at home while the parent, and in some cases ( in elderly care) the children go do what needs to be done. Where did you get your implication from?Yesterday at 1:17pm.
Jessica Williams-Bajek This could be why his leg was hurting because when you shake a baby not only is their brain effected but also the long ones (arms and legs) can become fractured.
Yesterday at 1:33pm.
Val J. Bicanovsky Will be praying for the little man. He has been through so much.
Yesterday at 1:38pm.
Courtney Twaites You have got to be kidding me.... Your poor family Nicole! And poor little Memphis! I would be hurting that nurse!
Yesterday at 1:49pm.
Roberta Richard MY PRAYERS AEE WITH U LIL MAN YOU ARE SUCH A LIL TROOPER! God will keep you in his hands and guide you through huggs feel better soon.
Yesterday at 1:49pm.
Petra Bornheim Nickerson How horrible! Praying for sweet Memphis !!!!
Yesterday at 2:14pm.
Rachell Ritsko Poor Memphis can't catch a break. Praying for him Nikki. I hope you find out what happened to him. He is too precious to have something like this happen to him. He is a fighter and already beat the odds.
22 hours ago.
Karolyn Castro OMG Poor Memphis...praying hard for him.
22 hours ago.
Lena Hagg Prayers are coming right now to Memphis and to the family to keep u all strong. I love u all.
21 hours ago.
Shely Hanson OMG! I am just sick over this... good lord!
21 hours ago.
Regina Moffett I am steaming mad right now after reading all of this! Poor Memphis, I will be praying for him and for mom and dad too. I hope you all get to the bottom of this soon. Ugh, my heart aches for Memphis.
13 hours ago
Memphis Part 1
Not on Triplet Connection but lets follow the Saga of Memphis. This is a real little boy who we only wish all the best for in lift. However, something just doesn't add up with the parents. So much of their story and combativeness and anger with anyone who questions them or suggests they do anything different is just a red flag. I will tell the early story from when I was first alerted to this story because she pulled any post that disagreed with her approach or suggested she handle the situation different. Anything that didn't tell her that her aggressive approach was the way to go "wasn't supportive and we don't have time for non supportive people".
I will ask someone who has followed the story to give a more detailed background. But basically Memphis is one of infant triplets who needed a transplant. Was in the hospital but Mom wanted the hospital to release or transfer AMA. Mom says she went to court and won but the hospital refused to transfer him in violation of court order. (I stopped reading for a while) Now he has been released home and 12 hours after being home the home health nurse has broken his leg,back and caused a brain bleed. But nobody knows the name of the nurse or nursing agency. The police are looking for her.
Praying for Memphis
Can someone tell me how a 9 month old that does not walk or crawl yet and is in a nurses care for 12 hours ends up with a broken leg?
Yesterday at 3:00am via iPhone · .
Diana Williams Casey likes this..
Praying for Memphis Memphis was admitted to Akron children's tonight when I Realized he screamed everytime you moved his leg. Dr thinks he might have been dropped. X-ray shows broken fibia bone. They r doing a bone scan tomorrow to make sure nothing else is broken. Needless to say there is no more home nurse.
Yesterday at 3:05am.
Michelle Stys Yikes... Still praying for the little man that has lots of red flags..
Yesterday at 3:07am.
Janet Stinson This poor little guy just cannot catch a break :(
Yesterday at 3:16am.
Lena Hagg Prayer are still coming his way and for the whole family.
Yesterday at 3:50am.
Erin Marshall Ayscue What in the world?? Sending prayers!
Yesterday at 3:55am.
Mary L Miller im not trying to stick up for the nurse but some kids bones break that easly but id assume you would of known by now if his bones were that fragile
Yesterday at 5:38am.
Kimberly Jo Thorne Has his vitamin D levels been checked? From what I understand rickets has been very prevalent. Check out this site, you would be surprised to know how much its been happening, breastfed and formula fed babies have been getting it. http://www.facebook.com/pages/Rickets-an-Epidemic/153700587976477
Yesterday at 5:53am.
