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lovemy5boys
Sun Apr-22-07 11:45 PM
Member since Nov 26th 2006
265 posts
#273897, "OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
Sun Apr-22-07 11:46 PM by lovemy5boys
Dh is out of town. He left this morning at 6am and wont be back until 11pm Wed night. I told my mom to PLEASE not let me be alone from 5pm to 7pm. That's all I asked for. She said she had a bunch of stuff to do but she would come over during the day today if I needed her. I knew I would really need her this evening so I say to go do what she has to do but please be here at 5. What time do you think she showed up??? 7 frickin o'clock! I was changing one of the babies who had just puked what seemed like every ounce of squash I had just given him and I'm standing there with tears running down my face listening to 1 other baby cry and my big boys run around the house fighting. My mom walks in and says, don't cry it will pass. Um ya, it will. While you're not here!!! How am I going to make it to Wed!?! I'm kind of panicing here, can you tell During the day I'll be fine because I have help but only until 3 or 4. My mom and MIL have promised to be here in the evening but I KNOW my mom will show up late! Nice life I have!!
proud mom to
DS 5
DS 2
BBB 9/29/06
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RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, Mamakitten3, Apr 23rd 2007, #1
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, lovemy5boys, Apr 23rd 2007, #2
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, NCtripmom, Apr 23rd 2007, #3
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, DebM, Apr 23rd 2007, #4
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, Tasha, Apr 23rd 2007, #5
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, klong, Apr 23rd 2007, #6
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, MSTAR, Apr 23rd 2007, #7
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, lovemy5boys, Apr 24th 2007, #8
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, Mamakitten3, Apr 24th 2007, #9
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, MSTAR, Apr 24th 2007, #10
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, Annie3, Apr 24th 2007, #11
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, tripletots98, Apr 24th 2007, #12
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, lovemy5boys, Apr 24th 2007, #13
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, lovemy5boys, Apr 24th 2007, #14
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, Mamakitten3, Apr 24th 2007, #15
RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!, lovemy5boys, Apr 24th 2007, #16
Mamakitten3
Mon Apr-23-07 12:23 AM
Member since May 29th 2006
382 posts
#273901, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
I wish you would have called me.Are you sure you want me to come over in the afternoon? I can come over in the evening. If that works better for you. My kiddos have been really good lately so we can come over when you need me to. I just need the dvd player for baby einstein.
Another idea is to call Katie or anyone from CVMOM. Just send them an email. Maybe that gang of girlscouts is available.....lol
I am here for you when you need me. Just call me. I will call you in the am and check in.
Lauren
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lovemy5boys
Mon Apr-23-07 12:42 AM
Member since Nov 26th 2006
265 posts
#273903, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 1
Thanks! My mom SHOULD HAVE been here so I thought I was going to be fine She makes me so mad sometimes! Although more help in the evening seems like it would be better I think it would add more chaos. Only because the big boys act up and get all crazy showing off if the "helper" isn't someone they're used to. Thanks but it will be nice to have some company on Tues morning!
proud mom to
DS 5
DS 2
BBB 9/29/06
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NCtripmom
Mon Apr-23-07 07:44 AM
Member since Apr 03rd 2007
31 posts
#273922, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
The key is to not panic. If you are in panic mode then your kids will be too. If you are calm and confident in getting through the day then your kids will also be more calm.
My kids behave much better and my days run much more smoothly when I keep my head and don't get too stressed.
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DebM
Mon Apr-23-07 08:10 AM
Member since Mar 31st 2006
591 posts
#273923, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
First of all - deep breath.... you CAN do this. It may be hard, but you'll be surprised what you can do when you have to. Just take each 5 minutes at a time. It's ok if they cry while you're not able to get to them. Try to think ahead ( when you have your help during the day) and get stuff prepared for the evening when you're alone. If there's anything you do at night that you can bump up during the day, go ahead and do it. ( example: baths, baby laundry, getting bedtime clothes out and ready, formula and food made and ready, etc.)
