Wed Jun-18-08 01:13 AM
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#356127, "peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
Wed Jun-18-08 01:14 AM by feistylioness78
A nurse mentioned to me yesterday the Brennan was scheduled for a G tube on the 23rd. I had not heard anything about this at all. I knew he was put back on the schedule but did not know when. We had a meeting today and found out they scheduled it for this friday. We have no one to watch Justin for everyone already made plan for the week. This was the problem I had the last time when the scheduled. They explained how they do it but still the parents need to make arrangements.
Big brother Justin 8/04
Our little angel ^Alex Joseph^ 1.2 (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew 1.3
Christian Jacob 2.4
Born 11/04/07
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RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), MargieInAZ, Jun 18th 2008, #1
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), feistylioness78, Jun 18th 2008, #2
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), kylamel, Jun 18th 2008, #3
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), feistylioness78, Jun 18th 2008, #4
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RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), DebM, Jun 18th 2008, #10
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), madmolly, Jun 18th 2008, #27
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), 6_olive_shoots, Jun 19th 2008, #47
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), madmolly, Jun 18th 2008, #11
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), aeiomommy, Jun 18th 2008, #12
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), kristim81, Jun 18th 2008, #13
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), kylamel, Jun 18th 2008, #14
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RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), kylamel, Jun 18th 2008, #17
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), MSTAR, Jun 18th 2008, #19
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), madmolly, Jun 18th 2008, #22
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), feistylioness78, Jun 18th 2008, #31
RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT), cat_lover, Jun 18th 2008, #18
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MargieInAZ
Wed Jun-18-08 01:37 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
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#356130, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
Have you been spending four hours a day there, like they requested?
If so, how are you handling Justin and Christian then?
You only mentioned it's a problem with Justin. Where will Christian be?
Although it's definitely not ideal, maybe your boyfriend can stay home with Justin and you go to the surgery alone. Or could you bring him to the hospital with you, and one of you stay in the waiting room with Justin, taking turns to go into recovery with Brennan?
Margie, 43, single
GGG, Chloe, Brianna & Taylor
Born 3/6/07 at 30w1d
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feistylioness78
Wed Jun-18-08 03:20 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
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#356135, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 1
We have been going in more. However. this last week we were all sick so we have not been in. Christian is now allowed in the NICU because he is part of a set. Justin is still not allowed. If they would have told us in advance we could have arranged for someone to watch Justin. We just need to work it our again. I like to know ahead of time when one of my children is supposed to under the knife.
Big brother Justin 8/04
Our little angel ^Alex Joseph^ 1.2 (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew 1.3
Christian Jacob 2.4
Born 11/04/07
http://www.myspace.com/346442072
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kylamel
Wed Jun-18-08 05:28 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
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#356137, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 2
Seems like you guys are always sick. Excuses, excuses.
You WOULD know what is going on w/your poor little boy if you were at the hospital.
Like the pp suggested, take both kids to the hospital and you and your "significant other" can take turns sitting the kids in the waiting room while the other goes up. Simple enough.
Ok.. I will be eagerly awaiting your excuse for not being able to sit in a waiting room....
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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feistylioness78
Wed Jun-18-08 05:48 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
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#356139, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 3
Yeah here's one. They don't have a waiting room. Its a university hospital and the rooms they do have to be reserved. Whether we are in or not, there is such a thing as a phone. Yes, we have been sick a lot and this time it was all four of us at home. In fact Justin had an asthma attack because of it. We are not allowed in the NICU if we are sick. I don't give excuses I give facts.
Big brother Justin 8/04
Our little angel ^Alex Joseph^ 1.2 (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew 1.3
Christian Jacob 2.4
Born 11/04/07
http://www.myspace.com/346442072
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diaG
Wed Jun-18-08 05:56 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
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#356140, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 4
when my kids were in the NICU they provide gowns and masks for anyone that is not feeling 100% and of course anytime you would enter the NICU you need to scrub.
No waiting room.... is there a lobby??? How about your boyfriend staying home with the boys while you attend to your son in the hospital.
Diane
mom to
g 8/98
bbg 3/03
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Kealoha12
Wed Jun-18-08 07:17 PM
Member since Jan 11th 2008
274 posts
#356294, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 5
I just wanted to say that I have a toddler who was sick two weeks ago, and I started feeling like I was coming down with something. I wore a mask and a gown while at the NICU but some nurses kept telling me "You should not be here if you are sick." I felt awfully torn and a little hurt. I did not hold any of the babies for a week (it was VERY hard) and all I did was sit beside their isolettes until I was sure I was not going to get sick or sicker. However, I was lucky that whatever I had did not go past the scratchy throat stage. But if I were to get really sick (runny nose, fever, etc.) I would definitely stay away as I would NEVER risk getting my babies sick so I suppose I understand your inability to get to the NICU.
However, I'm not sure if you are doing this already but try to call the NICU at least once every shift so you can be informed when you are not around. I go to the NICU twice a day, and I still find myself calling if I had a question or concern. I have a notebook where I write everything down so I can keep up. I always ask the nurses "Any new orders for the boys? Any labs? Any procedures?" I may not understand everything but at least I am informed.