Gail Dunn Shumowsky That is horrible. Poor Memphis. Bones don't just break on their own, and if he had brittle bones, this certainly would not be the first break. Something happened. I'm so sorry for Memphis. Hang in there.
Yesterday at 6:16am.
Christine Czaja Yikes poor Memphis
Yesterday at 6:49am.
Jennifer Buschmann OMG !!! I'd report her *SS and file a lawsuit !!
Yesterday at 7:18am.
Kristen Atwood Happened to em in nicu when they r on supplements for feedings the nutrition isn't as good as formula or breast milk and bones can be brittle hers happened at three months its ok I know it sucks but it happens one more hurdle love u Memphis
Yesterday at 7:19am.
Kristen Atwood Oh and it was the same bone in em and two babies by her same bone don't know why strongest bone supposedly
Yesterday at 7:21am.Janice Demnyan prayers continue..........God has a plan in all of this don't lose heart!
Yesterday at 7:31am.
Amanda Beeler ?????????
Yesterday at 7:40am.
Louise Sammour WTF!!! unbelievable. Poor wee man. :(
Yesterday at 7:44am.
Karolyn Castro Praying hard....
Yesterday at 7:46am.
Diana Williams Casey Oh my God! Poor Memphis!!! What happened? He is the strongest, bravest little man!!! Heal well, buddy!
Yesterday at 7:47am.
Elizabeth Hicks ? OMG impossible!
Yesterday at 7:58am.
Vanessa Munsch EaTef Bcc poor baby...that is horrible, I certainly hope it is not from the nurses, even if they dropped him, how do you break a leg...poor boy. is he in a crib, maybe his lef got stuck a broke it by wiggling...Also, i kow he has been on lots of meds, mabe one of them has an effect on bone...It just seems so horrible, Im sorry he has to go through this on top of it all...not fair at all
Yesterday at 8:00am.
Lauren Paulsen Wowsa. Poor widdle man. Give him a squeeze from me.
Yesterday at 8:43am.
Rachell Ritsko Sorry to hear that Nikki. Hope he gets better soon.
Yesterday at 9:02am.
Praying for Memphis I don't know what happened. The nurse said he started acting like that after his bath. He isn't confined to bed, he gets a ton of blood work every week to check all theses level, he had bloodwork last night everything was normal. He gets vitimans added bit to his formula plus bit drops and extra iron bit d and vit c. I am sure it's not his diet. I just don't know...
Yesterday at 9:07am.
Jessica Cabello Lopez Poor Memphis! I REALLY hope you get answers. Keeping all of you in my prayers!
Yesterday at 9:12am.
Candie Castro Dat is crazy!!! I would be hittin da roof!!! Is there a investigation started?? Get well soon lil man!!!!
Yesterday at 9:19am.
Jessica Williams-Bajek Have the police questioned the nurse yet
Yesterday at 9:26am.
Dana Linger BAD WORDING JANET! And, if it was because of brittle bones, ribs or other more delicate bones would have been broken before the fibia! This needs to be investigated! Poor baby! Praying for him.
Yesterday at 9:29am.
Trina Merrell-Deniro That is horrible, but could it have something to do with some of his medical issues. Could he be more fragile than most 9 month old? Anyway poor baby I hate to see them hurt and sick hope everything gets better.
Yesterday at 9:40am.
Tara Rashelle Ferreri Poor Little man .... I hope you get some questions answered. How did this happen? If the nurse noticed something why didn't she say ....
Yesterday at 9:52am.
Brittany Berghammer I always want to think the best of people I don't want to think he was dropped but seriously what else could it have been if all his vit. Levels are alright and checked on a regular basis. I cannot believe how much this little guy has gone through in such a short amount of time ....he is going to have quite the story to tell when he is older how he overcame anything that was thrown at him. God has a plan for him and I am starting to thing it is a big plan too!
Yesterday at 9:54am.
Michelle Matyi I know a baby this happened to. The dad had him on his lap and the baby suddenly jumped/rolled and the dad tried to catch him and ended up grabbing his leg and it broke. In a situation like that, it was a total accident, and accidents can h...appen. But you would think that a trained nurse would realize something was wrong and let you know to get that baby some help. Sorry to hear he is going through this. And I would definitely report the situation to the nurses supervisors and whatever authorities need to be involved. Having an accident is very different than trying to cover it up by not mentioning it.See More
Yesterday at 9:58am.