We all get faced with the "witching hours" when we have to manage alone. You can so this! best of luck.
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Tasha
Mon Apr-23-07 08:37 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1270 posts
#273926, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
No real advice just know that I know how scary it feels to be alone 24/7 when you aren't used to it. It is never considered easy but you are capable of more than you think. Usually by the end of the week it seems much less daunting as you have gotten into a new routine. Just in time for DH to come back and upset the apple cart again. LOL But you will have a feel of accomplishment having made it through.
Now that being said I went half insane once when DH had to go out of town for a week right after Abby was born. For some reason the day before his trip I got it in my head that it would be easier to drive 9 hours alone with 3 2 yo and a 4 mo old to Atlanta to see my SIL and her kids than stay home. WTH? So consider your crying a good coping mechanism. At least you haven't left the state yet. LOL
Tasha
Julia, Megan & Alex 7/00 at 30 weeks
Abby 12/02
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klong
Mon Apr-23-07 11:03 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
57 posts
#273947, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
I really can relate to how you feel. When my girls were that age, we called the hours from 5:00 until 7:00 pm the 'witching hours'. The girls were at there worst then. I would just watch the clock and know that all heck was going to break loose soon. I would get myself all worked up, dreading that time of day. I remember laying them on a big blanket in the living room and ALL 4 of us were crying. I just kept saying please don't cry and tried to entertain them!!! It IS hard.
Now I have lived through it and am still alive to talk about, I still remember how stressful it was. Just take it minute by minute, knowing that you can do it. It's ok if a baby cries, it won't hurt them. The only person it hurts is you - and I TOTALLY understand that feeling. Maybe, you can give the older kids little jobs to help them feel important. My girls are 5 now and are chomping at the bit to be helpful. Just a thought to help eliminate the fighting....
You can do it!
Good luck.....
Kelly - single mom to 5 yr old girls
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MSTAR
Mon Apr-23-07 11:55 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
863 posts
#274098, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
I just looked at your blog and saw how absolutely adorable your boys are! Which has nothing to do with your post, but just wanted to say HANG IN THERE, and if it were me I would arrange for paid help during the witching hours if possible. When my babies were your babies age, that's when I hired a mother's helper to come in from 3:30 to 7. Best money I ever spent and I didn't even have the older two. (I was pregnant though and tired as hell.) Anyway, my point is to not depend on a relative if you have the means to get someone there that will be on time and do what you tell them to. You have an extraordinary situation and one person shouldn't have to do it all alone. I found a college girl to help me and she stayed with me for 2 years. Good luck!
Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d
Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005
www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com
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lovemy5boys
Tue Apr-24-07 12:32 AM
Member since Nov 26th 2006
265 posts
#274105, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 7
thanks Michelle and everyone! I told my day time help that she can stay as late as she wants so that helped a little today. Also, my MIL is a big help when she's not driving me crazy! Thanks for all the advice. Everyone was sleeping by 8. I'm trying to let the babies go without that last feeding. We've always fed them at 10ish so they could make it to morning but I'm too tired to wake them right now! Last night was OK. Luke woke up a lot but I didn't feed him until 5:30am. I'm going to bed. I'm beat!
proud mom to
DS 5
DS 2
BBB 9/29/06
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Mamakitten3
Tue Apr-24-07 01:06 AM
Member since May 29th 2006
382 posts
#274110, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 8
You have had a busy day my friend. Get some rest and I will see you at 11 with lunch. Too bad it to early to have a cocktail but you have to draw the line at least before noon!