You are the best advocate for your kids so try to ask questions. Check in with the doctor even if you don't have any particular questions just to keep updated with what is going on.
Grace
Best big brother ever!
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lovemy5boys
Wed Jun-18-08 05:24 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
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#356274, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 4
I'm willing to say with about 99.9% certainty that this poor baby has some SERIOUS attachment issues since he's been alone most of the time since his birth. So sad...it WILL affect him the REST of his life!
proud mom to
DS 6
DS 3
BBB 9/29/06
Visit me at:
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ejhjbh
Wed Jun-18-08 12:45 PM
Member since May 12th 2008
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#356201, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 2
What type of hospital does not have a waiting room? I'm from a small town and the hospital that is 25 miles away has a waiting room, family room. Even the Dr.'s offices that we have there has some kind if room.
What did you mean by "Christian is now allowed in the NICU because he is part of a set". When my son was born @ 27.1 wks. My 2yr old WAS allowed in the NICU.
Could you NOT use words such as "under the knife" how about this; "I would like to know ahead of time when one of my children is suppose to have surgery".
I think I would look for a different Doctor, & hospital, such as a Childrens Hospital in your area. They have people there that will help you in situations such as this.
Maybe you need to look into having some help, to help you take care of your children. Try consulting Child Advocates. Not saying that any of these takes place in your home but I think you do need some kind of help. Maybe you'll not be so angry all the time either.
What child advocates do:
"One type of children's advocate typically represents or gives voice to an individual or group whose concerns and interests are not being heard. A child advocate will try to prevent children from being harmed and may try to obtain justice for those who have already been injured in some way. A child advocate may also seek to ensure that children have access to positive influences or services which will benefit their lives such as education, childcare and proper parenting. Malnutrition is another form of harm-there are many children who go to bed without eating and it is looked over by child welfare or the police."
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k3triplets
Wed Jun-18-08 08:44 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
365 posts
#356159, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
That's tough, but I do think fairly standard for hospitals. For good or for bad, they go with their schedule (mainly the doctors' schedules) and that is priority. Having worked in a hospital system, I know that as a family member, you have to just be super proactive and involved or else you will miss stuff. Even if you are sitting right there, you have to always be thinking one step ahead and asking the right questions. Try not to take it personally and just problem solve at this point. He needs you to be there and even though you now have to scramble, you can figure out a way to be there for him.
Hang in there - one day at a time.
Susanne
gbg @ 31.6
5/2006
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albentrip
Wed Jun-18-08 12:57 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
263 posts
#356205, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
Hospital scheduling is a pain and does not always fit into our ideal schedule. I would either divide and conquer (you go to hospital during surgery and leave other children home with your boyfriend) or all go and wait. When you have other kids sometimes you don't have a choice. I can't tell you how many times I've sent my DH off to the ER or Dr.'s visits without me and vice versa. I can also count the same number of times we've been in situations where all seven of us have been in waiting rooms/areas for one reason or another. That's life.
I think you've gotten some good advice about finding help in your situation. You need to be your child's advocate and stay on top of his care. Even if you can't get to the hospital everyday, call everyday or several times a day to get the latest information. You may already be doing this but it sounds like you've been left out of the loop.
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ourtriplets06
Wed Jun-18-08 02:10 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
244 posts
#356228, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
I will pray for him as I always have. I'm sure little Brennan will be fine...he's made it this far alone...Jesus will hold his hand.
Keep making excuses as you always do. Poor little guy!
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DebM
Wed Jun-18-08 02:46 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
815 posts
#356239, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
Can any of your family members that have "made plans" for the week already, change their plans? I find it sad that noone in your family will alter their schedule to help you out.
Another option - take Justin with you along with your boyfriend, or anyone else that can go and just let him walk up and down the hall way with someone always staying with him. Bring some toys, juice, cookies, etc. to keep him occupied.
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madmolly
Wed Jun-18-08 07:43 PM
Member since Oct 07th 2005
2088 posts
#356310, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 10
"Another option - take Justin with you along with your boyfriend, or anyone else that can go and just let him walk up and down the hall way with someone always staying with him."
Good point, Deb. Jonna can be there Friday and I can be there Monday, if you don't feel comfortable leaving one of us with your monkeys then maybe we can accompany the three of you and walk the halls with them. That way you could turn your attention to your little guy when he needs it the most and you will be able to check on us too!
I hope you will give it some serious consideration.
Lea
BGG 28.3 weekers
http://mccarthymayhem.blogspot.com/
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6_olive_shoots
Thu Jun-19-08 09:46 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
453 posts
#356419, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 27
That sounds like a great compromise! She would not be leaving the kids with strangers; she's right there with them while being free to concentrate on her little one. That is an extremely generous offer that will solve all the issues she brought up. You guys are awesome!
Feisty - really, this is a no-brainer. All your problems, solved!
Kari S.