Rose M Maxam-Johnson I am so sorry that this is another obstacle you have to go through :( prayers for a healthy recovery...
Yesterday at 10:15am.
Wanda Carroll Boyce Pray for him. Akron hospital is wonderful.
Yesterday at 10:30am.
Mandi Mead :( Hope he heals quickly!!! (((HUGS))) for you and Memphis!
Yesterday at 10:56am.
Amy Thomas if for some reason he has lost too much calcium, it can happen very easily.
Yesterday at 11:24am.
Sharon Warrick That is awful news....am so very sorry to hear it! I would be highly suspicious of the care that was given by that nurse! Not all nurses are good nurses, I am a nurse and have run into quite a few nurses who I would not trust! The bone scan should tell a pretty good story!! Glad you have him at Akron Children's, we had very good experiences there with my grandson when he had to go through chemo...I wish you much luck and hope that little guy heals quickly...please keep us posted! Huggsss to all of you!!
Yesterday at 11:37am.
Jean Gragg sending prayers!
Yesterday at 11:48am.
Jennifer Flynn OMG. Ashlyn's physical therapist broke Ashylyn's femur during a session at home. The therapist was being way too rough on Ashlyn and it happened in a split second. The good thing (i guess) is children bones heal very quickly and easily. Praying for you and Memphis. Im stressed out enough by the whole situation, it must be a million times worse for you after the last year.
Yesterday at 12:48pm.
Dana Linger Michelle, was that story you were telling of of a 9 month old. Even though he has been through what he has been, at his age, I wouldn't think that it would break that easily. And, as we are learning, he has a brain bleed so it seems more to... the story. The nurse, even if his bones are delicate (which, as I stated earlier, other bones would have broken sooner) he would have cried tremendously, so that nurse would have known if there was an accidental break. Hiding it seems to me that it was an intentional act (at least the hiding part). This makes me sick! THIS BABY HAS BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH!!!!!!Yesterday at 1:01pm.
Rick-Amanda Minor O My Goodness poor baby I hope and pray that everything is ok this poor little guy has been throu so much now this it is just such a shame Everyone thinks they can protect their kids from bad things and bad people but some times bad people and be in good people clothes I am so sorry for what ever happened I hope you little boy is ok God has been with him all this long road of his little life may he help him threw this also Your Family is in our Prayers!!!
Yesterday at 1:08pm.Joseph Kaluza OMG. I would really look into that. Don't take no excuses, take legal action. I hope everything works out for you.
Yesterday at 2:10pm.
Michelle Matyi Dana, yes, the baby was about ten months. And I agree with you. Those parents knew immediately something was wrong, and this nurse should have too. However it happened, it should not have been ignored. And now with the new results, this is just totally unbelievable. This baby has gone through enough and should not have to worry about anything else.
Yesterday at 2:25pm · 1 person
Jessica Daff Yeah I be looking into that!!!
16 hours ago..
I will ask someone who has followed the story to give a more detailed background. But basically Memphis is one of infant triplets who needed a transplant. Was in the hospital but Mom wanted the hospital to release or transfer AMA. Mom says she went to court and won but the hospital refused to transfer him in violation of court order. (I stopped reading for a while) Now he has been released home and 12 hours after being home the home health nurse has broken his leg,back and caused a brain bleed. But nobody knows the name of the nurse or nursing agency. The police are looking for her.
Praying for Memphis
Can someone tell me how a 9 month old that does not walk or crawl yet and is in a nurses care for 12 hours ends up with a broken leg?
Yesterday at 3:00am via iPhone · .
Diana Williams Casey likes this..
Praying for Memphis Memphis was admitted to Akron children's tonight when I Realized he screamed everytime you moved his leg. Dr thinks he might have been dropped. X-ray shows broken fibia bone. They r doing a bone scan tomorrow to make sure nothing else is broken. Needless to say there is no more home nurse.