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MSTAR
Tue Apr-24-07 08:56 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
863 posts
#274129, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 8
I would definitely drop that last feed at their age. When he wakes up at 5:30, I would give him maybe a little courtesy feed to take him to your normal wakeup time. As in just 3 oz or so and put him back down or I'd bring the one that wakes up in to bed for a cuddle and they'd fall back asleep. I always had 7am as a wake up time, so that's how I would stretch them out. Soon, he'll ditch the courtesy bottle and you'll have him sleeping all night. Glad to see you have regular help. I really think having help is so important. My kids were always lavished with all the extra love and attention from my helper and it pays off more than any amount of money that I ever invested. My MIL always came over 3 times a week in addition to my paid help, plus I had neighbors helping and my DH was at home too! All those people do drive you nuts, but think of the kids! It's about the kids getting attention, not about ignoring their needs to prove how much we can handle. I'm a control freak and it took a lot to accept so much help but I don't regret it in the least. It takes a village to raise a child. Only in modern history would one woman been required to take care for so many children by herself. In the past, we lived in multi-generational families and in villages where everyone helped raise the children. No one used to do it all alone! Good for you getting people in there. I'm working on my girlfriend who just had her second set of twins in 2 years. I'm trying to convince her not to go it alone. Okay sorry this got so long. So now you only have one more day and your DH will be home!
Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d
Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005
www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com
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Annie3
Tue Apr-24-07 03:30 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
595 posts
#274211, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
Oh, I so now how you feel. My DH was gone all the time when the babies were first born and I was oFTen on my own then not. Then today he has to go out of town for the first time in months and I am Flippen The heck out. You are lucky your Mom showed up, I don't even have that relief or anything. I would be grateful for a late show then no relief. Oh, I see you have help until 3 or 4 so you should be able to handle the witching hour pretty well. Maybe your Mom will suprise you and show up early. Hope you make it until Wednesday sounds like your a little stressed. Wish I could be one of the many to help.
Annie
Born 6/19/05 @ 32 Weeks
Kylie Mae 2lbs 13oz
Ashby Ray 3lbs 5oz
Eadan Sean 3lbs 2oz
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tripletots98
Tue Apr-24-07 04:03 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1236 posts
#274225, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
Well, Tuesday is almost over, so one more day to manage without DH! Hopefully, your mom, mil, nanny/housekeeper have been helping you out. FIVE small kids must be an awful lot of work & stress for just you! Luckily, it is just a temporary situation & you are not a single mom or your DH isn't deployed for months/years at a time serving our country or heaven forbid be a widow! Sometimes, when we look left or right, we will always find someone in a more desperate situation than ours.
This is one of those times when you have to take your inventory & count your blessings that this is just a temporary situation. If you continue to feel 'stressed' when/if your DH travels, you may want to talk to your doc about meds to help you cope. Valium, Xanax or something to take the edge off.
GL!
Amy~
Paige, Austin & Hailee - 8yrs
10/29/98 34w1d
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lovemy5boys
Tue Apr-24-07 04:35 PM
Member since Nov 26th 2006
265 posts
#274230, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 12
Hey Amy~BITE ME! What's the matter? You weren't getting enough attention at TDC and had to bring it over here Poor thing! I feel sorry for you!
Have a great day everyone
proud mom to
DS 5
DS 2
BBB 9/29/06
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lovemy5boys
Tue Apr-24-07 04:37 PM
Member since Nov 26th 2006
265 posts
#274233, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 13
To everyone else, thank you for responding. Sorry that you're about to see the gals from TDC rear their ugly heads! They're at it again.
proud mom to
DS 5
DS 2
BBB 9/29/06
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Mamakitten3
Tue Apr-24-07 04:43 PM
Member since May 29th 2006
382 posts
#274234, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 12
Amy,
You just had to bring over here didnt you. SERIOUSLY what is the matter with you gals? I absolutly dont believe that in real life you all are really like this. You would never say the things to ppl in real life that you say online. You all are such fakers! No one that has true grit and balls needs to yell it from the heavens. So in your online world you are cool if you treat ppl badly, curse and act vulgar, thats soooo lame!
I dont get it but I dont need to get it. You chicks are just to cool for school for me!
Good luck with that! I am sure pretending to be a badass will get you far in life!!!!!
SUNSHINE AND ROSES
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lovemy5boys
Tue Apr-24-07 04:47 PM
Member since Nov 26th 2006
265 posts
#274235, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 15
1 more thing~I'm sure all of you at TDC that were so concerned with my life yesterday would want to know that mamakitten and I had a perfect playdate with perfect kids and we all looked perfect!