Mom to BBB 17, 14, 10
BBG 9/25/01
My story of nursing triplets http://triplestuff.blogspot.com/2008/01/yes-i-nursed-my-triplets.html
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madmolly
Wed Jun-18-08 03:24 PM
Member since Oct 07th 2005
2088 posts
#356249, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
Wed Jun-18-08 03:27 PM by madmolly
Justin is not your child. He is not legally your child. He is not biologically your child. What did your boyfriend do to care for his son before you showed up in the picture last year? Revert back to that and go be with y-o-u-r child. You have a biologically related child, who is also currently your legal obligation. Go and take care of him.
You are taking on trouble that is not yours to share. You have a full enough plate without adding on to it someone elses child!!! Until you are married to his father, he is not your responsibility. Quite frankly, not that you asked, but your boyfriend appears to be quite an absentee father anyhow! Why are you hitching your wagon to that star??
Here's the thing: you have solutions to your "problems" but they are not appetizing to you. So instead, you chose to do nothing and let life make you the victim. People on here get tired of offering well intended advice only to have it ignored and have to hear about the train wreck that ensues!
"I have a headache."
Then go take a tylenol.
"Yeah, but I have a headache right now!"
Did you take a tylenol yet?
"Ummm...no, that would require me to get up. And I have a headache."
GO TAKE SOME FREAKIN' TYLENOL!!!
"Did I mention that my head aches?"
Do you see what I am getting at!?!? You have worn posters thin. What more do you want from us? I will be in San Diego on Monday. I will be there for four days. I will have no children, as I am coming out to see friends (YEAH!!! JONNA AND AMY!! I CAN'T WAIT!!!) but I will come and sit with Justin and Christain anytime, day or night, during those days if you can get that surgery pushed back. If not, I am offering to sit with your monkeys that ENTIRE TIME if need be, so that you can go see your son who needs his mommy. You say the word and I am there. Maybe you could make an appointment with a local MD to see if they can help you out with what appears to be either a postpartum depression or just a life circumstances concern. If you need me to, I will pay for it. You cannot continue on this way. Something's gotta give and it would be tradgic if it was at the expense of your son.
My cell: (619) 865-9977 (No belly weirdo's please, LOL!)
My email: mad_molly@msn.com
Lea
BGG 28.3 weekers
http://mccarthymayhem.blogspot.com/
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aeiomommy
Wed Jun-18-08 04:12 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1779 posts
#356259, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 11
Oh GOSH...I completly for got to call you back the last time you posted your phone number ....LOL...you will get a call when you least expect it.
Hey wanna come to Indiana to watch my kids...I don't care when...you can name the time and place.
Becky
Realtor in Ohio and Indiana
Emma,Amber,Ian 8/18/99
Olivia 9/29/00
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kristim81
Wed Jun-18-08 04:44 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
902 posts
#356265, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 11
I just had to say that this is pretty awesome of you to do this for her. You get a chance to get away from your kiddos, and you're willing to go sit with someone else's kids so that she can go spend time with her baby who really needs his mommy. How awesome is that?
Now let's just pray that she takes you up on your offer... I hope that something changes with her situation, and I hope that things at home are better than what we've seen here between the situation with her and the nicu visits.
Praying for those babies as always.
Kristi
BBG April 9, 2007
26 weekers, Elijah, Joey and Rowan
Big sister Kadence 4 years old
http://www.krististrio.blogspot.com
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kylamel
Wed Jun-18-08 05:03 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1902 posts
#356268, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 13
Of course she is not going to take Madmolly up on her offer.
How do I know this, you ask? Because she will say that she does not like strangers watching her kids.
P.S. - Madmolly, I live near NYC come watch my kids and I will hook you up with nice broadway tix!!!!
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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ejhjbh
Wed Jun-18-08 05:10 PM
Member since May 12th 2008
24 posts
#356270, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 13
I must agree. That is very nice of you to do something like this.
If she doesn't, then she really is playing all of us on here AGAIN!!!!
The ones that are suffering are her children, both biological and her "step-son" . Shame on her.
Child Advocate needs to step in on this one I think.
You know, each one of us come to this board for support, laughs, make friends. I came to this board in 1999, My DH & I went through IVF/ICSI to get our children. On Fathers Day 1999 I should my husband an Ultrasound of 3 embies (10 wks), by the time my 16th Ultrasound there were only 2. I continued here. Then at 27.1 wks ( both weighing 2 lbs; 4 oz). I delivered twins and only 1 survived. 96 days in the NICU. Now a healthy 8 1/2 yr. old.
When I read what she writes, it breaks my heart. I would give anything for my ^angel^ to be with us today. I have a saying "And then you wonder why......."
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kylamel
Wed Jun-18-08 05:47 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1902 posts
#356278, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 15
Here is a question for you Feisty - how do you find the time to belong to so many online sites and post so many questions on sites like TC, inspire and preemie parenting and not find the time to be with your beloved little NICU baby?
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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MSTAR
Wed Jun-18-08 06:23 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1682 posts
#356281, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 11
If she takes you up on that offer, I'll fly to Georgia and watch ALL YOUR MONKEYS for a MONTH! How does that sound?
But I'd bet every penny I have that I'm safe. I won't get to watch the KT after all.