Yesterday at 3:05am.
Michelle Stys Yikes... Still praying for the little man that has lots of red flags..
Yesterday at 3:07am.
Janet Stinson This poor little guy just cannot catch a break :(
Yesterday at 3:16am.
Lena Hagg Prayer are still coming his way and for the whole family.
Yesterday at 3:50am.
Erin Marshall Ayscue What in the world?? Sending prayers!
Yesterday at 3:55am.
Mary L Miller im not trying to stick up for the nurse but some kids bones break that easly but id assume you would of known by now if his bones were that fragile
Yesterday at 5:38am.
Kimberly Jo Thorne Has his vitamin D levels been checked? From what I understand rickets has been very prevalent. Check out this site, you would be surprised to know how much its been happening, breastfed and formula fed babies have been getting it. http://www.facebook.com/pages/Rickets-an-Epidemic/153700587976477
Yesterday at 5:53am.
Gail Dunn Shumowsky That is horrible. Poor Memphis. Bones don't just break on their own, and if he had brittle bones, this certainly would not be the first break. Something happened. I'm so sorry for Memphis. Hang in there.
Yesterday at 6:16am.
Christine Czaja Yikes poor Memphis
Yesterday at 6:49am.
Jennifer Buschmann OMG !!! I'd report her *SS and file a lawsuit !!
Yesterday at 7:18am.
Kristen Atwood Happened to em in nicu when they r on supplements for feedings the nutrition isn't as good as formula or breast milk and bones can be brittle hers happened at three months its ok I know it sucks but it happens one more hurdle love u Memphis
Yesterday at 7:19am.
Kristen Atwood Oh and it was the same bone in em and two babies by her same bone don't know why strongest bone supposedly
Yesterday at 7:21am.Janice Demnyan prayers continue..........God has a plan in all of this don't lose heart!
Yesterday at 7:31am.
Amanda Beeler ?????????
Yesterday at 7:40am.
Louise Sammour WTF!!! unbelievable. Poor wee man. :(
Yesterday at 7:44am.
Karolyn Castro Praying hard....
Yesterday at 7:46am.
Diana Williams Casey Oh my God! Poor Memphis!!! What happened? He is the strongest, bravest little man!!! Heal well, buddy!
Yesterday at 7:47am.
Elizabeth Hicks ? OMG impossible!
Yesterday at 7:58am.
Vanessa Munsch EaTef Bcc poor baby...that is horrible, I certainly hope it is not from the nurses, even if they dropped him, how do you break a leg...poor boy. is he in a crib, maybe his lef got stuck a broke it by wiggling...Also, i kow he has been on lots of meds, mabe one of them has an effect on bone...It just seems so horrible, Im sorry he has to go through this on top of it all...not fair at all
Yesterday at 8:00am.
Lauren Paulsen Wowsa. Poor widdle man. Give him a squeeze from me.
Yesterday at 8:43am.
Rachell Ritsko Sorry to hear that Nikki. Hope he gets better soon.
Yesterday at 9:02am.
Praying for Memphis I don't know what happened. The nurse said he started acting like that after his bath. He isn't confined to bed, he gets a ton of blood work every week to check all theses level, he had bloodwork last night everything was normal. He gets vitimans added bit to his formula plus bit drops and extra iron bit d and vit c. I am sure it's not his diet. I just don't know...
Yesterday at 9:07am.
Jessica Cabello Lopez Poor Memphis! I REALLY hope you get answers. Keeping all of you in my prayers!
Yesterday at 9:12am.
Candie Castro Dat is crazy!!! I would be hittin da roof!!! Is there a investigation started?? Get well soon lil man!!!!
Yesterday at 9:19am.
Jessica Williams-Bajek Have the police questioned the nurse yet
Yesterday at 9:26am.
Dana Linger BAD WORDING JANET! And, if it was because of brittle bones, ribs or other more delicate bones would have been broken before the fibia! This needs to be investigated! Poor baby! Praying for him.
Yesterday at 9:29am.
Trina Merrell-Deniro That is horrible, but could it have something to do with some of his medical issues. Could he be more fragile than most 9 month old? Anyway poor baby I hate to see them hurt and sick hope everything gets better.