Just FYI
proud mom to
DS 5
DS 2
BBB 9/29/06
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Annie3
Tue Apr-24-07 05:09 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
597 posts
#274242, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 17
I'm sorry but what does this have to do with your DH being out of town? Are you two ganging up on this person because of TCD or something. I don't understand, really. If this is true then why bring it here? Your postings sound silly and Highschoolish and now I wish I wasn't involved but it seems just as things settle down here someone brings it up and then all the Drama starts again. Why attack her on this board if you want to go and do it on the TCD board or whatever that is...F*** T***
Born 6/19/05 @ 32 Weeks
Kylie Mae 2lbs 13oz
Ashby Ray 3lbs 5oz
Eadan Sean 3lbs 2oz
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lovemy5boys
Tue Apr-24-07 05:26 PM
Member since Nov 26th 2006
268 posts
#274253, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 18
Exactly my point Annie!
proud mom to
DS 5
DS 2
BBB 9/29/06
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Mamakitten3
Tue Apr-24-07 05:55 PM
Member since May 29th 2006
385 posts
#274255, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 21
Tue Apr-24-07 05:56 PM by Mamakitten3
If TDC is what you say it is, then why hide behind differnt IDs. You want to be a "snarky" badass over there but a sweet, kind and helpful HOM mom over here. I dont believe that any of you would talk to or treat another HOM mom or let alone anyone in real life the way you do on your site. We are all so much tougher hiding behind a keyboard.
If it was just a spoof forum and you all were just joking around and being playful, YOU WOULDNT HAVE TO HIDE!!!!!!
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NCtripmom
Tue Apr-24-07 06:02 PM
Member since Apr 03rd 2007
38 posts
#274256, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 22
I have a question - if TDC is so horrid why do people keep bringing it back up and why was lovemy5 hanging out over there under a different name for the past month?
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DebM
Tue Apr-24-07 06:27 PM
Member since Mar 31st 2006
595 posts
#274262, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 23
As long as TDC makes fun of TC, it will be an ongoing battle. We keep bringing it back up because we lurk over there to find out what TC posts AND the TC members you all are making fun of.
We know who most of you are on TDC regardless of the different ID you have. (Yes, we have a list.)So we know who is sincere over here on TC and who is two-faced.
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NCtripmom
Tue Apr-24-07 06:33 PM
Member since Apr 03rd 2007
38 posts
#274264, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 24
My posts here are sincere.
I don't post here unless I feel I have something to offer.
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tripletots98
Tue Apr-24-07 06:41 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1242 posts
#274265, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 23
>I have a question - if TDC is so horrid why do people keep
>bringing it back up and why was lovemy5 hanging out over there
>under a different name for the past month?
Wait, what? Lovemy5 is "mytripscanbeatupyourtrips" on TDC!?!?! Shocking!
Amy~
Paige, Austin & Hailee - 8yrs
10/29/98 34w1d
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kylamel
Tue Apr-24-07 06:49 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1522 posts
#274271, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 26
NO WAY!!!
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lovemy5boys
Tue Apr-24-07 07:02 PM
Member since Nov 26th 2006
268 posts
#274274, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 27
OOOOHHHHHH! Got me Please! Nice try!
proud mom to
DS 5
DS 2
BBB 9/29/06
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Tasha
Tue Apr-24-07 10:02 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1271 posts
#274357, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 28
I don't think that is the point is to out you as a TDC member, or wannabe. Like that is a big deal. The point is if you want to play over there and joke, make fun and call out others then you can't come and cry foul when others call you out. I read the whole thread over at TDC and while harsh they are just speaking how they feel. For someone that doesn't have any help, does it alone day in day out, doesn't have a house keeper and struggles to keep up with 3,4 or 5 kids it does sound like you are whining. I tried to be nice and give you a little confidence in yourself but I guess my advice doesn't matter since I only had 4 in 2 years and you could do that with your eyes closed.