The triplet MOMs in San Diego offered to watch her kids and DRIVE her to the NICU, but she turned them all down. Every last one of them. All I heard back from the San Diego MOMs was that she appeared to have "issues". Oh, NO KIDDING!
Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d
Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005
www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com
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madmolly
Wed Jun-18-08 06:59 PM
Member since Oct 07th 2005
2088 posts
#356288, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 19
Could you fly to GA anyways? I could use the company. *snif* I'm all alone out here. I miss Vegas. I miss Cali. Come on Michele!!! I'd do it for you!!!
*snif* Do it for the killer tomato...
Lea
BGG 28.3 weekers
http://mccarthymayhem.blogspot.com/
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feistylioness78
Wed Jun-18-08 08:44 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
584 posts
#356327, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 11
Its supposed to be at 3:30 friday. They moved it because the surgeon doing it was not going to be in town on the 23rd. They ran a bunch of tests today today looking for infection. Please Pm me.
Big brother Justin 8/04
Our little angel ^Alex Joseph^ 1.2 (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew 1.3
Christian Jacob 2.4
Born 11/04/07
http://www.myspace.com/346442072
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cat_lover
Wed Jun-18-08 05:49 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
259 posts
#356279, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
Wed Jun-18-08 05:50 PM by cat_lover
One of my daughters spent most of her NICU at a huge university hospital and we had some pretty bad communication problems with them. I learned that some people are good for certain information whereas others are not. The nurses were great for updates and basic info regarding how our daughter was doing. But, when it came to major things - like surgeries or other procedures - it was best to speak directly to the attending. In my case, I found that the NICU nurses and even the NP's were not kept informed about things like that, which is definitely wrong but it was the way this hospital operated. We also found that the attendings sometimes didn't even know what was going off, especially when they were trying to work with a different group of physicians (like surgeons) who round at different times. I know the NICU is a stressful time (believe me - my littlest was there for 12 weeks and for most of our time, our girls were split b/t 2 hospitals that were 2 hrs apart from each other). But, this issue isn't one that I'd get bent out of shape over - talk to the person in charge and hold them accountable if the information that you receive changes. I hope your son's procedure goes well.
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pixilee
Wed Jun-18-08 06:44 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1626 posts
#356285, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
I am willing to drive to San Diego to watch Justin and Christian this Friday so you can be with Brennan. No strings attached, just want you to be with your littlest fighter, he deserves to have his mama with him.
(951) 543-5589
Jonna
B 14
B 10
G (Stillborn Angel 4/16/05)
BGB 1/06 @ 27 wks
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madmolly
Wed Jun-18-08 06:57 PM
Member since Oct 07th 2005
2088 posts
#356287, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 20
I wonder if becky will prank call you too...LOL!
Seriously though, Jonna rocks hard. Valerie, she is a terrific mom of many and very well respected in her community. There are at least 15 or 16 TC members that know her IRL (present company included) and will vouch for her kind heart and parental compentency. You could not ask for a better sitter (or friend, in my humble opinion), except for maybe me!
Honestly, I held a daycare license in Riverside County (granted it's been a few years! LOL!). I am CPR certified and am very, very familiar with preemie health concerns. I am a mother of six children, whom I raise alone 90% of the time. I am made of hearty stock and I don't get easily overwhelmed. There are many, many members here who will vouch for me...including TiffaniRay who knows intimately the background checks I have endured as a result of my husband's career.
You have two terrific resources available to you. I hope you use them. If you'd like, I will give you numbers to some of the NICU and PICU nurses from the hospitals your children have stayed at that can offer references as to my family and character. I hope you will consider these options seriously.
Lea
BGG 28.3 weekers
http://mccarthymayhem.blogspot.com/
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Tasha
Wed Jun-18-08 07:06 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1706 posts
#356290, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 21
Hey I am mad at my public library. Who is going to come here and watch my kids so I can come deal with them for a few hours??? Wait I am also really need to vent about the nail salon and spa. They made all these schedules and didn't take my kids into account. What am I going to do? I can't handle all of this stress. Anyone? Anyone?
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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TiffaniRay
Wed Jun-18-08 07:27 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
3954 posts
#356298, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 21
Lea~ Yea, we had our share of opinions but I will surely vouch for you. You're working with Law Enforcement as well, correct?
Valerie~ I know you have checked the site recently. You don't have to officially login for the site to capture your IP address. Please take these women up on their offers. I'm seriously considering taking further action, I am NOT threatening you but as a LE officer it is my obligation to report stuff like this. Please don't let it come to that.
Tiffani & Ray(NJ)
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madmolly
Wed Jun-18-08 07:39 PM
Member since Oct 07th 2005
2088 posts
#356308, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 25
Yeah, I do work with law enforcement now. You got a mind like a steal trap, I tell you! LOL!
Lea
BGG 28.3 weekers
http://mccarthymayhem.blogspot.com/
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TiffaniRay
Wed Jun-18-08 07:53 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
3954 posts
#356312, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 26
I can fingerprint you if that'll help.