Yesterday at 9:40am.
Tara Rashelle Ferreri Poor Little man .... I hope you get some questions answered. How did this happen? If the nurse noticed something why didn't she say ....
Yesterday at 9:52am.
Brittany Berghammer I always want to think the best of people I don't want to think he was dropped but seriously what else could it have been if all his vit. Levels are alright and checked on a regular basis. I cannot believe how much this little guy has gone through in such a short amount of time ....he is going to have quite the story to tell when he is older how he overcame anything that was thrown at him. God has a plan for him and I am starting to thing it is a big plan too!
Yesterday at 9:54am.
Michelle Matyi I know a baby this happened to. The dad had him on his lap and the baby suddenly jumped/rolled and the dad tried to catch him and ended up grabbing his leg and it broke. In a situation like that, it was a total accident, and accidents can h...appen. But you would think that a trained nurse would realize something was wrong and let you know to get that baby some help. Sorry to hear he is going through this. And I would definitely report the situation to the nurses supervisors and whatever authorities need to be involved. Having an accident is very different than trying to cover it up by not mentioning it.See More
Yesterday at 9:58am.
Rose M Maxam-Johnson I am so sorry that this is another obstacle you have to go through :( prayers for a healthy recovery...
Yesterday at 10:15am.
Wanda Carroll Boyce Pray for him. Akron hospital is wonderful.
Yesterday at 10:30am.
Mandi Mead :( Hope he heals quickly!!! (((HUGS))) for you and Memphis!
Yesterday at 10:56am.
Amy Thomas if for some reason he has lost too much calcium, it can happen very easily.
Yesterday at 11:24am.
Sharon Warrick That is awful news....am so very sorry to hear it! I would be highly suspicious of the care that was given by that nurse! Not all nurses are good nurses, I am a nurse and have run into quite a few nurses who I would not trust! The bone scan should tell a pretty good story!! Glad you have him at Akron Children's, we had very good experiences there with my grandson when he had to go through chemo...I wish you much luck and hope that little guy heals quickly...please keep us posted! Huggsss to all of you!!
Yesterday at 11:37am.
Jean Gragg sending prayers!
Yesterday at 11:48am.
Jennifer Flynn OMG. Ashlyn's physical therapist broke Ashylyn's femur during a session at home. The therapist was being way too rough on Ashlyn and it happened in a split second. The good thing (i guess) is children bones heal very quickly and easily. Praying for you and Memphis. Im stressed out enough by the whole situation, it must be a million times worse for you after the last year.
Yesterday at 12:48pm.
Dana Linger Michelle, was that story you were telling of of a 9 month old. Even though he has been through what he has been, at his age, I wouldn't think that it would break that easily. And, as we are learning, he has a brain bleed so it seems more to... the story. The nurse, even if his bones are delicate (which, as I stated earlier, other bones would have broken sooner) he would have cried tremendously, so that nurse would have known if there was an accidental break. Hiding it seems to me that it was an intentional act (at least the hiding part). This makes me sick! THIS BABY HAS BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH!!!!!!Yesterday at 1:01pm.
Rick-Amanda Minor O My Goodness poor baby I hope and pray that everything is ok this poor little guy has been throu so much now this it is just such a shame Everyone thinks they can protect their kids from bad things and bad people but some times bad people and be in good people clothes I am so sorry for what ever happened I hope you little boy is ok God has been with him all this long road of his little life may he help him threw this also Your Family is in our Prayers!!!
Yesterday at 1:08pm.Joseph Kaluza OMG. I would really look into that. Don't take no excuses, take legal action. I hope everything works out for you.
Yesterday at 2:10pm.
Michelle Matyi Dana, yes, the baby was about ten months. And I agree with you. Those parents knew immediately something was wrong, and this nurse should have too. However it happened, it should not have been ignored. And now with the new results, this is just totally unbelievable. This baby has gone through enough and should not have to worry about anything else.
Yesterday at 2:25pm · 1 person
Jessica Daff Yeah I be looking into that!!!
16 hours ago..
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