People have bad days and vent all the time, even the TDC members I am sure. I think it was comments like "Nice life I have", like your life is so horrible because your help was late that got to people. Then your comments later that your life is SO much worse than most anyone on TC because you have 2 older kids not just 1 (which is so much harder). It is attitudes like that that are hard to be supportive of. I would never look at a twin mom in my club and even think, "Oh 2 is so much different than 4 under 2. I could do 2 with my eyes closed." But then again I don't feel the need to put myself on a pedestal because I had more kids. I also realize that there ARE some with 2 or 3 out there that DO have it hard than I do with my 4. I would look pretty silly on my high horse next to them. Anyway with that attitude don't expect me to prop your butt back up on that horse next time you tip over.
Tasha
Julia, Megan & Alex 7/00 at 30 weeks
Abby 12/02
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Luvmy3
Tue Apr-24-07 10:08 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1283 posts
#274358, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 44
Well said Tasha!
Terri~
12/21/01 at 33 weeks
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Triplethefun04
Tue Apr-24-07 10:13 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
120 posts
#274359, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 44
>I don't think that is the point is to out you as a TDC
>member, or wannabe. Like that is a big deal. The point is if
>you want to play over there and joke, make fun and call out
>others then you can't come and cry foul when others call you
>out. I read the whole thread over at TDC and while harsh they
>are just speaking how they feel. For someone that doesn't
>have any help, does it alone day in day out, doesn't have a
>house keeper and struggles to keep up with 3,4 or 5 kids it
>does sound like you are whining. I tried to be nice and give
>you a little confidence in yourself but I guess my advice
>doesn't matter since I only had 4 in 2 years and you could do
>that with your eyes closed.
>
>People have bad days and vent all the time, even the TDC
>members I am sure. I think it was comments like "Nice life I
>have", like your life is so horrible because your help was
>late that got to people. Then your comments later that your
>life is SO much worse than most anyone on TC because you have
>2 older kids not just 1 (which is so much harder). It is
>attitudes like that that are hard to be supportive of. I
>would never look at a twin mom in my club and even think, "Oh
>2 is so much different than 4 under 2. I could do 2 with my
>eyes closed." But then again I don't feel the need to put
>myself on a pedestal because I had more kids. I also realize
>that there ARE some with 2 or 3 out there that DO have it hard
>than I do with my 4. I would look pretty silly on my high
>horse next to them. Anyway with that attitude don't expect me
>to prop your butt back up on that horse next time you tip
>over.
>
Michelle
(formerly known as bsebllmom9 )
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Triplethefun04
Tue Apr-24-07 07:13 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
120 posts
#274278, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
I think you are just a little peeved since you can't get in and see the real side of TDC. Just like the ones that keep bringing that place up. Get over it and move on!! You aren't getting in and no matter how you try, we will figure out that you aren't good enough for that site and turn you away.
You have a list?? How mature is that? How often do you check TDC to see if we're talking about you?? The place is real, the place is supportive and the side you see is just a place to make #### up and have fun. Just because you see that side of us, doesn't mean diddly about who we are. Until you know any one of those members in real life, you have nothing to say about any of us! You would be quite surprised who exactly is over there and posting, I'm sure it is people you already know!
Just move on and get over yourselves and let it go.
Oh and 5boys, why haven't you responded to us at TDC?? Got nothing to say? Maybe you're too busy organizing your 22 hour help?
Michelle
(formerly known as bsebllmom9 )
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lovemy5boys
Tue Apr-24-07 07:35 PM
Member since Nov 26th 2006
268 posts
#274282, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 29
Michele, you sure are a classy lady.
proud mom to
DS 5
DS 2
BBB 9/29/06
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jonib
Tue Apr-24-07 08:40 PM
Member since Oct 11th 2005
430 posts
#274320, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 30
>Michele, you sure are a classy lady.