Tiffani & Ray(NJ)
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LRB
Wed Jun-18-08 08:01 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1109 posts
#356315, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 25
>Valerie~ I know you have checked the site recently. You
>don't have to officially login for the site to capture your IP
>address. Please take these women up on their offers. I'm
>seriously considering taking further action, I am NOT
>threatening you but as a LE officer it is my obligation to
>report stuff like this. Please don't let it come to that.
>
Something I've been thinking about every time she writes another diatribe...
If the hospital is recommending that she visit at least four hours a day and she goes for days - weeks - without visiting at all, and she's not making minimal effort to meet minimum expectations as a parent, and her medically fragile son is undergoing proceedures without a parent or loved one there - basically being raised by nurses working their shifts...and the list goes on...
She has NO excuses...NONE. She's turned help away...she'd rather be a victim than be there for her chidren!
It seems to me that social services or department of family and children's services or some guardianship or agency would have already been called in on his case!
Robin
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kylamel
Wed Jun-18-08 08:19 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1902 posts
#356318, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 29
I agree with Robin. I am shocked that Social Services has not been called already to step in for this child's welfare.
P.S. - if procedures are deemed medically necessary, can't the hospital make the decisions if the child basically has no parents (as in this case)?
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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MMM26
Wed Jun-18-08 08:52 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1177 posts
#356330, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 30
They probably already have, she may just not be telling the whole truth. And yes if Child Services takes it on as a case an official removal/adjudication case then they can get court orders for any necessary medical procedure that needs to be done for him. If its a voluntary case with no court involvement then the parents still have some say.
www.rehkoptriplets.blogspot.com
BBG born @30w1d
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hardentriplets
Wed Jun-18-08 09:35 PM
Member since Feb 27th 2008
573 posts
#356342, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
It took me awhile (because I don't want to judge someone too soon) but I'm catching on, fast! This is ridiculous your son's surgery has been recheduled once yet you want to reschedule it again?!? Your son needs this surgery and you by his side. It saddens me (not for you, your son) that you have been given great advice and welcoming help that you have continued to deny. You should be ashamed to come on here and give you excuses when there are others on here who have lost or would give anything to be a mother. I hope these comments to your post open your eyes and make you see that you need to start changing. It breaks my heart to know for 4 months a little boy has been laying in a hospital, rarely with his mother by his side. And it makes me mad for you to talk to us as if we're stupid or niave. What hospital doesn't have a waiting room, lobby, cafeteria or ANY KIND OF ROOM to sit in?
To the ladies who have offered to help, I give you BIG props! It shows what kind hearted women you are. And I hope she takes you up on your offer, because that little boys needs his mommy.
*MAGGIE*
Proud Momma X 3!!!
-Brody Paul 3lbs 10oz
-Logan Dean 4lbs
-Seth Franklin 2lbs 9oz
http://hardentriplets.blogspot.com/
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3petes
Wed Jun-18-08 09:55 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1044 posts
#356349, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 33
What she said.....
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MargieInAZ
Wed Jun-18-08 10:05 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
189 posts
#356355, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 33
>It breaks my heart to know for 4 months a
>little boy has been laying in a hospital, rarely with his
>mother by his side...
It's not for 4 months. Her sons are SEVEN MONTHS old now, 4 months adjusted.
Margie, 43, single
GGG, Chloe, Brianna & Taylor
Born 3/6/07 at 30w1d
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hardentriplets
Wed Jun-18-08 10:14 PM
Member since Feb 27th 2008
573 posts
#356359, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 35
OMG Even better, 7 months. You can tell I'm tired. It's just a sad situation and I hope she starts being there for him more.
*MAGGIE*
Proud Momma X 3!!!
-Brody Paul 3lbs 10oz
-Logan Dean 4lbs
-Seth Franklin 2lbs 9oz
http://hardentriplets.blogspot.com/
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MMM26
Wed Jun-18-08 10:55 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1177 posts
#356371, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 37
She wont. I've seen this pattern too many time with mothers like this, nothing will change no matter how you beg, plead, offer solutions, it wont change.
www.rehkoptriplets.blogspot.com
BBG born @30w1d
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abc52006
Wed Jun-18-08 10:10 PM
Member since Apr 20th 2008
139 posts
#356358, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 33
Please go be with your son. You have many offers from these wonderful women to help you out. Your son needs you.
If I have to, I will fly in from NY to help you.
Lynda
Mom to Alexa, Gianna & Louis Joel born 28.3 weeks on 5/20/06
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carrieroberts
Wed Jun-18-08 10:21 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
335 posts
#356360, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
I vowed I wouldn't get hooked in again. Clearly these children get Early Invervention Services through the San Diego Regional Center...or they should be. She has respite hours and caregivers available if she wanted them, for free from the County.
I too am so tired of the excuses. In the LA Times over the last couple of days there has been a horrible story of child abuse over the last two years. I hope to g-d that we aren't witnessing that here. I feel like calling San Diego Child Protection Services....I can't stand this anymore.
Carrie
Emma 1.2 lbs.
Spencer 3.3 lbs.
Jackson 3.4 lbs.