Actually, Michele is a very classy lady.
please knock off the insult attempts...
keep it off the board at least or keep it on your board...
you are being ridiculous!
Jonib
16 month old cuties, Abby, Andy and Caroline
Rhett 9
no, I can't get the lily pie to work
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tripletots98
Tue Apr-24-07 08:43 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1242 posts
#274321, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 38
I agree jonib! Michele is Head of the Classy Chicks! There is always someone envious of a Classy Chick!
Amy~
Paige, Austin & Hailee - 8yrs
10/29/98 34w1d
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DebM
Tue Apr-24-07 07:42 PM
Member since Mar 31st 2006
595 posts
#274284, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 29
"The place is real, the place is supportive and the side you see is just a place to make #### up and have fun. Just because you see that side of us, doesn't mean diddly about who we are. Until you know any one of those members in real life, you have nothing to say about any of us!
Oh really Michele? I think all your posts about people on TC tells us EXACTLY who you really are.
Here's a sample of who you really are.
Triple This – Triplethefun04
RE: Regarding Lilypie Tickers
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How many days since our last TC/TDC knock down - drag out!
How many days until our next TC/TDC knock down - drag out!
RE: Ever feel guilty?
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Ya I'm itching to go over there and say it myself...but WWIV is not on my agenda just yet...
RE: Perfect Mom Networking!!!
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O-K! Let's go talk some **** and plot our next move to take over TC!!!
Kettle calling
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Will you welcome me to your club?
"I have 3 pre-teens who are within a year of each other and can see that I have issues with them that are identical to those of triplets. I also have 2 other 'close age' groups within 10 months of each other, AND twins to actually compare them with personally. So maybe it bugs me more because I can see the LACK of differences so clearly. There ARE some differences... but they are actually very few when you are looking at age spans of less than 10 months."
I know exactly what it's like to have triplets, so I belong here...don't shun me please!!!
RE: TC Veterans
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It's a compliment and I'm flattered, they want to be just like us, but they can't come up with anything but dorky comments and comebacks! Gooooo them!!
WOW aren't they cool
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Yep I'm talking to you brightest lightbulbs over there. Trying to bury the drama by bringing up the old threads...hmmmm I wonder how you figured that one out? Maybe by learning that here??? hmmmmm, too bright for us...I bow down to you, so you can kiss my ass better!
RE: So I'm lurking around the vets board...
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Their wit bores me and reveals their true dorkness
RE: Oh my God! Am I going to freaking DIE!?!?!?!?!?!?
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Boo-frickity-hoo! Take charge of your children and your life. Ditch the "help" and be a mom!! If I was dh, I'd leave town for a few days too! If I was your mom, I'd show up late or just say I can't make it, force my dd to take care of her own damn kids!!!
Luke- 4lb,12oz
Wade - 3lb,4oz
Zoe - 5lb,2oz
Born at 34 weeks
http://sunshineandroses.myfastforum.org
http://www.totsites.com/tot/ourtrio
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ZwickJB
Tue Apr-24-07 08:05 PM
Member since Sep 21st 2006
189 posts
#274292, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 31
Hey Deb I vividly remember you sending me nasty PMs about how you do not get involved in the drama..hmmmm
People do not fail...they just give up!
~unknown~
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DebM
Tue Apr-24-07 08:16 PM
Member since Mar 31st 2006
595 posts
#274301, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 33
I've never sent you a nasty PM.
I did post(on here) and say I try to stay out of the drama...but that was before I had about all I could take of this.
Why don't you share my "nasty PM". You can't because there never was one.
Luke- 4lb,12oz
Wade - 3lb,4oz
Zoe - 5lb,2oz
Born at 34 weeks
http://sunshineandroses.myfastforum.org
http://www.totsites.com/tot/ourtrio
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ZwickJB
Tue Apr-24-07 08:48 PM
Member since Sep 21st 2006
189 posts
#274325, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 35
Whatever..post or PM...its all the same in my book..the point is you add more fuel to the fire than most ladies I read on here..
People do not fail...they just give up!
~unknown~
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jonib
Tue Apr-24-07 08:17 PM
Member since Oct 11th 2005
430 posts
#274302, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 31
DebM...are you kidding me? you seem obsessive. just stop with all the tdc/tc crap puleezzz???? Why let it bother you if you don't care??? Why take the posts and copy and lurk??? If you know who the members are simply DO NOT RESPOND TO THEIR POSTS ON TC! simple...why must you go on and on like a broken record? You've made a new website, if people want to go their they will...stop making it a contest and inserting it into every single post on TC...I just responded to a post earlier before reading all this crap asking why TDC was even mentioned...
so just STOP IT! Please!
Jonib
16 month old cuties, Abby, Andy and Caroline
Rhett 9
no, I can't get the lily pie to work
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tripletots98
Tue Apr-24-07 08:35 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1242 posts
#274315, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 36
>DebM...are you kidding me? you seem obsessive. just stop with
>all the tdc/tc crap puleezzz???? Why let it bother you if you
>don't care??? Why take the posts and copy and lurk??? If you
>know who the members are simply DO NOT RESPOND TO THEIR POSTS
>ON TC! simple...why must you go on and on like a broken
>record? You've made a new website, if people want to go their
>they will...stop making it a contest and inserting it into
>every single post on TC...I just responded to a post earlier
>before reading all this crap asking why TDC was even
>mentioned...
>
>so just STOP IT! Please!
>
>
Darn it! Since you said Please JoniB, I will refrain from posting the TDC comments of Lovemy5/mytripscanbeatupyourtrips. Maybe I'll send the copy to the Sunshine & Roses board...get their take on it?
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tripplefun
Tue Apr-24-07 09:20 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
868 posts
#274334, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 37
What? DebM has made a new website trying to copy TC? Hmmm..
She needs to take a good hard long look in the mirror perhaps..
I gotta say, we have alot of hipocryts on this board now dont we.
DebM, spend some time with your kids, clean your house, find a new hobby perhaps, but stop being so nosey, stop trying to be the person you are NOT and never will be.
Whats the website to her new wannabe site? I gotta see this sh*t!
When are you ever going to stop being a troublemaker DebM?
Sandy, mom to
Matt just turned 18, It cant be, my baby cannot be 18 already!
We just had a birthday
Sydney 7
Morgan 7
Cade 7
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tripletots98
Tue Apr-24-07 09:23 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1242 posts
#274337, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 41
http://sunshineandroses.myfastforum.org
Amy~
Paige, Austin & Hailee - 8yrs
10/29/98 34w1d
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Triplethefun04
Tue Apr-24-07 09:57 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
120 posts
#274355, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 31
DebM~And your point to this would be??? Get a life! Go back to your sunshiny board that no one wants to be please! So I can copy and paste just like you, big deal. So I can say what I want just like you, bigger freaking deal...I'm sure half the people the least bit interested in where you got your "material" has already read that, so yawn...
Michelle
(formerly known as bsebllmom9 )
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4kds4me
Tue Apr-24-07 08:02 PM
Member since Mar 29th 2007
16 posts
#274289, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
I feel your pain sweetie! Dh left for a week when the triplets were 2yo and my oldest dd was 5yo.I thought I was going to lose my mind! I cannot imagine 5 under 5yo by myself.
It is also very frustrating when you really do count on someone to help you out and they back out.
Hang in there and here's to hoping that Weds night will come quickly and things will run smoothly.
Gina
12yo G
9yo BGG
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cdemp
Tue Apr-24-07 08:06 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1115 posts
#274296, "RE: OMG! Am I going to freaking survive!?!?!?!?!?!"
In response to Reply # 0
My dh just went out-of-town today, and I locked myself out of the house - lol!! What a day, I had to pick up my girls from piano class, CCD, and to top it off had to climb through the kitchen window to get my keys! Hang in there. It can be tough when they're so little. BTW, I had 5 under 5 at - I survived, so will you. -- Gloria
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