11/9/05
Check out our blog at http://robertstriplets.blogspot.com
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kristim81
Wed Jun-18-08 10:40 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
902 posts
#356364, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 38
I honestly can't believe someone hasn't done this already Carrie. 7 months that little guy has sat up in that nicu all alone. He deserves a mommy who will be there for him. And they also need to look into the other 2 children at home too. What a sad, sad situation. It truly breaks my heart.
Kristi
BBG April 9, 2007
26 weekers, Elijah, Joey and Rowan
Big sister Kadence 4 years old
http://www.krististrio.blogspot.com
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azwallace
Wed Jun-18-08 10:53 PM
Member since May 22nd 2007
991 posts
#356369, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
I tried to tell you that the nurses and doctors want to see you there all the time so that they KNOW that you can handle these boys at home. But you said, "They understand my situation." No, they don't.
It's frustrating to give someone advice who tries to pretend they know everything already...
Stephanie
Mama to Beautiful Quads
30 weeks, 5 days
and ^Angel Baby^ 1/05
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ejhjbh
Thu Jun-19-08 04:23 AM
Member since May 12th 2008
24 posts
#356386, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 40
I agree that SOMETHING needs to be done. Aren't the Nurses or Dr's suppose to report this type of situation? At least they would be looking out for this little one.
Maybe the one good thing out of this, is that he does have the nurses who (I know from my NICU) will give him the love and, hugs, that he's not getting from his "mother" if thats what she would like to call herself.
Someone here must know how to get this little one in the correct hands.
Em
4EverMySons
Andy
Ant
Mikes
My ^Angel^ above Dom.
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TiffaniRay
Thu Jun-19-08 05:47 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
3954 posts
#356387, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 42
Ladies, I am calling our CPS investigator today and she will be calling California division. I am tired of this. I am overwhelmed with emails from members who want to help her and when I forward them to her...CRICKETS. She did however deny one member last night so I know she is checking. I have all her info from when she joined TC. I also believe Brennan is either at Children's in San Diego or UCSD Hillcrest. And get this...they both have waiting rooms oh and lobbies, can you believe that?
I'm hoping this is a cry for help from Valerie. There is no need to be ashamed if it is. Some people can't straight out just ask. CPS has programs that will help. Just because you call them does not mean the child will be taken away. I have also saved copies of all her "WOE IS ME" posts and will be sending them in as well. If anyone feels other information needs to be passed along that I am missing please PM me.
Tiffani & Ray(NJ)
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diaG
Thu Jun-19-08 06:07 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
330 posts
#356388, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 43
Thank goodness!!! Thank you Tiff, something has to be done for these children.
Diane
mom to
g 8/98
bbg 3/03
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ejhjbh
Thu Jun-19-08 08:45 AM
Member since May 12th 2008
24 posts
#356409, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 44
THANK YOU!!!!!
Someone needs to protect and speak for these children.
Em
4EverMySons
Andy
Ant
Mikes
^Angel^ above Dom.
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Tasha
Thu Jun-19-08 10:24 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1706 posts
#356428, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 44
Tiffani are you saying she turned the offers down when she asked them to go to private messages? Don't worry Diane I will say it. I will be shocked if the children exist. She can't have people showing up because there are no kids to see. That is why she turned down all offers from the San Diago MOMs and none of them have ever seen any of the triplets only her older son. I am sorry any wacko can show up at a MOMs dinner with an older child and SAY she has infants in the hospital. That is proof of nothing.
OK I am ready for the flames. Bring them on. Many are thinking it. I just said it.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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Triplethefun04
Thu Jun-19-08 10:30 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
637 posts
#356429, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 51
My thoughts exactly if she turns down this help! Seriously! Who would turn down this kind of offer when they claim to be in such a bind. A FAKER THAT'S WHO!!
I can totally see this chick as being someone who doesn't even have triplets, just wants the attention that comes with having them! I can totally see that her myspace pics as fake also. Some other random kid or kids that she may have visited or related to.
It's getting smelly around here...
Michelle
(formerly known as bsebllmom9 )
Tyler 17!!
Steph 15!!
Ayden, Ryley & Dylan 3 years!!
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TiffaniRay
Thu Jun-19-08 02:59 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
3954 posts
#356528, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 51
Yes. I have 16 PM's in my inbox right now in ref to her. Her answer to most of them is "I'LL LET YOU KNOW". WTF is that? A simple yes or no would suffice. Then she said on another one that she had to take to her husband (or whatever he is) cause it was up to him. ?!?!?! I just don't know anymore. I did however contact the CA CPS Hotline. I gave the info I have on her and her children. I'm not doing this to hurt her, I want to see her get help and CPS has programs that can help. Oh and there is a baby named Brennan at Hillcrest. No last name was given and I totally understand that. Sucks that I am on the East Coast and a 3 hour time difference. Keep the PM's coming.
Tiffani & Ray(NJ)
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kristim81
Thu Jun-19-08 09:26 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
902 posts
#356417, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 43
Thank you SO much Tiffany. I really hope that she gets the help that she needs.
Kristi
BBG April 9, 2007
26 weekers, Elijah, Joey and Rowan
Big sister Kadence 4 years old
http://www.krististrio.blogspot.com
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6_olive_shoots
Thu Jun-19-08 09:52 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
453 posts
#356422, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 43
Bless you, Tiffany. I also hope she gets the help she needs, and especially that the kids get what they need.
Kari S.
Mom to BBB 17, 14, 10
BBG 9/25/01
My story of nursing triplets http://triplestuff.blogspot.com/2008/01/yes-i-nursed-my-triplets.html
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anxiousabuela
Thu Jun-19-08 10:11 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
554 posts
#356423, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 43
Although it is difficult to sort out her stories and difficult to know fact from fiction, CPS may be well aware of the situation - if exists as stated. There are children kept in hospitals - nicknamed 'boarder babies' who are kept under medical guise due to home situations. We were once called to foster one. I asked permission to begin to spend time with her in the hospital to get to know her and her medical needs before bringing her home. I tried to make it at feeding times and one evening the man next door knocked on the door and commented his child had been there for two weeks and he never saw anyone come visit before we had begun. Although she was not a preemie, once we got her home and had kept her for a few weeks, we realized she had no medical needs at all. It was simply ignorance and apathy on the part of her parents.....
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feistylioness78
Thu Jun-19-08 01:33 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
584 posts
#356489, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 50
I did not turn down the help. My friend is going to watch Justin. And besides it not me that only makes the decsions they have a father as well that does not want people he does not know watching his children.
Big brother Justin 8/04
Our little angel ^Alex Joseph^ 1.2 (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew 1.3
Christian Jacob 2.4
Born 11/04/07
http://www.myspace.com/346442072
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LRB
Thu Jun-19-08 01:44 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1109 posts
#356494, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 59
Find your spine!
The father of children had rather his medically fragile child in the hospital be alone to be loved and raised by nurses working shifts while you and him are not getting to know the child the the child certainly isn't getting to know you and the two of you are enabling each others poor decision making skills by saying that he doesn't want people he doesn't know watching his children? Do you not see the hypocrisy in that statement? I can't wait for the nice strangers in the foster care system to take over!
It sounds like NEITHER of you are making any decisions!
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kylamel
Thu Jun-19-08 01:46 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1902 posts
#356496, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 59
Tell your story walking sista!
Stop coming here with your BS rants and excuses. All you do is complain about how noone is around to help you and when women on this site offer to take THEIR free time to help you out you refuse it?
Get out of here. I hope that you have been reported to CPS and your kids are taken from you!
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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MMM26
Thu Jun-19-08 02:35 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
1177 posts
#356519, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 61
Notice how there are no responses by Fiesty about the CPS comments made to her on this thread. Makes me wonder if they are already involved here, heck maybe she has already had the chilren removed and is just faking that she still has them. Hmmmmmmmm.......
www.rehkoptriplets.blogspot.com
BBG born @30w1d
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kylamel
Thu Jun-19-08 09:51 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1902 posts
#356420, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
WOW all of these wonderful offers and no response from Feisty.
What Feisty, someone calls your bluff and you run away?
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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Teamtriple
Thu Jun-19-08 10:58 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
63 posts
#356431, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 48
FAKER FAKER FAKER
This GIRL clearly has a mental issue. If she truely has kids, they should be taken away from her.......NOW!!!!!
I live almost 3 hours away from this liar and have 5 kids, but I would even be willing to help her out while her son, "GOES UNDER THE KNIFE", if in fact I thought she was real. What kind of mom would even say that!?!? WTF!!
MENTAL CASE!
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kristim81
Thu Jun-19-08 11:02 AM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
902 posts
#356434, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 53
Actually she is real. That has been confirmed by several people. This is just a really sad situation...
Kristi
BBG April 9, 2007
26 weekers, Elijah, Joey and Rowan
Big sister Kadence 4 years old
http://www.krististrio.blogspot.com
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Teamtriple
Thu Jun-19-08 11:05 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
63 posts
#356436, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 55
Just because there are pics of her holding babies on her myspace doesn't make them real. She could have held anyones kids....
Tracy
Proud Mom to Triplets Plus Two....
Shelby, Jerry, Taylor
Jeremy and Sierra
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feistylioness78
Thu Jun-19-08 01:46 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
584 posts
#356499, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 56
Yeah wearing hospital attire as my son dies. NICE!!!!
Big brother Justin 8/04
Our little angel ^Alex Joseph^ 1.2 (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew 1.3
Christian Jacob 2.4
Born 11/04/07
http://www.myspace.com/346442072
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kylamel
Thu Jun-19-08 01:48 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1902 posts
#356500, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 62
People are starting to not believe you.
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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feistylioness78
Thu Jun-19-08 01:50 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
584 posts
#356501, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 63
I never said I was not going to go. It just would have been nice to have notice so things could be arranged. I will be there most likely by myself.
Big brother Justin 8/04
Our little angel ^Alex Joseph^ 1.2 (11-4/11-5)
Brennan Matthew 1.3
Christian Jacob 2.4
Born 11/04/07
http://www.myspace.com/346442072
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kylamel
Thu Jun-19-08 01:52 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1902 posts
#356503, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 64
Oh, "by yourself", kinda like how your poor little boy has been since he has been born? Oh, no, wait.. he is not by himself, he is with his mothers... the nurses I mean. While his real "mother" is off on the internet chatting it up with people on TC, inspire, myspace and others. GReat MOM!!!
Melanie
BGB born at 32 weeks in 2005
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LRB
Thu Jun-19-08 01:57 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1109 posts
#356504, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 64
You should be there ANYWAY EVERY DAY surgery or not. The surgery has already been rescheduled once. This child is 7 months old - you've had SEVEN MONTHS to make arrangements so that you can VISIT the child EVERY DAY in the hospital. You can't even meet the expected minimum the doctors and nurses have asked of you. Why should the schedule a medically fragile child's surgery around the convenience of a parent who doesn't bother to visit?
Please save your stories for social services.
Robin
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MargieInAZ
Thu Jun-19-08 02:30 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
189 posts
#356517, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 64
So, when you say "by yourself" I take it your "DH" isn't going? What's he got to do better than be there to support his little son while he's going "under the knife" as you so eloquently put it? Working? If Justin were having surgery, would he be there then?
When's the last time he went to the hospital, anyway? Has he been in '08?
I think it's time you thought about taking your two babies and getting out of that situation, before they are taken from you...
I don't have a DH at all - I used a sperm donor to get pregnant - and I have to say, I'm much, much better off than you. Step off the plate and be a mother to your children, or LET THEM GO!
Margie, 43, single
GGG, Chloe, Brianna & Taylor
Born 3/6/07 at 30w1d
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Tasha
Thu Jun-19-08 03:00 PM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
1706 posts
#356529, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 63
Yep starting to not believe her is an understatement. It will take more than someone seeing one baby and one older child while she leaves for a bit or to see her sit in a waiting room for me to buy she was PG was triplets at this point. A known member of TC or the San Diego MOMs would have to be present when she talked to the Drs at the hospital and have the Dr refer to her as MOM and refer to the children as triplets at this point. Sad isn't that I am THAT skeptical because of all her drama.
Oh and as for photo proof. Here are my quads and 2 sets of twins. LOL Yep I have pictures of each child from birth till now. Can provide it all. wanna see. Have all the photo proof you want. They are all mine. LOL (for those questioning only 4 are really mine g/g/b triplets and singlton G. twins and 1 boy are my older brothers and one girl is my younger brothers. But I have enough photos to make it look like g/g/b/b/ quads, g/g/ twins and b/b twins and all mine on myspace.)
I have visited at least 3 other sets of triplets in the hospital since mine were born and have pictures. Even had to gown up to hold one set that wasn't my own. Damn I could be the ultimate faker. Quads, 2 sets of twins and 3 sets of triplets and all the sets of twins I have pics of from the club as well. I am one fertile woman. Don't question me. I have photo proof.
Tasha
Julia, Megan and Alex 7/00
Abby 12/02
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hardentriplets
Thu Jun-19-08 11:01 AM
Member since Feb 27th 2008
573 posts
#356433, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 0
I know some of you are wondering whether these babies really exist. I went to her myspace and looked at her pictures. The babies exist, which makes me, and now everyone else on here wonder why she's turning down all the help. Something's definitly up though.
*MAGGIE*
Proud Momma X 3!!!
-Brody Paul 3lbs 10oz
-Logan Dean 4lbs
-Seth Franklin 2lbs 9oz
http://hardentriplets.blogspot.com/
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Triplethefun04
Thu Jun-19-08 11:37 AM
Member since Jul 18th 2005
637 posts
#356442, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 54
Great thing about the internet - you can get pictures from anywhere and pass them off as your own. As we've seen MANY times around here! Heck there was a chick that had her own myspace with someone else's triplets and son on it!!
So just because she has a myspace doesn't mean jack! We need people that HAVE ACTUALLY SEEN THESE BABIES IN REAL LIFE to believe anything this woman says! Like someone else said, anyone can go to a MOMs dinner/meeting and say she has multiples and that they're in the hospital. But until someone actually sees these babies and absolute 100% proof that they belong to her, no one is going to believe her!!!
Michelle
(formerly known as bsebllmom9 )
Tyler 17!!
Steph 15!!
Ayden, Ryley & Dylan 3 years!!
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Jessicaplus3
Thu Jun-19-08 12:05 PM
Member since Nov 05th 2007
537 posts
#356448, "RE: peeved at the hospital (VENT)"
In response to Reply # 57
I haven't been on much at all lately but this just doesn't surprise me at all. I told Maggie (HardenTriplets) who I am good friends with that there was something wrong with her from the get go.
Its kind of funny but every time I do log on this thought runs through my head....what drama has feisty posted about, and sure enough there she is law suits, issues with doctors, etc.
My heart goes out to her little ones if they even exist.
I will say...you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. Some people enjoy being a "Victim" and the attention they hope to get. Obviously, she is one of those!
I hope CPS does step in and do something about this situation. I wish I could come get them!
Jess
Jess
Proud Mommy of Cale, Cooper and Colter
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